I don't think she's bothered about him enough to be patronised by it and to be fair, she loves being fed, it's like their main love language. She's always the happiest with him when he's made her food. She practically slobbers "bubs," when he's cooked.
(He's very strange over food & nutrition. I used to think he was controlling her with it, but he does it with the kids also. She's said a few times he gets annoyed when the kids eat before meals etc, honestly who cares as long as they eat. He's always up her arse with smoothies and vitamins etc. I just think it's the only role he has that makes him feel needed because he's useless at everything else.)