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So at 34 + 5 curiosity got the better of me and I decided to weigh myself this morning.

Yeah, won't be doing that in a hurry again lol šŸ™ƒšŸ™ˆ
 
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37 weeks and went for a scan and baby is breached šŸ™ˆ they are going to try and manually turn her next week but if not it will be a c section. Found the whole thing very over whelming the consultant started talking to me about the risks of everything. As much as I didnā€™t have a birth plan I always assumed I would try and give birth vaginally with it being my first but itā€™s not even an option if she stays breached. Canā€™t tell if itā€™s my hormones or if itā€™s normal to be this emotional about it. Has anyone had a breached baby last minute?
 
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I havenā€™t but there is a useful website called spinning babies which has lots of helpful tips and exercises to bring baby into the correct position! Good luck.
 
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Baby GG was born on the 20th April at 36+5 so slightly premature! Total shock as my waters went spontaneously at home at 3am in the morning. I laboured pretty quickly from 4cm to fully dilated but then baby would just not come out despite me trying my hardest! In the end I was rushed to theatre for a spinal and they attempted kiwi cup and forceps to no avail so baby was born via emergency c section! It was a total relief in the end after suffering fully dilated contractions for quite some time and they struggled to get the spinal in whilst I was having them šŸ˜–

itā€™s such a surreal feeling and as odd as it sounds I canā€™t believe my pregnancy is suddenly over and I really miss my bump! Baby blues is also a very real thing. Newborn cuddles however are so special šŸ„°
 
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37 weeks and went for a scan and baby is breached šŸ™ˆ they are going to try and manually turn her next week but if not it will be a c section. Found the whole thing very over whelming the consultant started talking to me about the risks of everything. As much as I didnā€™t have a birth plan I always assumed I would try and give birth vaginally with it being my first but itā€™s not even an option if she stays breached. Canā€™t tell if itā€™s my hormones or if itā€™s normal to be this emotional about it. Has anyone had a breached baby last minute?
I was in the same position as you a few weeks ago. I tried lots of different methods to get my baby to turn as I had a week between finding out he was breach and my next appointment to ā€˜discuss optionsā€™ - and he had turned by my next appt! Look on the spinning babies website for advice and try looking on Youtube for yoga to turn baby. I also did lots of stair and curb walking and just being active. Rocking on the birthing ball too and making figures of 8 with your hips will help too. I point blank refused a section just because baby was breach -it may be for you, in which case great, but donā€™t let them force you into a section and make you think itā€™s a must. You can actually deliver naturally even if baby stays breach. Look for hypnobirthing advice too on Insta and the likes (thenakeddoula has some good advice/positive stories but can be a bit ā€˜out thereā€™ so beware!) and donā€™t let them scare or worry you. Childbirth is becoming so much more forced and medicalised and Iā€™ve learnt lots from my birth first time around. You still have all of your options and thatā€™s even if baby decides not to turn! If you want one, personally iā€™d hold off a manual turn until much closer to 40 weeks. Let nature take its course and you still have 3 weeks until due date so loads of time! Keep us updated šŸ¤
 
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I wholeheartedly agree that every pregnant woman should have the choice on how they want to birth and not feel like they arenā€™t allowed to have a say by medical professionals. However that Naked Doula is dangerous in my opinion. She has a thread on here for anyone interested. I think doulas have an important place and agree birth has been over medicalised but there are reasons for this and why they have NICE guidlines.
I found Dr Sara Wickham really helpful when I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes and was being told I had to be induced.
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Just seen this on instagram but sums it up better than I can.
 
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I was in the same position as you a few weeks ago. I tried lots of different methods to get my baby to turn as I had a week between finding out he was breach and my next appointment to ā€˜discuss optionsā€™ - and he had turned by my next appt! Look on the spinning babies website for advice and try looking on Youtube for yoga to turn baby. I also did lots of stair and curb walking and just being active. Rocking on the birthing ball too and making figures of 8 with your hips will help too. I point blank refused a section just because baby was breach -it may be for you, in which case great, but donā€™t let them force you into a section and make you think itā€™s a must. You can actually deliver naturally even if baby stays breach. Look for hypnobirthing advice too on Insta and the likes (thenakeddoula has some good advice/positive stories but can be a bit ā€˜out thereā€™ so beware!) and donā€™t let them scare or worry you. Childbirth is becoming so much more forced and medicalised and Iā€™ve learnt lots from my birth first time around. You still have all of your options and thatā€™s even if baby decides not to turn! If you want one, personally iā€™d hold off a manual turn until much closer to 40 weeks. Let nature take its course and you still have 3 weeks until due date so loads of time! Keep us updated šŸ¤
Thank you I will try all these ā¤ they were saying as itā€™s my first baby and I havenā€™t ā€˜labouredā€™ before they donā€™t know how it will go and with a breach baby itā€™s too high risk, I would not be able to go it at my local hospital I would have to go to a specialist centre an hour away. I donā€™t know how true all that is but I am just hoping she turns before the next scan šŸ¤ž
 
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Weā€™ve got our 8 week scan today, Iā€™m nervous but excited!! How much water do I need to drink before? šŸ™ˆ
 
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Weā€™ve got our 8 week scan today, Iā€™m nervous but excited!! How much water do I need to drink before? šŸ™ˆ
Iā€™m not 100% sure on the amount but I hadnā€™t drank enough at my 12 week scan so I went out and drank 8 plastic cups of water (so probably about 500-750mls) and that still wasnā€™t enough so 1l would probably do it!
 
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Weā€™ve got our 8 week scan today, Iā€™m nervous but excited!! How much water do I need to drink before? šŸ™ˆ
You may want to check if itā€™s going to be an internal scan with it being ā€œearlyā€. If so you need an empty bladder.
 
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You may want to check if itā€™s going to be an internal scan with it being ā€œearlyā€. If so you need an empty bladder.
From my experience, they ask you to go with a full bladder first and then if it needs to be internal, they ask you to empty it.
Guess it's better to go with a full and be able to empty it than the other way around
 
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You may want to check if itā€™s going to be an internal scan with it being ā€œearlyā€. If so you need an empty bladder.
Oh thanks! I donā€™t think itā€™s an internal one but will go with a full bladder just incase I can always go for a wee while Iā€™m therešŸ˜†
 
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I went in with a very full bladder. Iā€™ve always suspected that I have quite a small bladder (or rather a bladder that doesnā€™t empty properly) and I drank a lot of water. They then asked me to empty it as the view was cloudy, and then when I did they could see a lot better. I think it depends on the person but they said itā€™s easier coming in with a full one. They also told me my (tiny) bladder had refilled 5 minutes later! Explains why Iā€™ve always been one to go to the loo a lot.
 
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Thank you I will try all these ā¤ they were saying as itā€™s my first baby and I havenā€™t ā€˜labouredā€™ before they donā€™t know how it will go and with a breach baby itā€™s too high risk, I would not be able to go it at my local hospital I would have to go to a specialist centre an hour away. I donā€™t know how true all that is but I am just hoping she turns before the next scan šŸ¤ž
Ah I see! Fingers crossed she does turn for you - the more traditional methods do seem to work! Let us know!

Howā€™s everyone doing? My DD is Monday and still no signs over here! The odd period type pain but as soon as I think ā€˜This is it! Itā€™s starting!ā€™, it goes šŸ¤£šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø
 
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Ah I see! Fingers crossed she does turn for you - the more traditional methods do seem to work! Let us know!

Howā€™s everyone doing? My DD is Monday and still no signs over here! The odd period type pain but as soon as I think ā€˜This is it! Itā€™s starting!ā€™, it goes šŸ¤£šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø
This is me at 38+3!!!!
 
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