I don't know how to phrase this: maybe I should say deliberately misleading statements? Like how my mum's boyfriend always said "I left home when I was 7" because he was sent to boarding school. Hardly the same, is it; you had people taking care of you the whole time. Or a woman I know who claims she "hasn't had a job in 30 years." She is a freelance artist, self-employed but still working. Her art is still her job