I don’t doubt there are some underlying issues. My own mum chose men and drugs over me. When I was 11, she removed all my photos and replaced them with pictures of her boyfriend. I can’t remember ever a kiss and cuddle or her telling me she loves me. Now, I struggle with mental health and anxiety, I’ve been single for a long time because I don’t want to be hurt anymore. So I get that she’s likely to be a little broken inside too. But when will she realise that she needs help to overcome this?
She has a husband and children. A home. Lots of animals and food health. How many of us have dreamed of those?
PTWM if you’re reading this, we wish you a healthy pregnancy, birth and baby, we wish you a happy and healthy postnatal period where you are surrounded by love and care to enjoy your new baby and family.
But please consider stepping away from trying to save women in a way that has not been monitored, where safeguarding procedures are not adhered to, where boundaries are not in place. Someone is going to get hurt one day. Leave the job to those who are trained. Take the camera away from the children, let them be little and let them grow up in their own way to be their own people without the anxiety of 100,000+ strangers following every move. Be transparent with the donations.