PTWM #201 Wilby tried a piece of sausage

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FridaK

Basically she's blaming her behaviour on Wayne. Reactive abuse is where you snap back at your abuser and they turn it around onto you. Gaslighting for instance, saying "well you punched me back, you are just as bad as me." Inside the abusive relationship it then becomes hard to pick out who did what and therefore the relationship becomes "mutually abusive."

However, that does not extend to how she treats Josh, the kids, her relatives, current or ex friends, even her followers to some point (take for instance her Mother, who she bullies a lot.) She can't claim that her attitude outside the relationship with Wayne is reactive abuse. Once the initial relationship has ended the reactionary behaviour should stop. If it doesn't, it's more likely that the relationship was mutually abusive rather than one party reacting the other parties behaviour.

There is the old saying that "Abusers go on to abuse," and whilst that is sometimes a factor in victims of child abuse (because the brain isn't fully developed at the time of the abuse, it can cause damage to the Amygdala for instance.) In adulthood it's assumed you are developed and mature enough to know right from wrong.

(Thanks for attending my GCSE psychology lecture . I'm here on retainer.)
 
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Saltypopcorn

She just loves churning out same old, same old, time and time again doesn't she? Never 'known' anyone to live so much in the past when they apparently live a great life and have everything and everyone they need. Why regurgitate the 'truth' (ahem) constantly? These huns are a sucker for a lie or ten and clearly have nothing else to focus their tiny little minds on.
 
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Bennington12

For most people who have lived through such trauma, it is exhausting to talk and think about. I also wouldn’t want to be known solely for my past or the trauma. She’s always one to harp on about things such as my past doesn’t define me yet here she is harping on about her “truth” every chance she gets with an added twist each time. I’m all for awareness and advocating for change but if she’s the voice for change we are all screwed

ETA: also baffles me how she can turn literally anything into an excuse to share her story… memememememememememememe!
 
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Dorothy-redshoes

I think alot of the huns use her page as a form of "Jeremy kyle" and "take a break" outlet because that's exactly what it is. They just love gossip and drama
 
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Donut26

Ratshit is rather quiet on stories the last couple of days. Having a meltdown at the chrolls/tt or just loving silky the hardest ever?
 
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Rosie55

What really upsets me about the incident is, there are real people in this world who are suffering from CPTSD, Anxiety, Depression and she writes this shit. I get so angry about the fact ( as has been said here ) it was all over ( basically) ass wipe not agreeing with her. She should try understanding someone who really does suffer. She boils my piss, and curdles my guts. Sorry tattlers but PTSD is very close to home for me and this shiester is nothing but an effing fraud.
 
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Wotsit

Crazymum said:
Don’t think she was sliding down bannisters at school aged 21 bloody liar.
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I thought she had the weight of the word on her shoulders when she was 14 like I is. Wasn't she abandoned by her mum, living with her brother, in a bed sit, in foster care, in the dining room of her mates house, while also doing drugs in nightclubs every weekend because she had no parental figure looking out for her. Wasn't she also carrying drugs up and down the country by National Rail (#ad) for men in their 40s ... now she was also sliding down school banisters with not a care in the world (at 21 years of age) whilst in a DA relationship with waynbo and single handley raising his 3 daughters for him.

I'm confused Rach
 
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MrsOgre

Webl socks

Sorry but can't remember is this normal practise to have regular meetings with his teacher? If they actually fed him proper meals at home with the family instead of shoving a bag of crisps and an ipad at him, he wouldn't need a one to one writing out the war and peace version of his food diary.
 
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Lucyinthesky88

Crazymum said:
Don’t think she was sliding down bannisters at school aged 21 bloody liar.
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You just know she’s the parent that will tell her kids the rules are stupid and encourage them to disrespect teachers because they’re beneath her entitled shitty kids.
 
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thedragon

Do we think she's bringing out her own socks so every family she helps can have loads for free?? Or so her Huns can buy some webl socks for her causes??
 
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GoldenGoss18

Crazymum said:
Don’t think she was sliding down bannisters at school aged 21 bloody liar.
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I thought she was a forced domesticated prisoner by 19 raising her step children and brothers kids? Doesn’t sound very carefree to me. I reckon that is lie number 92649371
 
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nottrollin82

She uses 3 different tenses in the first paragraph. Pfffft, she’d definitely give Stephen King a run for his money with her horror stories

‘I’ve had, I have never, I’m writing, I’ll forever be healing’. Love, go away and learn a grammar course for f sake it’s painful.

Forever a tiny turned in toes bubs x
 
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Bennington12

Stephen King would be in awe of such an inspirational woman like our Rach! Turning her once incredibly abusive life around and helping thousands and thousands of women and their children across the world Torbay as well as being the voice and advocate for change. There will be a Netflix movie about her life before long
 
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InchSchlong

We have quite regular meetings with our sons teacher and get a daily verbal handover.
The meetings are to see how he's getting on, review his targets for the term and set them for the upcoming term. The targets have remained the same since July last year, to have him regulated enough to stay in the classroom for the whole day.

Can be quite normal, but R is still a twat.
 
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katesbess

Ugh. Twat.
Might have to go back to 2021 on here to see the truth of that time.
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I would never send any of the woman we help to her page. It's actuslly a constant worry to me to think how many victims are sent, or come across her page.
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She swings from waxing lyrical about her big fucking clan fam. To then oh no,heaven forbid you have to cater gor them and their mates. Get over yourself St Savour of Knobheads. For a start half babies are at an age they can,if deemed a née cook for themselves on occassion.
 
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bestjobbeinggrandma

I think, as you say, it is quite normal to have brief playground chats with teachers or target meetings etc. I also imagine that the vast majority of good parents back up/reinforce/support the targets and help given to their little people away from school because that’s what parenting is all about
Difference is, these parents just crack on with it, work bloody hard to help their children and don’t make it all about them
Would luv to know the staff room chat about her SM shenanigans
 
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