Niomi Smart #53 Still missing JoeJoe, now selling a Dildo

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Lovely @palmer I am so so sorry this has happened to you especially days before Christmas. If someone can do this to you that abruptly you are better off without them and thank your lucky stars that a man capable of doing this to you did not waste another year of your time. Let yourself grieve in whatever way you need to and seek therapy if you can, Niomi is fucked up because she thinks she got over this in days and didn't get the help she needed, but that doesn't have to happen to you. We are all here for you
 
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@palmer- having the courage to post that account of what has happened tells us a lot about you.Your partner is a selfish coward and not worthy of you. Everything you thought you knew has shifted and you will have to deal with that, in time.
He wasn't your future.
Don't worry about ending up like Dimbobs- you're smart, empathetic and self aware.
Your future will be better because it's entirely in your hands.

Big hug from me.
 
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This is
Can someone explain to me why she runs like that!!!

I am so sorry Palmer, it's one of the worst feelings. I know many people that have been in the same boat, and they've ALL gone onto better things. Nothing will make you hurt less right now, but please know that things WILL work out in the end. Sending you love
 
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I'm so sorry to hear this @palmer. My heart truly goes out to you. I don't know how anybody does this to someone they've been in a relationship with for so long. It's unfathomable to me how someone can do this out of the blue to a person they've built a whole life with. Truly, some guys are such assholes. I hope you have friends and family near that you can be with right now - people who truly love and appreciate you. Remember, we're always here to talk too. I am so sorry this happened to you.

The fact that you've shared this with us and are being honest about how you feel right now, tells me you're a million miles away from Niomi. She was already saying she had healed about a week after the Joey split. She lives in a constant state of denial and has never been honest -not to herself, not to her audience and I'd wager not to anyone she knows in real life either - about how their break-up really affected her.
 
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Her new video… the hell??

N: Hey babe, I don’t know what to film for a vlog, I’m lazy…
J: Okay I got you, how about you sit down with a cup of tea and I will interview you about your contraception methods documentary style?
N:
 
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@palmer sending you my love and a big hug. You don’t have to worry about ending like Nims. Like others have said before me in a more articulate way you’re self aware and honest about your feelings. You’re not burying your head in sand. Surround yourself with your loved ones during the Christmas break, they’ve got you. If you feel like to talking we’re here

On another note I’d like to point how lovely you are, dear Tattlers! This may be considered a “shit talking” forum, but most of us came over here to vent and talk about our frustrations about Niomi. And whenever someone in this community has had a hard time you’ve shown your compassion and love, something which cannot be said about Niomi.
Much love to all of you
 
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Lordon is definitely becoming/wants to be part of her channel. She just uploaded a video titled "Contraception' where he interviews her about her history with contraception. It's so random, as if they were talking about it, but then decided to film it and he interviewed her - as you do. The rest of the video is just normal vlog style. The contraception chat kind of comes out of nowhere; it's like she didn't have enough footage for a vlog and just put it in there.
 
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Her new video… the hell??

N: Hey babe, I don’t know what to film for a vlog, I’m lazy…
J: Okay I got you, how about you sit down with a cup of tea and I will interview you about your contraception methods documentary style?
N:
And it's so badly done that we can't even hear the questions properly. She puts absolutely 0 effort into all this
 
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Her new video… the hell??

N: Hey babe, I don’t know what to film for a vlog, I’m lazy…
J: Okay I got you, how about you sit down with a cup of tea and I will interview you about your contraception methods documentary style?
N:
also wtaf, has anyone else in the UK who went to a GP appt been told they "need" to go on contraception?
And what is with the caps all the time now?

I know this is Niomi’s thread but has anyone else noticed how much weight Venetia has lost recently? She looks so gaunt to the point that her neck even shrivels up when she talks… I’m in shock
She has a (very slow moving) thread here, but I agree, she is wasting away and doesn't seem happy as she once was
 
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AWFUL. Very sad and upsetting....but youre in shock!! Shock will fade. Have a think,were there any red flags you just turned a blind eye to? Were there any signs you chose to ignore? This way you wont make the mistake of being with such a person again and things will end before they get too far. Im not saying in any way this is your fault btw. And NO you will not end up like Niaomi!! Give yourself time..its gonna be rough for a while. Therapy will help etc. You will come out the other side i promise.
 
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I know this is Niomi’s thread but has anyone else noticed how much weight Venetia has lost recently? She looks so gaunt to the point that her neck even shrivels up when she talks… I’m in shock
Venetia’s weight loss is very concerning. I've also been quite shocked by some pictures I've seen of her these past few months.

She has a thread where this has been discussed a bit: https://tattle.life/threads/venetia-falconer.393/

also wtaf, has anyone else in the UK who went to a GP appt been told they "need" to go on contraception?
Something tells me she wasn't telling the full truth here. Was she in a relationship with Marcus at this point? If so, she probably didn't want to mention it and made up that story about going to her GP about a 'cold or something' and was put on the pill immediately because she was sixteen.

She has erased Marcus just like she erased Forky!
 
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Their "interview" segment was so bizarre... they were talking as if they were strangers.
 
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Ong… does anyone else hear what I hear at 14:02 of her newest video? It sounds like she says “Joe” has surprised us with carols at the Royal Albert. Joe instead of Jamie … Freudian slip!?

Also, the sit down chat is so weird.
 
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I find it a bit creepy how Lordon is steering her to talk about sex stuff all the time. If you want to, more power to you, but it's so evidently his thing and not hers.

Trucker Nims in her cap and little hoop earrings
 
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It’s Christmas in five days and she’s talking about her contraceptive history. She used to love getting in the Christmas spirit
 
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So sorry to hear this. Like many others, I've been there. In time you will look back and feel very differently about him. Something very similar happened to me and I was told I would see red flags and things I had overlooked- I was adamant he was perfect. It didn't take long to see things differently with the benefit of hindsight. Please take lots of time to yourself and lean on your friends and family all you need. There is no rush to get over this and the longer you take to heal the better you will feel in the long run.

I was told lots of times that people who go through this always come out stronger and go on to better things, and although I completely couldn't see that ever happening at the time, I absolutely did.

Also not that it matters- when guys break off a good relationship for someone else it VERY rarely works out. He will kick himself, because you clearly deserve better and he is an absolute idiot for letting you go. You're going to be so happy this happened in time- just let yourself feel everything and focus on taking care of yourself. Big hugs to you, we are all here if you need us!!
 
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This "interview" is not random, this is her (their) "subtle" way to preview her (their) podcast & receive comments like " I love it Niomi, can you talk about something else, it is so interesting & you are so smart". Surely her (their) podcast will be about sex ( we all know how she jump into her current man's lifestyle!)
 
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She should turn the camera around and ask him how he feels about his past “businesses” endangering young women. Now THAT’S a conversation I’d like to hear
 
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She called the pill a “synthetic man made drug” that took over her body and hormones.
And copper coils grow on trees? Copper coils may be non hormonal, and it may be great for her, but they have plenty of side effects of their own. I had a completely horrible experience with it, it made my periods unbearable, heavy to the point I got anaemia, and gave me pain all month round.

The synthetic horrible pill made my periods lighter and more regular. I got scared off it by stupid tiktoks and influencers, but it can do good things. She tried one type of hormonal contraception for two months in her whole life and thinks she can give advice that it’s evil. Niomi should not be talking about medical things she is an influencer who starved away her last brain cell years ago, this is irresponsible.
 
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