Poor Vesper’s face. What a shame, as long as Golden Boy is smiling eh.
Phoebe Court #9 SW in her name is pure deceit, only content you’ll find is grim flaky feet
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She’s just created this endless cycle of reliance and inconsistency and it obviously pisses her off but she can’t do anything about it now! I’m not saying that this is all to do with breastfeeding btw because obviously millions of other mams manage to do it and establish a routine and have happy self settling kids. I think she’s just a bit too all over the place and the kids probably don’t know where they stand with her half the time.
Totally agree with you here, I think she hates breastfeeding but loves the status she thinks it gives her with other Mam’s.I was just coming on to say this. Poor little thing looked on the verge of tears
Before I say this let it be known that both my children were breastfed in their first few weeks but then bottle fed and I have absolutely no judgement on how people feed their kids...
Her moaning about Herbie. Sorry but she's made her (double) bed. Both my kids had a bottle and settled for naps no problem. We had a routine and as such it meant I could get tit done when they were in between feeds and naps. Having routine, order and boundaries was important to me and both my kids (one being 8 months) go to sleep without an adult or a boob. They self settle and sleep well.
She champions BF, co-sleeping and her way of getting kids to sleep (which is totally fine) but then don't go moaning about it like it's the only way to do it.. you can't have it both ways!!
She’s just created this endless cycle of reliance and inconsistency and it obviously pisses her off but she can’t do anything about it now! I’m not saying that this is all to do with breastfeeding btw because obviously millions of other mams manage to do it and establish a routine and have happy self settling kids. I think she’s just a bit too all over the place and the kids probably don’t know where they stand with her half the time.
It’s perfectly possible to breastfeed and not have to feed your kids to sleep. I breastfed both of mine until they were about 1 and I never let them fall asleep while feeding. (In hindsight I think I should have been a bit more lax about it when they were tiny - but that’s mum guilt). But neither of them had any issues self soothing or getting to sleep. I think she’s totally done this to herself.
Thinking about it - I went back to work after 7 months for each of them too and they got through the day fine without boobs.
Thinking about it - I went back to work after 7 months for each of them too and they got through the day fine without boobs.
I think she just likes moaning about everything. You could give her £10million and she’d complain that she had to go out and spend it.
She wants to breastfeed but complains that her child wants fed. She wants vesper to be a free spirit, but moans when she’s showing her own wee personality. She’s a miserable, lazy cow.
She wants to breastfeed but complains that her child wants fed. She wants vesper to be a free spirit, but moans when she’s showing her own wee personality. She’s a miserable, lazy cow.
She turns my stomach.
I think everything is probably getting to her. She's said before that with Vesper that she was out all the time; swimming lessons, baby groups, coffee, days out etc. Then she had Herbie just before the first lockdown, so was basically stuck at home all the time with a newborn, plus Vesper was at home as she had pulled her out of pre-school (plus they ended up closing anyway). Staying at home with the children isn't her norm, I find it far easier entertaining little ones being out and about and I think she does too. I get the impression that she's not coping being at home a lot with two young children and she can't keep her temper under control. Most people probably lose their tit at some point and feel guilty. I think her broadcasting it on Insta is a way to get things of her chest but not fully admitting that anything is actually wrong. Something isn't quite right, she can post all the happy, smiley pics, but she obviously has some problems and isn't coping. This past year is bound to affect anyone. Hopefully she speaks to Jim about it.
Yeah I get this impression too. Still can’t bear to feel sorry for the woman because she continues to be SO smug with her water babies classes and her chickens. If she’s struggling, why not just be honest about it?
I feel like her and Jim barely see each other enough to really talk
sleep in separate beds, he’s out golfing all the time - doesn’t seem like they spend a lot of time together! And she clearly resents him for having hobbies, which makes things worse I guess.She needs to find her own interests (aside from being a moon faced preachy Tudor, that is
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I had an emergency c section with my son 6 weeks ago and my milk didn't come in until a week after he was born, by this time he had started on formula obviously as he needed to be fed and I'm constantly getting bottle shamed. My partners dad tries making out it's my fault he has colic because I decided not to breastfeed, erm wasn't my choice not to breastfeed him I physically couldn't! Can imagine Pheebs being like this
I can’t believe people shame women for how they feed & keep babies alive! I had all my answers ready for when I got challenged about bottle feeding but luckily have never needed them. I can totally see Feebs being high & mighty about this. What would she of done if she needed a section and couldn’t BF? Poof there goes her idea of being a mother.
Her lack of routine with the kids is shocking. Poor kids probably don’t know whether they are coming or going. The youngest sleeps 2.5 hours one day then not at all the next!
I’d be stressed too. She deffo finds it easier to be out the house with them so they can roam free & she can take loads of candid photos of herself!Your father in law does know a breastfed baby also gets colic too?
I feel as though they’re like a married couple battling divorce issues, only she doesn’t have the wedding ring. The relationship is strained, but after 20+ years they can’t walk away.
She can’t cope with 2 children on her own and lockdown has meant she isn’t able to socialise as she did with V.
She doesn’t know how to be her own person and as such is flitting from one thing to another in a desperate bid to find her way.
She can’t cope with 2 children on her own and lockdown has meant she isn’t able to socialise as she did with V.
She doesn’t know how to be her own person and as such is flitting from one thing to another in a desperate bid to find her way.
Be blunt and tell them to duck off, you don't even owe them an explanation. Seriously i used to be all polite, wouldnt say anything to anybody, I don't know what changed but in the past two years I'm vile
. My family would not dare say anything they shouldn't to me because I'm glaringly honest, say it like it is and I would tell them to duck off and mind their own, that includes my in laws. Nobody gets to make you feel like tit or guilty for anything. It's exhilarating because once you start sticking up for yourself people stop saying all those awful nitpick things they used to that makes you feel awful.He started going on the other day and I said this. He is very old fashioned in the sense of breast is best and all that. I just ignore him now
I did in so many words! Him and his partner are this old fashioned, devoted Christian's who weren't impressed when I got pregnant cause we aren't married. Living in sin and all that jazzBe blunt and tell them to duck off, you don't even owe them an explanation. Seriously i used to be all polite, wouldnt say anything to anybody, I don't know what changed but in the past two years I'm vile
She just keeps confirming she reads here posting about motherhood defining her again
Twice she's posted it now... Both times when it's been mentioned here
posting about motherhood defining her again Twice she's posted it now... Both times when it's been mentioned here
I'm always intrigued by the annexe. I thought a portion of the garden belonged to the annexe, but with all the stories she's shown recently it doesn't look that way. So the whole of that annexe has Feebs garden wrapped around it, so literally no privacy. To the back of the main house there looks to be a bit of an area that possibly might belong to the annexe, but presumably again there's no privacy what with the windows overlooking. With young kids I wouldn't fancy letting the anexxe out to a stranger. Did wonder if it was empty as she has shown it quite a bit more recently in videos, which would annoy me if I was a tenant. However she said the neighbour let her know the chickens had escaped which would make sense that it was someone in the annexe. Just such a weird set up. Wonder if she has family living in there but keeps it quiet.
Did wonder if it was empty as she has shown it quite a bit more recently in videos, which would annoy me if I was a tenant. However she said the neighbour let her know the chickens had escaped which would make sense that it was someone in the annexe. Just such a weird set up. Wonder if she has family living in there but keeps it quiet.Maybe if she got a job she'd perhaps realise how lucky she is to be at home (locked down or not) with her child(ren). I honestly don't know how she has the gall to complain, she literally has to feed them, make sure they don't die and keep on top of the housekeeping, yet she still struggles to do that. She's a dick.
it does me too as from the floor plan it's all joined together so they can all go in and out of each others roomsI'm always intrigued by the annexe. I thought a portion of the garden belonged to the annexe, but with all the stories she's shown recently it doesn't look that way. So the whole of that annexe has Feebs garden wrapped around it, so literally no privacy. To the back of the main house there looks to be a bit of an area that possibly might belong to the annexe, but presumably again there's no privacy what with the windows overlooking. With young kids I wouldn't fancy letting the anexxe out to a stranger.
"I am having trees cut down"....pant pant
"crazy times"
Pant pant, oh look I put a clean egg in my chickens box. Even her chickens ratio perfect to tit!
pant pant.....this woman seriously needs to do some exercise!
"crazy times"
Pant pant, oh look I put a clean egg in my chickens box. Even her chickens ratio perfect to tit!
pant pant.....this woman seriously needs to do some exercise!
Omg imagine being so unfit that just talking makes you out of breath
It’s all I could hear on her stories
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