What I keep thinking is that the kind people who have donated (thinking they are helping these warriors) have quite possibly and inadvertently (allegedly
) paid the legal fees to keep a Mother away from her children.
How fucked up is that.
@Empen is right, not only has she groomed her victims but she groomed all of us who believed her bullshit.
Because if it is the latter then abuse doesn’t allow you to see things clearly for what they are especially if it isn’t physical. You know the frog in hot water analogy it could well apply here.
Nonetheless even so, it sounds like he isn’t completely innocent anyway which may have been what has clouded his judgement further. Wrapped up in his own lies that he’s missed hers.
It has always been about the money right from the start, they both rinsed me dry and I lost my home and my car because I could not afford to continue paying the court fees and had debts to pay off.
On the other hand PTWM and J made out they were in debt, more fabricated lies they weren’t I know this as a fact.
People have been completely manipulated to pay for their lifestyle. PTWM has written about me, exposed my boys, made money from my suffering and still is. They both know dam well they broke me.
I pay nearly £900 per month CSA money for my boys. That is the real reason they don’t want me having 50/50 contact with my boys and another reason why they wanted me to drag the boys through court again because they knew I had nothing left. And haven’t they loved every moment of it.
New cars, new house, holidays, hot tub, designer clothes, dining out every day, spar breaks, false eyelashes and nails, iPads, iMacs, camera’s, binoculars the list could go on for ever.
I have never been able to make the money back that I lost so I go without because I have to. Obviously if I wasn’t paying CSA I would be able to save, even buy a car. But no that would mean them not being in receipt of CSA!
I will never forgive PTWM or J for the precious time I’ve lost with my boys.
It’s all been a game for them both and unfortunately I think it will always be until things are taken seriously.
I wish I could help people with where their donations went but I’m none the wiser apart from the obvious that has been stated. Follow the advice provided on here so you have answers.
I’m sorry for the people who have not seen it go to a good cause but please don’t forget you did donate because you genuinely thought you were helping others in need and you should feel proud of that.