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Yeh lines of coke too!
Yeh lines of coke too!She is obsessed with lines !
Stay safe and if you can get out safely please do. Please report back when you can. Biggest hug xxxxxMy partner has threatened to slit my throat in front of my children tonight, I'm on the floor in my youngest child's room, so they feel safe. In the past I turned to shambleton for help - only to be ignored.
This will be the last night we stay here, one way or another. At breaking point. Sorry to post on here x
I'm ok at the moment, can't do anything until morning now. Thank you for replying, don't feel so aloneStay safe and if you can get out safely please do. Please report back when you can. Biggest hug xxxxx
You're right, she is an absolute disgrace & gives a bad name to all others who genuinely help victims of domestic abuse.She shouldn’t even be taking photos of the work that the group have done. It’s confidential and she should be safeguarding these ladies, some who will be very vulnerable, spent years at the hands of their abuser and never dared say no. These ladies are essentially putting their trust in her that she will keep them safe yet here she is sharing their most private thoughts with all her followers. How can they begin to heal when she’s abusing their trust, putting them in a position where yet again they can’t say no for fear of backlash. Might seem like nothing to you Rambo but to them it could be everything.
when is it ever ok to share something private with people you don’t know? Even with permission it’s morally wrong to think that it’s acceptable to share others most personal thoughts.
Feel like I’m repeating myself now but I just can’t get my head around how she thinks it’s ok to share, do any other DV support groups or charities do this?
Rambo, you’re an insult to all those hard working people that are trying to help vulnerable women rebuild their lives and if you’ve really been a victim of DV them you should know better. You are a danger to every single one of those people that come to you for help, it’s not a fiction book or a tv programme it’s real life. Get over yourself.
Is he in the house? What county are you in?I'm ok at the moment, can't do anything until morning now. Thank you for replying, don't feel so alone
Yes he is. South West xxIs he in the house? What county are you in?
Can you text anyone for help? Turn all sound off so.it doesn't alert him.Yes he is. South West xx
He's passed out drunk now, I'll be ok until the morning now, just hate seeing my children upset by him. Thank you for replying, it means a lot atm xxxC
Can you text anyone for help? Turn all sound off so.it doesn't alert him.
How many kids and please take care? Go and leave everything. Just get out safe. Have you friends or family locally? Safe place to go xHe's passed out drunk now, I'll be ok until the morning now, just hate seeing my children upset by him. Thank you for replying, it means a lot atm xxx
I've 2 children, I will do in the morning, I'm packing essentials now, the rest will stay. We'll find somewhere to go, be it friends or hotel.How many kids and please take care? Go and leave everything. Just get out safe. Have you friends or family locally? Safe place to go x
you're doing the right thing. But dont bother with essentials etc dont risk waking him. Lie low, rest if you can and be ready to get out asap tomorrow. Police first thing and get out. Kids will be ok. Xxxxxxxxxxx message as soon as you safely can. Biggest hug. Totally understand why you cant run now.I've 2 children, I will do in the morning, I'm packing essentials now, the rest will stay. We'll find somewhere to go, be it friends or hotel.
He found out he's being made redundant today, things escalated from there.
Now he's asleep I'm calmer.
Hate my life xx
Are you & your children together in one room?My partner has threatened to slit my throat in front of my children tonight, I'm on the floor in my youngest child's room, so they feel safe. In the past I turned to shambleton for help - only to be ignored.
This will be the last night we stay here, one way or another. At breaking point. Sorry to post on here x
Thank you, just feel for xhildren seeing this,you're doing the right thing. But dont bother with essentials etc dont risk waking him. Lie low, rest if you can and be ready to get out asap tomorrow. Police first thing and get out. Kids will be ok. Xxxxxxxxxxx message as soon as you safely can. Biggest hug. Totally understand why you cant run now.
I'm in room with my youngest and older child in room next door. They're both asleep finally.Are you & your children together in one room?
If you are, barricade yourself in the room.
Put furniture against the door.
Are you using a computer or do you have your phone with you?
Phone the police now. They will remove him, arrest him, then you can get your belongings together & leave.
The police will put help you to leave & get to a safe place tonight.
Please don't wait until the morning. Get out asap.
Keep yourself & your children safe, which you obviously are.Thank you, just feel for xhildren seeing this,
I promised them, when they heard him say that, we will leave and this time we will. Thsnk you for caring at this ungodly hour.
Knowing I'm not alone is comfort.
Night xxx
I'm in room with my youngest and older child in room next door. They're both asleep finally.
He's passed out completely drunk now downstairs.
Xx
Local authorities have procedures where a person in position of trust (pipot) is perpetrating abuse… maybe a referral would be beneficialI just can't fathom how, after what I'm guessing will have been quite a hard time for someone attending a course relating to DV, the 'professional' who is conducting the course then goes over to the attendees and says can I have permission to share this online?! Yet again no boundaries. She can't even do that job right can she. Yes the person may have said yes, that's after probably having brought up lots of emotions shes put in a corner by a 'professional' in a position of trust. I don't know what will ever make her realise just how inappropriate she is, what will it take?
Do you know how this referral is done & to whom?Local authorities have procedures where a person in position of trust (pipot) is perpetrating abuse… maybe a referral would be beneficial
I've accepted his apologies prob 25 times in our relationship, tonight was first time that he's threatened me in front of my children (prev relationship), that was too much.Keep yourself & your children safe, which you obviously are.
But, if you phone the police now, they will remove him.
Then you and your children will be safe for tonight & you can make plans to stay in a safe place, where he can’t find you.
Please don't wait until he sobers up & apologises, he's capable of carrying out this threat. You & a your children deserve better than this.
So glad that you phoned the police.I've accepted his apologies prob 25 times in our relationship, tonight was first time that he's threatened me in front of my children (prev relationship), that was too much.
Have now phoned for help, waiting on police to arrive, need to be strong.
Thank you for being here for me
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