100%. When i left home, I never face timed my brother to watch TV. I just messaged him every now and then.The fact that she calls her siblings every day, not even to chat to them but to watch TV etc......that sounds like a someone that is concerned for her siblings welfare when she's not physically present to help them. Their whole family dynamic is off.
I do feel for betsy. She's had so much thrown at her and I know a lot of people think she's a witch/rude/entitled or whatever but she is, as pointed out by Rachael, a product of her environment.
I honestly hope she has the best time in Thailand and has loads of enjoyable experiences.