Oh I agree 100%! It makes me sad that I feel like no one truly loves him. His friends use him for his clout, but no one will truly stand up and say "enough you fool! You are going to kill yourself". I asked in a thread earlier who he would call if he was seriously hurt. I really worried about the fact that he really wouldn't have anyone local that he would be able to call for help.
It is so nice that you are able to go out and enjoy time with your wife and trust knowing that you had each other's backs. My husband and I took a no kids trip in June (we have never done that before) and we had so much fun. We were on property, so we didn't have to worry about transportation. We also made some pretty poor food choices too. Then came back and got back on track