I have been having a think about the dynamics and boundaries between R & J.
As a strong assed woman I found myself in a volatile relationship,
This may divide people, he used to abuse me, physically, verbally, emotionally, some times I gave as good as I got, mostly verbally, but some times I fought him back physically.
I always ended up worse off.
I have remained single now for over 10 years because of the trauma that relationship.
I believe R & J are a match made in heaven, they are equally controlling and manipulating, she behaves like a 15 yr old and him a moody teenager, the arguing with E this last week was silly, why is a 42 yr old entertaining arguing with a child of 6.
We all think he is a moody man but when he allows her to take pictures and videos of him half dressed, that to me tells me he lives the attention.
There comes a point where as her husband he can say, Enough is enough. But it’s clear he doesn’t. He enjoys the insta attention as much as she does.
I don’t care to speculate about the kids/absent parents/ courts As I have personally gone through something similar years ago, it’s far to complex.
But Rach should be clear about who her birth children are, I & S know she is not their mum.
From experience, her claiming them as her biological kids is going to come back and bite her and Josh on the ass, how old is S now, 14/15? Not long until 18 where he can make his own mind up.
It will all hit the fan at some point.
Sorry for long rant.
As a strong assed woman I found myself in a volatile relationship,
This may divide people, he used to abuse me, physically, verbally, emotionally, some times I gave as good as I got, mostly verbally, but some times I fought him back physically.
I always ended up worse off.
I have remained single now for over 10 years because of the trauma that relationship.
I believe R & J are a match made in heaven, they are equally controlling and manipulating, she behaves like a 15 yr old and him a moody teenager, the arguing with E this last week was silly, why is a 42 yr old entertaining arguing with a child of 6.
We all think he is a moody man but when he allows her to take pictures and videos of him half dressed, that to me tells me he lives the attention.
There comes a point where as her husband he can say, Enough is enough. But it’s clear he doesn’t. He enjoys the insta attention as much as she does.
I don’t care to speculate about the kids/absent parents/ courts As I have personally gone through something similar years ago, it’s far to complex.
But Rach should be clear about who her birth children are, I & S know she is not their mum.
From experience, her claiming them as her biological kids is going to come back and bite her and Josh on the ass, how old is S now, 14/15? Not long until 18 where he can make his own mind up.
It will all hit the fan at some point.
Sorry for long rant.
