So. I think I’ve made a mistake… if anyone needs a reminder the one who really wants a girl is me.
I had my NHS 12 weeks scan on Monday, and it turns out I’m 13 weeks. On the pictures it really does look like a girl, the nub is very flat, not angled up at all and I do think it’s a girl from that.
I went for a 13 week early gender scan last night, and she said it’s “100% a boy”. How can you say 100%? At 13 weeks! Even the NHS can never say that much further on. She said it’s “her business, she’s been doing it for ages and she’s 100% sure, otherwise she wouldn’t let me leave”. Naturally, I was teary. Shock tears. It’s the first time I’d actually considered the possibility it was a boy. Getting home however, I’ve read 10+ reviews of her being wrong, giving the wrong gender. So not sure why she keeps saying 100% lol. I will say, the nub on the printed picture from this scan is way more angled! It’s like two different babies seriously.
My head was up my arse, getting all upset. My poor partner trying to make me feel better, but not knowing how. So I’ve woke up today realising I need to basically disregard her opinion, 13 weeks IS too early to be taking the answer as fact, and this woman is less than reliable. I just shouldn’t have gone really! It has also made me realise though I do need to get my head around the fact you don’t always get what you “want” and a boy is a blessing too. So just gonna shut up, relax, and focus on baby. Whatever will be, will be. I spoke to my dad (he’s a tough love approach) and he firstly asked me what I’m doing messing around with gender scans so early, and then told me to grow up, which I will do. With immediate effect