I’m only on this mornings rant and have so many pages to catch up on but I’d just like us all to for a minute put ourselves in their shoes (I know - awful but humour me). Let’s image you are an influencer
![Nauseated face :nauseated_face: 🤢](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f922.png)
and you’ve made it pretty successful (in monetary terms, evident by the Gucci and Jimmy Choos) and you’ve set up a CIC and some other little companies and you are a ‘legit’ person and you are giving to charity and helping DV victims, you’ve written some best selling books, and you’ve worked really really really hard on the internet that you’ve been able to fulfil your husbands wishes to spend more time at home with his kids (remember humour me, I know this isn’t true for wino), and one day you discovered that there’s a website full of people questioning how you’ve made your money, the legitimacy of your businesses and if your husband is actually on a career break. Me, I’d be devastated. I like to think I’m a pretty ok person so to read the things that we question her on, I’d be heartbroken. What I would not be doing is winding people up to make the website grow in numbers and make the comments worse. I’d be finding out how I could prove every one wrong and put an end to the ‘lies’ once and for all. I would not be dressing head to toe in designer gear, renovating my house, buying pillows and reed diffusers for a kid staying for 6 days. I’d be digging out my husbands career break letter, some references from registered services of numbers of women I’d helped and I’d be asking my accountant how I show financially that I am legit.
phew - now I can go back to not pretending I’m married to a wino.
edited to add: apparently I’m on yesterdays comments FFS. I have more to catch up on than I thought
![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f602.png)
![Woman facepalming: medium-light skin tone :woman_facepalming_tone2: 🤦🏼♀️](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f926-1f3fc-2640.png)