Sorry....who RAISES these men???? the mind boggles.
Oh no, he kept on. People like that donāt take hints easily. I remember driving home and phoning my dad to tell him about it. He said, donāt bother with him again!!!I don't blame you at all. Did he try and reach out again or did he get the vibe from the day
WTF, I don't think I would have joined him in the queue, I would have let him order his meal and then left straight away without ordering myselfAnother one turned up 45 mins late (donāt know why I stayed and waited), them took me to Nandoās and decided on his food and got up and got straight in the queue so I was then queuing behind him. Nope. See ya.
Did you travel the country shooting random innocents together and messing with snakesOn my first date with a girl, she wanted to go to the cinema. 'Sure' I say, 'I want to see Natural Born Killers' she says . You can guess where that relationship went.....
I disagree. There defo was plenty of weirdos and psychos 10 years agoThe problem with dating apps/sites is, back in the day, about 10 years ago, they weren't so popular and were a taboo topic. People were kind of embarrassed to say they were using them. It wasn't so common. And therefore, there weren't that many people on there and I met some really decent guys there and had long-term relationships. In recent years though, online dating has become very popular with all these various apps and now all sorts of weirdos and psychos are using them. It's become very difficult to meet someone decent and normal there unfortunately. At least that's my experience.
Sincere condolences on the death of your fiancĆ© - how sad. Sorry to hear of your dating experiences since then, I hope one day you meet someone who makes your heart sing again.Iāve had a few..
2017 my ex had left me and Iād found out horrific things he has been doing behind my back. My friends persuaded me to go on tinder & pof. Was on them for around 6 months, I spoke to one guy quite a bit, text a lot, phone calls etc. Then suddenly he ghosted me, he never went back on whatās app or pof etc. So I got over that and when I had pretty much given up thanks to all the random dick pics and twats I met the most incredible man. We got together and had the best times, we were engaged to be married last year but sadly he suffered bad mental health and he died 12 weeks before our wedding to suicide.
Im grateful for all the time I had with him though because he was my soul mate and he treated me like a princess. Itās been over a year since his death now and my friends have all been saying I need some fun. So back on tinder and pof I go.. (please donāt judge me for this, Iāve judged myself enough! Purely for fun. My heart is way to much still with my love I lost).
I met a guy on there, I was honest to all men I spoke to about my situation, seemed nice. ended up being a twit. Met another guy who I had no interest in but he doesnāt leave me alone, finally agreed to meet him and he came over one eve it was horrific, he didnāt get any of the hints, when he eventually left he hugged me and it was so so cringe.
Oh and the guy who ghosted ne back in 2017...one day Iām scrolling through Facebook and a friend had shared a news article, low and behold heās a weirdo and was put in jail !!! Lucky sodding escape.
So sorry for your loss, hope the future holds happiness for you xxIāve had a few..
2017 my ex had left me and Iād found out horrific things he has been doing behind my back. My friends persuaded me to go on tinder & pof. Was on them for around 6 months, I spoke to one guy quite a bit, text a lot, phone calls etc. Then suddenly he ghosted me, he never went back on whatās app or pof etc. So I got over that and when I had pretty much given up thanks to all the random dick pics and twats I met the most incredible man. We got together and had the best times, we were engaged to be married last year but sadly he suffered bad mental health and he died 12 weeks before our wedding to suicide.
Im grateful for all the time I had with him though because he was my soul mate and he treated me like a princess. Itās been over a year since his death now and my friends have all been saying I need some fun. So back on tinder and pof I go.. (please donāt judge me for this, Iāve judged myself enough! Purely for fun. My heart is way to much still with my love I lost).
I met a guy on there, I was honest to all men I spoke to about my situation, seemed nice. ended up being a twit. Met another guy who I had no interest in but he doesnāt leave me alone, finally agreed to meet him and he came over one eve it was horrific, he didnāt get any of the hints, when he eventually left he hugged me and it was so so cringe.
Oh and the guy who ghosted ne back in 2017...one day Iām scrolling through Facebook and a friend had shared a news article, low and behold heās a weirdo and was put in jail !!! Lucky sodding escape.
Oh my God, sounds like she dodged a bullet. People can come across as charming and charismatic online but in real life are anything but. I always advise people to meet up with their date sooner rather than later - don't fall in love with an online personality because the real life person might be very different. Plus there are the physical things you can't appreciate through the printed word or even video calls - a nasty habit of spitting when they talk, a weird swampy smell, breath that could asphyxiate a small child, greasy unwashed hair, dandruff flakes on their shoulders - or is that just the men I've met?Someone that I know went on a date with a man that she met on eHarmony. They had been talking for a couple of weeks and she thought that he seemed a really nice guy. They both shared a love of dogs and good wine. They agreed to go for dinner at a pub local to her. When she gets there, she soon realised that his online personality was nothing like his messages. She is a bubbly person and so was making jokes and giggling a lot. He said to her, completely stone faced, during the main course, āyou like to laugh, donāt you?ā She said back to him that he should ālighten up a bit, because he was coming across like a serial killerā. The conversation wasnāt great after this and so she didnāt opt for desert! He said that he would pay the bill and she politely accepted as she was just focused on getting out of there as she wasnāt getting a great vibe. When she stood up to leave, he smacked her on the arse really hard in front of everyone. She turned around to him and swore at him, asking him what he was doing and practically ran out of the place. I would have been mortified!!!
Sincere condolences on the death of your fiancƩ - how sad. Sorry to hear of your dating experiences since then, I hope one day you meet someone who makes your heart sing again.
Thank you bothSo sorry for your loss, hope the future holds happiness for you xx
Crying was he good looking!?A guy messaged me once asking if I'd like him to be my fart slave!
I had no clue what this was, and when I reluctantly googled it, the description was simply, "A person who enjoys being dominated by farts."
It was just so ludicrous that I jokingly replied back by thanking him but saying I already had a fart slave who came around every Thursday.
He seemed to take this totally seriously and got very excited that I was, in fact, some kind of farting dominatrix. He said he could actually come around twice a week for total fart submission.
I thanked him again but said that I just didn't fart enough to require two fart slaves.
He thanked me for my time and wished me well.
I remember he was over a good decade younger than me. I was late 30's and he was mid-20's, and funnily enough, he wasn't bad looking. Quite rugged, outdoorsy, etc.Crying was he good looking!?