A crib or Moses basket, with just a mattress and sheets. Then on to a cot with just mattress and sheets until at least age one. They also shouldn’t have any loose blankets around them which is why so many people use the sleeping bags.
my son has called the bump Bob until they are here 
anyone else have a nickname for bump?
Aww this is so cute x25 weeks today! Lil tiny hand
He loves Bob the minion
Look at that adorable little hand!25 weeks today! Lil tiny hand
can’t believe he was ever a poppyseed! Feels like it’s flown by when actually it has dragged 
Mine is the size of a cauliflower
Ooh snap 15 weeks yesterday so I'm also an avocado! We've been testing out names, a couple of frontrunners but nothing set in stone. Also started taking weekly bump photos but tbh I still just look like I've had too much for dinner, it's lumps atm rather than an actual bump
I had an 8 week scan for reassurance after previous early loss, I didn’t want my first scan to be alone. There’s no real harm from scans particularly the routine non specialised ones. The only issue Is the potential covid exposure but I decided I needed the reassurance and was terrified of having my first scan on my own in case it was bad news
Have you checked you definitely have to be alone?
He will cheer up my partner can be very moody too last night we bickered about what you put a baby in when they are newborns he doesn’t believe me you put them in Moses basket or snuzpod he said we will just get a cot I don’t fancy a massive cot in the bedroom he thinks I will just buy everything because I am a marketers dreamI have a private scan at 4 today. It was meant to be reassurance for us (we booked it back in December) but obviously I ended up in the hospital last week and saw everything was going ok. It’s now more so my husband can see too and feel involved. Although he’s a miserable sod today so I hope he cheers up
he then proceeded to laugh at me men are strange creatures sometimes xThe midwife told me on the phone that I have to attend aloneHave you checked you definitely have to be alone?
My letter said to attend alone but when I actually called and asked, partners were allowed at the 12 and 20 week scans
Also I am excited for your scan are you going to window to the womb kind of place? Not sure if everywhere has these xI have a private scan at 4 today. It was meant to be reassurance for us (we booked it back in December) but obviously I ended up in the hospital last week and saw everything was going ok. It’s now more so my husband can see too and feel involved. Although he’s a miserable sod today so I hope he cheers up
Ugh my husband is like this. I’ve read so many books and done so much research already on safe sleeping, breastfeeding, birth etc but husband still thinks he knows better despite doing eff all researchHe will cheer up my partner can be very moody too last night we bickered about what you put a baby in when they are newborns he doesn’t believe me you put them in Moses basket or snuzpod he said we will just get a cot I don’t fancy a massive cot in the bedroom he thinks I will just buy everything because I am a marketers dream
The midwife told me on the phone that I have to attend alone
Also I am excited for your scan are you going to window to the womb kind of place? Not sure if everywhere has these x
I ended up with the cot in my room after 2 months anyway because she got too big for the moses basketHe will cheer up my partner can be very moody too last night we bickered about what you put a baby in when they are newborns he doesn’t believe me you put them in Moses basket or snuzpod he said we will just get a cot I don’t fancy a massive cot in the bedroom he thinks I will just buy everything because I am a marketers dream
The midwife told me on the phone that I have to attend alone
Also I am excited for your scan are you going to window to the womb kind of place? Not sure if everywhere has these x
I said to my husband last night ‘I think I’ve found the crib I like.’ And he said ‘ok favourite it’ and didn’t ask to see it. Wish they were excited as us about things like that. Yeah it’s that type of place but just one local to us.He will cheer up my partner can be very moody too last night we bickered about what you put a baby in when they are newborns he doesn’t believe me you put them in Moses basket or snuzpod he said we will just get a cot I don’t fancy a massive cot in the bedroom he thinks I will just buy everything because I am a marketers dream
The midwife told me on the phone that I have to attend alone
Also I am excited for your scan are you going to window to the womb kind of place? Not sure if everywhere has these x
My partner doesn't care at all.
Sorry to hear thisThe midwife told me on the phone that I have to attend alone
the disparity between different trusts re partners attending is very strange, not sure what the logic is behind it.
