Jesus, talk about feeling sorry for herself. I'm a keyworker in a supermarket, and I'm doing 2am starts getting the online shopping sorted, home at 11am, and still have to help my 12 year old with school work and trying to keep my 4 year old entertained.
My life is chaotic right now, but nothing compared to what some people are going through, but she's not no reason to be that stressed about anything. B can help S and T, and she can concentrate on I and E, and I'm pretty sure the baby can be left on a play mat in the same room as them, he doesn't have to be attached 24 hours a day