Northern Ireland #13 Cafflicks and Prods up a tree K-I-SS-I-N-G

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Absolutely Abusers are protected and victims are doubted, ridiculed and shamed. It’s a tale as old as time. A difficult situation because even if there’s a conviction, people still discredit victims. We know how wrong courts can get it and being found not guilty really does not mean innocent. Although in this particular case, it didn’t even get that far. Even if Derry did receive the email, what were they to do? As you say, master manipulator and a lot of the time, people would rather not acknowledge the awful truth.
 
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As far as I’m aware police checks would only provide them with information on convictions and he was never even charged so his record would come back clear. All they could do was get rid, that’s where their power begins and ends.

Yeah this is it. He tricked everyone, that’s how I see it. I’m just scared that people are so caught up in wanting heads to roll that they’ve forgotten about the 3 innocent children. The oldest girl is 11 I think, I hope the kids are being well supported. I know Nicola used social media as a last resort but the kids might not forgive her. What a mess
 
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I don't think any person who still had a relationship with their children would do this. Big assumption I could be totally wrong, I think it was her last resort.
It looks like nothing else mattered last Tuesday night. Reading between the lines I think the court judgement in feb left her rudderless.
Maybe the psni will take another statement but I doubt it, his solicitors would have a lot to say if they did. Unfortunately his statement and request for privacy for the kids will be exactly what the courts want to hear. We can say she was brave and people who've experienced abuse should never be silent but that's not how professionals will look at this situation. Not a popular opinion but its reality.
 
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Oh really I knew of him years ago, or should I say thought I knew him
 
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The children saw plenty of abuse happening in their home I’m sure (or heard it). He did not think too much of them at that time. Hiding behind his children, he is nothing but a coward. He must have some support network helping him with these children, as a man in a managerial position for a county team has little time at home. He is traipsing them round Derry watching club games, hardly a stable upbringing.
I’d say Nicola had had enough of him being the big I AM in the eyes of the world. I would hope when they are older the children realise what their mother was subjected to. He has 2 daughters and I wonder how he would like them to come home with a man like himself?
 
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Oh I'm ascared of her. Bet she has a couple of those scary dogs I hate too.
 
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A nursing assistant. Lovely. Is she hoping to be reinstated or is it for compensation?
Thank God she’s not caring for us or ours eh ! I think she was looking for both tbh.
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Crickey ! you must’ve been in cloud cuckoo land lol ,check out the earlier threads for the awful vid ( if it’s still visible)
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Horrific! Is it only me or does there seem to be a lot of NI people die on holiday accidents
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Edit …she’s Irish not NI but seems to be a lot of tragedies recently.
 
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Accident, she was driving. There was a lot of holiday deaths, coming out the other side of it I think Covid jabs hurt people. Call me a crazy bastard.
 
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Accident, she was driving. There was a lot of holiday deaths, coming out the other side of it I think Covid jabs hurt people. Call me a crazy bastard.
You’ll be cancelled Mavis
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Plot twist. Mary is a stooge. Denise who decided to burn her was real though. Very real.
 
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