I agree with so much of this. I've said previously on here, being preached at by the parent of one toddler is worse than being preached at by someone with no children.We are mostly gentle/attachment parents. I do actually agree with a lot of what she is saying (which for reference my children are well behaved, and my 4 in school have never even so much as been on the rainy cloud).
However, she's got one child that's 2 and she's preaching about parenting. She hasn't experienced so much of it! She hasn't seen the long game and how they are at 5, 9, 13 etc. I know she's a TA, but it's still not the same as actually having to parent those children.
I know I parent quite differently to friends and family and I just keep quiet about it. I only offer my advice or perspective if asked. Feels a bit cringey to me for just the average parent to be writing huge long captions about what an amazing parenting outlook they have, as not everyone's going to agree!
I agree about the rant - wonder if family and friends are perhaps on at her and she feels the need to justify herself?
As for the other bit about only giving advice when asked, I thank any parent who does this and wish more people were like it.
As for the rant about how she doesn't want to feel like she should have to keep apologising for her parenting methods, then maybe she should rein her own opinions in a bit, because some people will read her judgemental posts and feel like tit for doing things differently. She claims not to be judgemental, but her tone says otherwise.