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Scar14

Scar14

How has she got the cheek to call anyone mentally unstable?😂 clearly she needs to look in a mirror! At least we know it’s not normal to buy things for a baby you’re not even pregnant with yet
 
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Mr Paul Barry John Allen

Mr Paul Barry John Allen

Scar14 said:
How has she got the cheek to call anyone mentally unstable?😂 clearly she needs to look in a mirror! At least we know it’s not normal to buy things for a baby you’re not even pregnant with yet
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She had a nursery ready luv, wasn't just a few pairs of clothes 🤣🤣🥴
 
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Chocolatelover333

45 pages on here and her teeth have been mentioned once :| yet that's all she's blabbing on about on her stories.
 
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TinyB

Chocolatelover333 said:
45 pages on here and her teeth have been mentioned once :| yet that's all she's blabbing on about on her stories.
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Oops might have been me who mentioned🙈I must be a mentally unstable psycho who’s not gonna win😂She’s talking utter rubbish about the tooth being hereditary too, bringing her “Grandma” into it for the poor me effect. I am sure she mentioned about her tooth ages ago as well and I wish I remembered as she certainly didn’t say it was hereditary.

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I actually like her teeth. They're quirky. She's a very pretty girl!
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Yes she is very pretty, I have never stated otherwise. But like everyone I am entitled to my opinion.
 
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GiveMeFreebies

GiveMeFreebies

The filter she uses annoys me - it makes her head look a bit alien like. I hate the filters that change peoples appearance as it’s a bit of a cat fish situation for some
 
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a.pain

Well my life is officially ruined. Not sure how I’m going to get over this. Thanks Abby 😢 hope you know how you’ve broken my heart and left me bereft #bekind
 
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111blah

I didn’t follow Abby when the whole baby nursery thing was going on but for all we know she could have been pregnant and something happened which is why it was never mentioned again. Or they may have been trying and hoping like many do that it would happen quickly. There may be fertility issues we know nothing about. Whatever it is that’s their business and they have no obligation to share that information.
I saw that a close friend of hers had died a few years ago. Added to that the fact she has worked in social care for many years which in itself is very mentally exhausting, especially so over the last 2 years. So yes she may have some mental health issues going on, I believe she has even admitted as much herself. I hope she decides to give counselling another go and heals because growing up in that environment messes you up long term.

I may not have agreed with some of the decisions (or indecisions) on the account but ultimately I wish them the best and hope they do find their forever home because god knows it’s hard to get on the property ladder.
 
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Whatwouldyoudo

I think I'd be more alarmed that people have gone out of their way to find my husbands email address and email him, than about a forum online.
 
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Itsallthecheese

111blah new member with a post sticking up for her then abby99 liking the comment.. probably best not to read then! If you put so much of your life online with such strong headed views your gonna rub folk up the wrong way!
 
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111blah said:
I didn’t follow Abby when the whole baby nursery thing was going on but for all we know she could have been pregnant and something happened which is why it was never mentioned again. Or they may have been trying and hoping like many do that it would happen quickly. There may be fertility issues we know nothing about. Whatever it is that’s their business and they have no obligation to share that information.
I saw that a close friend of hers had died a few years ago. Added to that the fact she has worked in social care for many years which in itself is very mentally exhausting, especially so over the last 2 years. So yes she may have some mental health issues going on, I believe she has even admitted as much herself. I hope she decides to give counselling another go and heals because growing up in that environment messes you up long term.

I may not have agreed with some of the decisions (or indecisions) on the account but ultimately I wish them the best and hope they do find their forever home because god knows it’s hard to get on the property ladder.
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Hi Abby 😬
 
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lanaisasaver

I don’t think anyone should ever Google or see if their on tattle. What other people think of you is none of your business. I have a debt page which a fair amount of followers not like as many as Abby but I know people talk crap about me and I’m good with that. I know what I think and the people I love and care for matter that’s it but I think for me what has made me feel low is when Abby slagged off mortgages etc it really made myself and a lot of people in the debt community ( she may not know this ) feel insulted and irritated. Some of us working hard to try and get to a certain place felt irritated someone with lots of followers would preach bad vibes and also bad advice. There’s nothing wrong with cash buying or getting a mortgage and nothing wrong with renting. I have never slagged off her appearance once cos I think she is a pretty girl it’s the one day one thing the next day the next thing and then the spending which I know has been erratic in this last few months. Abby has burnt herself out and her MH is going to be bad but if so, come off IG dont Google tattle and upset yourself even more. Her followers wanted to see a saver and a cash buyer and wanted that

That’s why they followed
So be a saver Abby and a cash buyer cos as I’ve said before if they wanted a spending or home decor account they would be following one 🙏
 
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Scar14

Scar14

lanaisasaver said:
I don’t think anyone should ever Google or see if their on tattle. What other people think of you is none of your business. I have a debt page which a fair amount of followers not like as many as Abby but I know people talk crap about me and I’m good with that. I know what I think and the people I love and care for matter that’s it but I think for me what has made me feel low is when Abby slagged off mortgages etc it really made myself and a lot of people in the debt community ( she may not know this ) feel insulted and irritated. Some of us working hard to try and get to a certain place felt irritated someone with lots of followers would preach bad vibes and also bad advice. There’s nothing wrong with cash buying or getting a mortgage and nothing wrong with renting. I have never slagged off her appearance once cos I think she is a pretty girl it’s the one day one thing the next day the next thing and then the spending which I know has been erratic in this last few months. Abby has burnt herself out and her MH is going to be bad but if so, come off IG dont Google tattle and upset yourself even more. Her followers wanted to see a saver and a cash buyer and wanted that

That’s why they followed
So be a saver Abby and a cash buyer cos as I’ve said before if they wanted a spending or home decor account they would be following one 🙏
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This! Tattle exists so that we can share our opinions without the person seeing it! They have to actively be looking to see what we’re saying on here
 
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lanaisasaver

Scar14 said:
This! Tattle exists so that we can share our opinions without the person seeing it! They have to actively be looking to see what we’re saying on here
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10000% we have freedom of speech
So does Abby
But this is our place
A private place where people join to talk openly
Without judgement too
The fact we all feel similar things makes me want to say
We can’t all be wrong
We can’t all think the same thing and be incorrect.

I come across Abby and her page when someone told me they was feeling triggered by her and anxious and had unfollowed so I become interested in her through that
Tattle is our place to talk 🤍
 
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Xanadu81

Ultimately, the reason these handful of people are supposedly messaging her to keep in with her account is schadenfreude. (Google it, Abby)

You are not cut out for social media, focus on your career and finding your next home and being happy.
 
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lanaisasaver

Xanadu81 said:
Ultimately, the reason these handful of people are supposedly messaging her to keep in with her account is schadenfreude. (Google it, Abby)

You are not cut out for social media, focus on your career and finding your next home and being happy.
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Yes I think she needs to do that when my MH is bad I come off my page
And once I’m better I come back on

I am a counsellor by trade so I guess if anyone knows how to help MH ITS MYSELF and even I struggle at times Abby needs to stay off social media until she’s in a better place cos I know well myself when your feeling bad it doesn’t help

Social media isn’t any good for MH if your struggling

I enjoy tattle cos it’s a place to express without judgment and IG does not offer that 😂
 
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QwertyBert

Exactly, if people don’t like it they don’t have to read it. They can, now stay with me on this one, TURN 😳 OFF 😳THE 😳INTERNET.
Imagine!
 
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lanaisasaver

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Exactly, if people don’t like it they don’t have to read it. They can, now stay with me on this one, TURN 😳 OFF 😳THE 😳INTERNET.
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Years ago I used to moan about people on my FB and my mum used to say
Why do you look 😂

So true
I’m gonna Google myself now and see if anyone has made a tattle about my debt page 😂 oh god imagine
 
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