My relationship with my mum is the same as Jess’ and this is one of the reason’s I found her relatable. I can’t lie, I have this kinda attitude whenever I have to be around my mum cos she triggers me and sends my anxiety through the roof. I get it completely and I think it’s hard to unless you’re in the situation. I’m not like this constantly though which is Jess’ issue, especially not to my daughter cos I don’t want us to have that kinda relationship. I’m actually proud of Jess for admitting she needs help, looks like unresolved childhood trauma to me. Hopefully it does help her otherwise she could end up having this toxic relationship with her daughters too. She should know exactly what it’s like being on the receiving end of this kind of parentingShe's always had that atitude even with her mum ,maybe it stems back to her having some sort of grudge against her mum to do with her upbringing ? she's got a massive chip on her shoulder over something .
I always got the impression she didn't get on with her mum she practically ignored her in the wedding vid and veered more towards her dad and stepmum even in lastnights vid she rolled her eyes when she said about her mum dragging her halfway around the world to try and save her relationship even though she knew it would be short lived , maybe she put her men before Jess and she resents her for that ?
Did she say her dad is inviting her mum round this year? She doesn’t really talk about their relationship tbf so we’ll never know what went on I just got the impression from last night’s vid there was a lot of resentment there.I get the impression they don’t get on but it’s not necessarily her Mum’s fault. We only get Jess’ side so
her mum might be the sweetest, kindest person.
I’m sure they didn’t have her Mum round for Christmas so she was left on her own because they wanted Christmas just the 3 of them. Maybe I’m wrong and her Mum was with her Auntie but she did say this year she had nowhere to go.
Did she say her dad is inviting her mum round this year? She doesn’t really talk about their relationship tbf so we’ll never know what went on I just got the impression from last night’s vid there was a lot of resentment there.
Yeah I think you’re right. I found Jess’ channel when she was a teenager vlogging her move to America. Was shocked at the coincidence when she announced her pregnancy when I was pregnant too, so I then got hooked on her mum vlogs. But anyway, I remember her saying she had to move round loads and that instability is enough to mess you up. You could hear her annoyance with her mum when she was talking about this. Can’t underestimate how much childhood trauma can affect you and she clearly has a lot of anger towards the world, not just her mum. Also therapy isn’t magic ofc, but it helps. It’s a start.I always got the impression she didn't get on with her mum she practically ignored her in the wedding vid and veered more towards her dad and stepmum even in lastnights vid she rolled her eyes when she said about her mum dragging her halfway around the world to try and save her relationship even though she knew it would be short lived , maybe she put her men before Jess and she resents her for that ?
That’s right she said in the vid her step father was in the military so it couldn’t have been a stable childhood moving about.Yeah I think you’re right. I found Jess’ channel when she was a teenager vlogging her move to America. Was shocked at the coincidence when she announced her pregnancy when I was pregnant too, so I then got hooked on her mum vlogs. But anyway, I remember her saying she had to move round loads and that instability is enough to mess you up. You could hear her annoyance with her mum when she was talking about this. Can’t underestimate how much childhood trauma can affect you and she clearly has a lot of anger towards the world, not just her mum. Also therapy isn’t magic ofc, but it helps. It’s a start.
If I’m honest I had a day like that today with my 6 year old but he’s 6 not 1 but instead of moaning at him I made us hot chocolate put home alone on we watched that - we have a lot going on my father in laws going in for an operation so he’ll miss Christmas and he’s upset about that I know he’ll be fine but my partners stressed we’re worried about covid Christmas etc so I was like stuff the housework and watched a film under the blankets and honestly it was needed tomorrow we’re making a gingerbread house and sorting the house out so we can keep on top of it leading up to Christmas jess gets stressed so easily there’s been a massive change in her from having P to having F
Her attitude with Florence from around 10:25 to 11:15she’s literally a 1 year old!
There’s no mistaking kids drive you mad at times but she seems to be down on them all the time maybe Flo is tired if she’s running about with her blankets she doesn’t seem to see what’s in front of her with her own kids.
Her attitude with Florence from around 10:25 to 11:15she’s literally a 1 year old!
I don't think she see's her behaviour tbh. I think if she got herself a job and put Flo in nursery they both would benefit I think both of them are bored to tears being stuck inside all day the reason Neil probably has more patience is because he has a break from the routine .I'm finding her vlogs increasingly uncomfortable to watch tbh. I get that its real life and we all have days where the kids drive us mad and we regret taking a trip out, but she really doesn't need to film the constant snapping and berating her kids.
I found it bizarre she was going to feed the ducks at 820am! Its the first day of the holidays, have a slow morning and then do something outdoors midmorning! Florence is only 1 and I think I would have put her in the pushchair near that river, get her out to feed the ducks and then maybe find somewhere they could both have a run around and burn off some energy. Florence might have dropped off in the pushchair and Jess and P could have had a sit down somewhere together. Florence always seems bored, she's constantly told to go and watch the TV!
The snapping when she was doing her food haul was a bit much, put the camera down and make the lunch!! And snapping again that she had 'just hoovered' when Florence opened the book. It was a tiny bit of paper!
I personally find Neil far more patient and interactive with them. I'm glad Jess is seeking some help, I do consider she could do with some sort of early help in terms of managing her own behaviour around the kids, she has changed so much.
I don't think she see's her behaviour tbh. I think if she got herself a job and put Flo in nursery they both would benefit I think both of them are bored to tears being stuck inside all day the reason Neil probably has more patience is because he has a break from the routine .
Why not get a fulltime job that way they could afford it ? she'd rather sit on benefits miserable because it's easier for her but it's not making her happy .She can’t afford childcare till Florence
gets to go go preschool at 3, as Neil’s wages push them out of the early entitlement bracket. I think she had spoken about it before. It’s a shame though as Florence would get so much out of it. It’s not Florence’s fault though, so why take it out on her. She’s learning to follow instructions, to communicate etc. I’m not sure she knows why she’s being told off most of the time.
To be honest I feel like we’re seeing the annoyed and stressed side most of the time now, not just occasionally.
If Florence pulls her shoes off leave them off, don’t keep letting her take them off and letting her throw them, give P a shopping list so she can help she’s not going to want to walk next to the trolley the whole time. Let her choose bananas or something.
Are they because your income depends on your household? I doubt she’ll work fulltime when Florence is in school and both girls could go to an after school club.Why not get a fulltime job that way they could afford it ? she'd rather sit on benefits miserable because it's easier for her but it's not making her happy .
They could get working familes tax credit does that not cover childcare even if she works part time ? I thought you were better off working on benefits I think she's too lazy .Are they because your income depends on your household? I doubt she’ll work fulltime when Florence is in school and both girls could go to an after school club.
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