I’ve never once hated my mum for going it alone. My ‘dad’ walked out on us when I was 2 days old and that was that, he never graced us with his presence again. I have a wonderful ‘stepdad’ who to me is the only dad I have even though we don’t share any DNA. He’s been in my life 24 years and I’ve never been left to second guess if he loves and cares for me because he’s proven it everyday since I met him. I appreciate its a very different situation to yours but I guess what I’m trying to say is it won’t define you as a mother, it won’t define where life takes you and it certainly won’t define your relationship with your son. Sure, there might be difficult times and hard questions to answer. But honestly? Just be upfront. My mum never protected me from the truth and I’m so grateful for that because I know now it was never an issue with me or her. It was always him xAnother bad night another bad night of arguing, I’ve put in an application to my local council for housing, I feel exhausted and so emotional I love my partner but I can’t go on like this anymore but I’m absolutely terrified of doing this alone I’m scared of failing I’m scared my son will hate me in years to come for leaving his dad. I grew up in a broken home and it’s the last thing I wanted for my child. I guess I just feel so guilty, I’ve tried so hard to sort things but I can’t be the only one trying, I’m so emotional tonight feeling really scared and alone