True. But some people just can't be real and authentic. Unhealthy ego.I feel like Niomi would be in a much better place if she allowed herself to express disappointment and unhappiness in the moment, rather than trying to paint a picture of being happy and taking immediate positive learnings from everything.
It's perfectly fine to say "I got my heart broken, I lost myself, I had an unhealthy relationship with a manipulative man, and I'm trying to figure out who I am and what I'm meant to do."