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[lunatics_thelotofthem]

Nooooo has she ranted? Gutted I’m still blocked oh ffs Hi Abby (above) fertility problems now. That’s the next thing. No you decorated the room and paid for everything pre-trying so that you didn’t have that extra expense when the baby came. You said that publicly. Who reckons she’s going to try and turn into a fertility TTC page next I can’t speak for everyone in the TTC community but I know from my experience and struggles of those TTC around me that you don’t kit out a nursery because you’ll never understand the pain if you have fertility problems to walk into a nursery daily. You just don’t jinx it. Maybe a cute baby grow or an outfit here and there but that’s usually where the line is drawn. Good luck, I hope you get the house. Welcome to the real world. Try not to quit a job when the going gets tough. Get some therapy and if you want to make a living from socials then deal with it. You’re the fan now, offended are we Abby by peoples opinions who differ from your own, sounds familiar. Also I’d recommend to keep slagging your family and in laws off social media. You look very immature. No one is here for that

 

[lanaisasaver]

No page

I must not of made it yet lol

 

[lunatics_thelotofthem]

No page

I must not of made it yet lol

Change your page to a cash buying page and then get a mortgage - heard it racks up a fair bit of interest

 

[stacelou85]

I bet she's hard work to live with. She has no friends either by the looks of it

 

[111blah]

10000% we have freedom of speech
So does Abby
But this is our place
A private place where people join to talk openly
Without judgement too
The fact we all feel similar things makes me want to say
We can’t all be wrong
We can’t all think the same thing and be incorrect.

I come across Abby and her page when someone told me they was feeling triggered by her and anxious and had unfollowed so I become interested in her through that
Tattle is our place to talk 🤍

I never said people can’t have opinions or freedom of speech. People can think what they like about her money saving tips etc and how she goes about it. I’m merely offering a different opinion or possible reason to the baby nursery and mental health. I’m of the opinion (seeing as we are all entitled to an opinion here) is that mental health is not one of the topics that should be mocked. If anybody is in a bad place mentally their behaviour will more than likely be erratic, which of course we have seen with the chopping and changing of ideas. Mocking someone’s decor or choice of house/outfit etc is one thing, Mocking or belittled someone for having mental health issues can stop them getting help and can end very badly.

 

[lanaisasaver]

Change your page to a cash buying page and then get a mortgage - heard it racks up a fair bit of interest

Yes I may do that
Cash buying a house for £150k but I’ve got 0 money in the bank
Follow me for tricks and tips how to save 150k in 6 weeks

I never said people can’t have opinions or freedom of speech. People can think what they like about her money saving tips etc and how she goes about it. I’m merely offering a different opinion or possible reason to the baby nursery and mental health. I’m of the opinion (seeing as we are all entitled to an opinion here) is that mental health is not one of the topics that should be mocked. If anybody is in a bad place mentally their behaviour will more than likely be erratic, which of course we have seen with the chopping and changing of ideas. Mocking someone’s decor or choice of house/outfit etc is one thing, Mocking or belittled someone for having mental health issues can stop them getting help and can end very badly.

You have a right to your opinion and I agree with MH it’s a tricky subject but with all respect

If you have MH issues you should help yourself
If you have a social media platform you have to know by now people will not always like you
Or agree with you and if you don’t want to feel upset what people think
Don’t read it

I don’t buy the paper on a Sunday cos I don’t like what I see
I don’t have fb cos I don’t like what I see
I come off my own IG account cos I get overwhelmed by what I am seeing

Abby needs to not take it to heart people have an opinion different to hers or think things and just focus on what she’s doing

Do any of us really matter ?
We only start to matter if what we are saying has touched a nerve because it’s true

I don’t fully disagree with what your saying
But this day and age being on social media sadly opens up a bad side with a good
And I don’t agree with that
But you have to take it all if you want to be on social media

I’ve had people ag me off
To my face on DMs
And about me on the IG a community

And I don’t let it get to me cos I can’t be liked by everyone
It’s a little narcissistic to expect people to always like you and agree with you and be mad when they don’t

Just accept not everyone will and make peace with that

If Abby is upset people are belittling her she’s going to spend the rest of her life upset
And the rest of her life not happy cos it’s going to happen
Every work place you go
Friends
Family
Partners
Strangers on the internet
Someone is always going to have a comment you won’t like or agree with
But tell Abby from me
If her MH is in a bad place get off social media for good

Cos that way she only has to fear the comments and opinions from the other places and not the whole world ( which she broadcasts on social media )
I mean that I’m not a rude way but in a sincere way you can’t moan strangers on the internet are being nasty whilst keep using the internet 🤍

If you can’t stand the heat
Get out of the kitchen

Cos it’s a cold world and it’s a nasty world and not everyone is going to be nice and the quicker we all learn this
The stronger we get
Abby does not have to read tattle

DO NOT READ TATTLE ABBY

 

[Magee]

Zzzz! You could have written how this would pan out, claiming we’re mentally unstable, claiming it’s for her safety, claiming we are unhappy with our sad little lives. Textbook Instagram twit who can’t face her own truths.

 

[lanaisasaver]

Did she get the house though?what happened lol

 

[Lockdownbordem]

She just couldn’t help herself to come back onto her account could she! Why did she need to do a whole load of stories explaining why she was back. Just do what you’ve gotta do and stay quiet. She’ll never deactivate it fully, she reckons she’s not bothered about the numbers.. she is!! She did a post every new 1k followers to say Thank you, if you truly didn’t care you wouldn’t do that.

If you’re so bothered by your mental health Abby, take a step back and stop oversharing your life on a public platform. The only reason it’s a ‘security’ issue, is because you’ve shared every single in and out of your life, house, etc on there! You basically told us everything about the house without actually showing it!! Of corse someone was going to be able to find it!! now you’re shitting yourself because a lot of strangers know where you’re going to be living! (I’m going to say you got the house as you would’ve said you hadn’t otherwise, even to throw us off the scent, because it clearly was the house we were sharing on here for you to be worried!)

 

[stacelou85]

The saving mantra was so tacky and over priced. Anyone who bought that needs their heads testing. If anyone does need a decent money planner. Fox and Moon does a fab one for less money and a 1000% better quality

 

[Whatwouldyoudo]

She said she thinks she knows who's behind it, I wonder if she follows Katie Hayes as that's her favourite line Abby sits there judging people who had a mortgage, people in the area that she lives in and desperately wants to get out of, the people she worked with, I could go on and on. It's a part of life, people pass judgement and talk, whether that's online, in WhatsApp groups or over a drink with your friends. What people don't do is share 99% of their life on social media, then decide that people who know about their life (that they've shared!) are dangerous

FYI Abby I have children and they'll be brought up to appreciate what they have, not throw the towel in when life gets tough and not to share themselves on social media for likes

 

[bellasmith86]

No friends or family because it’s always someone’s else’s fault, never hers. Can’t be a coincidence that she has absolutely no one in her life. Something doesn’t add up. I have a feeling it’s her who’s the problem. Look at her crazy behaviour online, and that’s her showing people what she wants us to see…imagine the stuff she doesn’t want to see!

 

[lunatics_thelotofthem]

Snap I reckon she’s got the house. I reckon she listened to all of us and upped the offer by a substantial amount as surly that would have been the only way they would have got it. But she wont admit it. And now she’s shitting herself because we found the house. Not that any of us are going to turn up there lol but just being nosey, which is normal

 

[hereforalaugh38]

Are you able to see on Rightmove how much it went for?

 

[Scar14]

Are you able to see on Rightmove how much it went for?

You’ll be able to see it a few months after they move in

 

[LadyWhistledown21]

No friends or family because it’s always someone’s else’s fault, never hers. Can’t be a coincidence that she has absolutely no one in her life. Something doesn’t add up. I have a feeling it’s her who’s the problem. Look at her crazy behaviour online, and that’s her showing people what she wants us to see…imagine the stuff she doesn’t want to see!

100% this we've met all someone like her. Does not generally get along with anyone, always has an issue but never her fault! She's one of those people I love to hate or strongly dislike. She is text book borderline personality disorder. Not surprising given what's shared about her childhood. Abby hun you obviously read. Go to your GP and go back to counselling. Make some goals and keep them to yourself because you don't have the mental capacity or personality to be in an influencer or social media guru. If you keep going your gonna end up like Mrs Hinch with #300 million tattle life pages. Marmite comes to mind

 

[GiveMeFreebies]

‘It’s not about numbers’…..repeated 20 times. Clearly it is. She’s desperate for attention. Security issues? I don’t think anyone on here has made any suggestions they’d be visiting. She’s absolutely crackers.

 

[lanaisasaver]

No friends or family because it’s always someone’s else’s fault, never hers. Can’t be a coincidence that she has absolutely no one in her life. Something doesn’t add up. I have a feeling it’s her who’s the problem. Look at her crazy behaviour online, and that’s her showing people what she wants us to see…imagine the stuff she doesn’t want to see!

The followers also that she thinks send her nice me

The way she talks about Stuart’s family on her page is so bad too

It’s so disgusting even if Stuart says it himself
Imagine if someone told his mum
Who kindly looks after her cats that it’s just not nice
Stuart may not mind about that but everyone who watches it probably thinks what I’m thinking

Sorry I’m making no sense that was meant to say she has alot of followers who send her nice messages but I also know a fair few of them don’t agree with her or like her and just say nice things to stay on her page

 

[GleamTeam]

I liked her at the beginning, but I find her constant bragging insufferable!

 

[Scar14]

Anyone else starting to get bored? Thought she’d be back to regularly posting by now