It’s so weird isn’t it! I had been sleeping surprisingly well but the last few days haven’t been so good! What about you?That’s like me!I just don’t know what to expect so every little change in how Iv been feeling I’m over analysing! Lol! Iv had a few tummy pains the last couple of days but could be anything. It’s such a strange feeling isn’t it? Knowing they could come any day! Are you sleeping ok? Xx
Iv not been sleeping great- getting up for a wee every hour and then trying to get comfy!!but last night I had a good sleep, which was amazing. It’s such a waiting game now though and I’m trying to take every day as it comes. Trying to stay calm and enjoy these last few days/ weeks of being just me and my partner. But it’s so hard when you are a mixture of excitement and nerves!!It’s so weird isn’t it! I had been sleeping surprisingly well but the last few days haven’t been so good! What about you?
I don’t think it’s remotely pathetic - you do what you need to do to get by, if a cleaner helps then go for it! If you’re in pain then it’s a no brainer, you don’t want to make it worse for the sake of doing cleaning! No one should be trying to shame you for looking after yourself!! Also, you’re growing a baby which takes a huge toll on your body, so please don’t feel useless, you’re doing greatReady for all the judgement in the world from my friends for the fact that I work from home currently and have just hired a cleaner for the next 2 months
My spd has gotten so bad that I burst into tears in pain from unloading and reloading the dishwasher (pathetic i know)
And even though my partner never complains, I feel awful that on his one day off a week he has he feels like he needs to hoover and stuff.
Hate how useless I feel doing day to day tasks currently
I think it’s a very sensible decision tbh. I hired one indefinitely when we decided to start ttc. I just remembered how awful I felt in the first trimester and figured I wouldn’t be up to much cleaning… then I remembered the exhaustion of the third trimester too. And then figured let’s make the newborn days as easy as possibleReady for all the judgement in the world from my friends for the fact that I work from home currently and have just hired a cleaner for the next 2 months
My spd has gotten so bad that I burst into tears in pain from unloading and reloading the dishwasher (pathetic i know)
And even though my partner never complains, I feel awful that on his one day off a week he has he feels like he needs to hoover and stuff.
Hate how useless I feel doing day to day tasks currently
We have a cleaner. She comes every 2 weeks. We are useless at dusting and cleaning the bathroom. Her fee is always preferable to arguments over who 'should be doing xyz'.Ready for all the judgement in the world from my friends for the fact that I work from home currently and have just hired a cleaner for the next 2 months
My spd has gotten so bad that I burst into tears in pain from unloading and reloading the dishwasher (pathetic i know)
And even though my partner never complains, I feel awful that on his one day off a week he has he feels like he needs to hoover and stuff.
Hate how useless I feel doing day to day tasks currently
Yaaaas I rate this decision so highly! Good cleaners are genuinely life savers and can just take the mental load off by so much, as half the mental load with (and without!) kids is just keeping yourself and your house clean and fed. I am really considering hiring one end of third trimester and for the first few months of having 3 kids just to deep clean once every couple of weeks or weekly or whatever.Ready for all the judgement in the world from my friends for the fact that I work from home currently and have just hired a cleaner for the next 2 months
My spd has gotten so bad that I burst into tears in pain from unloading and reloading the dishwasher (pathetic i know)
And even though my partner never complains, I feel awful that on his one day off a week he has he feels like he needs to hoover and stuff.
Hate how useless I feel doing day to day tasks currently
dont feel awful! I had my hip and femur replaced in 2018, and I hired a cleaner because like you, I felt awful for my husband doing chores and I just couldn’t do them. Best £40 a week I spent.Ready for all the judgement in the world from my friends for the fact that I work from home currently and have just hired a cleaner for the next 2 months
My spd has gotten so bad that I burst into tears in pain from unloading and reloading the dishwasher (pathetic i know)
And even though my partner never complains, I feel awful that on his one day off a week he has he feels like he needs to hoover and stuff.
Hate how useless I feel doing day to day tasks currently
Morning everyone, is anyone else attending the virtual baby live show today and this weekend? X
Did you watch any of the talks? I've written a list of the ones I want to watch over the weekend! There's quite a lot isn't it, just as well it's raining otherwise there's no chance my bf would have say in and watched with me
Did you watch any of the talks? I've written a list of the ones I want to watch over the weekend! There's quite a lot isn't it, just as well it's raining otherwise there's no chance my bf would have say in and watched with me
Had the exact same situation, so glad somebody else understands and it's not just me being overly paranoid. Sent this post to my husband to show him it's not just me haha! It's so frustrating isn't itJust had a melt down at my husband as he’s stank the house out with some chemicals he’s been using after promising he wouldn’t do that kinda work anymore.
So paranoid about breathing in the fumeswhole house stinks
It’s so horrible. I know the exposure is small but I don’t want it. MenHad the exact same situation, so glad somebody else understands and it's not just me being overly paranoid. Sent this post to my husband to show him it's not just me haha! It's so frustrating isn't it
Whats this? Do you have a link?Morning everyone, is anyone else attending the virtual baby live show today and this weekend? X
I think you may have needed tickets one sec I’ll add a link xWhats this? Do you have a link?
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