Another weekend another piss up and another adult sleepover. Like someone has said that not a family home, that’s chaos. There’s nothing settled, homely or loving in that household. I feel incredibly sorry for all children living in that household. I only hope they grow up and break the cycle with their own kids.
the nanny, I believe, is for R to feel some sort of extra special status in the local area that she has enough wealth for a nanny. Because it surely can’t be to look after W, she already has enough people doing that for her! W does not need to be shipped off anywhere for help, he is manageable, if a teenager can look after him successfully he doesn’t need a nanny, he doesn’t need specialist attention, he needs his parents to give him rules, boundaries and love.