Yep agree. There are some fab FB groups and IG accounts that give good cloth nappy fit and advice, why Nicola thinks her haphazard use over 8 weeks or whatever makes her expert I don’t know!Nobody wants an IGTV from you about cloth nappies, Pea. The fit on that Mio is bloody awful (also don't tend to recommend Mios for a baby that young but that's a tangent). It's performative anyway, we all know she wears disposables
Why even bloody bother.
One Day Of Winter #4 Reading this thread ‘isn’t her jam’, meanwhile R's got the baby in a choke slam.
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I have made a daal tonight 
I will be eating it at table not on floor though. Takes all sorts to make up this world.
I will be eating it at table not on floor though. Takes all sorts to make up this world.
I think this is what annoys me about it most!! All four of ours were in cloth, we used a few different types and brands, and I still wouldn't feel confident doing an IGTV/stream/video! Everyone's experience of using cloth is very different, everyone does it their own way. They're not new (especially if you ask anyone over 50!) and even the 'modern' ones are well past being a novelty. That's why groups like CCN and CBM are brilliant because there's such a range of advice. What can Pea say that is any way useful in comparison??
this emoji seriously. Knob.
Ember fell of the sofa? Tf did she do? Swan dive because she's so advanced but not make the landing? No way a two month old has the ability to roll off the sofa, either too close to the edge or Damien pushed off the sofa
Be interesting to see if her facts are correct, my daughter was a cloth bum and like you say it’s not new, and after her minimal use let’s see what a “genius” she is in cloth bums now.
Not if you are pushed by your sister....2 months is very early to be rolling
I wonder if she has told the nursery that children aren't allowed to cry in Ravens presence incase it disturbs her play?!
i know, she’s doin a fukin cbeebies magazine not in the middle of a gcse exam
I just wonder what skills she’s therefore depriving her of? Like the ability to learn and work in a classroom with noise, or further down the line in an office with background noise.
Agree with this!! And tolerance, she’s not allowing her to develop tolerance to others naturally. And therefore will start to resent others when she doesn’t get her way, for example at nursery.
She’s depriving her of everything, except how to cut and stick crap from a bloody magazine!
she thinks she’s doing better than the rest of us, but our kids will be able to socialise with others, learn about being kind and sharing, know when someone isn’t behaving appropriately towards them. We are all teaching our kids skills which will be useful to them later in life. Pea is doing nothing but teach Raven that the whole world revolves around her, and we’ve all heard what happens when she doesn’t get her own way - she bites, hits and throws things - that’s going to be tolerated in a work environment when she’s older isn’t it? 
She’s basically enabling Raven to act like a spoilt brat. So much for her parenting style being ‘better’ than the the rest of us who set boundaries and rules and teach our children to be respectful - My 7 year old has better manners than most adults I’ve met, has never thrown anything at me, is kind to everyone and his teachers adore him, because I’ve set down boundaries and taught him from an early age what sort of behaviour is acceptable and what isn’t, it’s not hard to do. She’s doing Raven a huge disservice by acting like she’s some kind of bloody prodigy and the sun shines out of her arse. I just wait for the day when Raven hurts another child and the parent takes it up with Pea what a little brat her child is, maybe she won’t be so smug then!Think I said it previously, but I seriously cannot understand a mother that won’t have play disturbed by a crying baby, but will have everyone’s sleep disturbed by a ridiculous sleep set up!! Surely Raven’s sleep is more important than her play time? She doesn’t think normally at all.
I mean, going out on a limb here,but hearing her sister cry and maybe being involved and 'helping' settle her may teach her empathy? Patience?
What happens if a younger child at nursery starts to cry around her? Will she tell them to go away? Because she's more important?
Excuse my language but what kind of fucked up parenting idea is this?!
I grew up with multiple siblings of all ages and was always able to play. I just either ignored the crying or played real life baby dolls with the babies and cuddled them until they fell asleep
What happens if a younger child at nursery starts to cry around her? Will she tell them to go away? Because she's more important?
Excuse my language but what kind of fucked up parenting idea is this?!
I grew up with multiple siblings of all ages and was always able to play. I just either ignored the crying or played real life baby dolls with the babies and cuddled them until they fell asleep
She's enjoying her alone time despite the fact she still has 'a baby' strapped to her.
WHY DOES SHE STILL TALK ABOUT EMBER AS IF SHE'S NOTHING TO DO WITH HER?
WHY DOES SHE STILL TALK ABOUT EMBER AS IF SHE'S NOTHING TO DO WITH HER?
Ahh duck it I’m just going to say it. She’s raised Raven to be a proper prick. And she’s a prick herself for doing so.
This is what pisses me off. Because if it was Raven it would be 'my beautiful daughter kangarooed on me close, feeling her warmth and breath and enjoying skin to skin'.
Ember it's 'a baby strapped to me'. Like she's an annoyance.
This!!
Why is it always ‘a baby’ ‘the baby’
You mean, your baby, your Daughter, Ember!
She’s such an hole!
The disparity between how she speaks about Raven and how she speaks about Ember is so upsetting.
Doesn’t matter how many bizarre videos you do of Ember in a badly worn sling, Pea. The fact you call her “a baby” says it all!!
Doesn’t matter how many bizarre videos you do of Ember in a badly worn sling, Pea. The fact you call her “a baby” says it all!!
Oh look, she's sick of Ember again
So Ember is allowed to come off the boob and ‘be sad’ and have to go to sleep, but Raven isn’t?? She can’t keep feeding because Raven needs a sandwich?? The actual baby, needing to breastfeed, is being limited by her older sister???
Also, that wrap positioning is getting worse. Get her hips sorted and support her head Nicola!!!
Also, that wrap positioning is getting worse. Get her hips sorted and support her head Nicola!!!
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