Couldn’t agree with these comments more. My son is 13 and exactly the same, with me and his dad he’s a typical 13 year old but with anyone else he’s extremely quiet and unconfident, even other family members. The complete opposite of how T is. I know all children will cope differently but how she acts makes it very difficult to guess that she has anxiety, she’s constantly playing upto the camera etcMy son is the same. I'm his safe space and he's comfortable with me and his dad. Around anyone else, he completely goes in on himself and the barrackade goes up. So yeah, I'd say that's not unusual for a child with anxiety because ur their safe haven