This isHello tattlers, long time no see!
I was gone for few months 'cause I was licherally sooo busy (actually busy getting my master's degree not Niomi busy lol) so I couldn't keep up with this thread but I still saw all the shitshow on instagram. Since I feel like engagement is just around the corner I wanted to return here to see all the comments
And would it really be a post of mine without a badly done edit, this time inspired by her ridiculous insta story lol
I am so sorry Palmer, it's one of the worst feelings. I know many people that have been in the same boat, and they've ALL gone onto better things. Nothing will make you hurt less right now, but please know that things WILL work out in the end. Sending you loveSorry slight OT -
I feel so stupid you guys. I can’t believe I’m saying this but I am now in the same boat as Niomi. Last week my partner of 6 years came home one night and broke up with me out of the blue. He packed up his bag and left that same night. We had been living together for 5 years and 4 years ago I moved across the world to a foreign country to follow him for his work. He completely blindsided me, he’d never mentioned he had any problems with our relationship until that night. We had also just renewed our lease literally just a few weeks ago, so there was no way I expected this. He said he caught feelings for his colleague. Why do men keep doing this?! The pain is excruciating. Please pray for me that I don’t end up in the same place as Niomi. I don’t know how the hell i’m going to heal from this. This is the biggest shock of my life and it’s pure agony. Will this leave me as fucked up as she still is all these years later?
I'm so sorry to hear this @palmer. My heart truly goes out to you. I don't know how anybody does this to someone they've been in a relationship with for so long. It's unfathomable to me how someone can do this out of the blue to a person they've built a whole life with. Truly, some guys are such assholes. I hope you have friends and family near that you can be with right now - people who truly love and appreciate you. Remember, we're always here to talk too. I am so sorry this happened to you.Sorry slight OT -
I feel so stupid you guys. I can’t believe I’m saying this but I am now in the same boat as Niomi. Last week my partner of 6 years came home one night and broke up with me out of the blue. He packed up his bag and left that same night. We had been living together for 5 years and 4 years ago I moved across the world to a foreign country to follow him for his work. He completely blindsided me, he’d never mentioned he had any problems with our relationship until that night. We had also just renewed our lease literally just a few weeks ago, so there was no way I expected this. He said he caught feelings for his colleague. Why do men keep doing this?! The pain is excruciating. Please pray for me that I don’t end up in the same place as Niomi. I don’t know how the hell i’m going to heal from this. This is the biggest shock of my life and it’s pure agony. Will this leave me as fucked up as she still is all these years later?
And it's so badly done that we can't even hear the questions properly. She puts absolutely 0 effort into all thisHer new video… the hell??
N: Hey babe, I don’t know what to film for a vlog, I’m lazy…
J: Okay I got you, how about you sit down with a cup of tea and I will interview you about your contraception methods documentary style?
N:
also wtaf, has anyone else in the UK who went to a GP appt been told they "need" to go on contraception?Her new video… the hell??
N: Hey babe, I don’t know what to film for a vlog, I’m lazy…
J: Okay I got you, how about you sit down with a cup of tea and I will interview you about your contraception methods documentary style?
N:
She has a (very slow moving) thread here, but I agree, she is wasting away and doesn't seem happy as she once wasI know this is Niomi’s thread but has anyone else noticed how much weight Venetia has lost recently? She looks so gaunt to the point that her neck even shrivels up when she talks… I’m in shock
AWFUL. Very sad and upsetting....but youre in shock!! Shock will fade. Have a think,were there any red flags you just turned a blind eye to? Were there any signs you chose to ignore? This way you wont make the mistake of being with such a person again and things will end before they get too far. Im not saying in any way this is your fault btw. And NO you will not end up like Niaomi!! Give yourself time..its gonna be rough for a while. Therapy will help etc. You will come out the other side i promise.@palmer so sorry to hear that. Please just keep yourself busy. And like everyone’s said, just remember that he wasn’t meant to be. One thing niomi did say that made sense was ‘if he’s your person he wouldn’t be doing this’. I know you’ll be hurting like hell, but it will get better
The amount of guys I know who does this is just insane, and to not want to work on anything is just a cowards way out. Sending love xxx
Venetia’s weight loss is very concerning. I've also been quite shocked by some pictures I've seen of her these past few months.I know this is Niomi’s thread but has anyone else noticed how much weight Venetia has lost recently? She looks so gaunt to the point that her neck even shrivels up when she talks… I’m in shock
Something tells me she wasn't telling the full truth here. Was she in a relationship with Marcus at this point? If so, she probably didn't want to mention it and made up that story about going to her GP about a 'cold or something' and was put on the pill immediately because she was sixteen.also wtaf, has anyone else in the UK who went to a GP appt been told they "need" to go on contraception?
So sorry to hear this. Like many others, I've been there. In time you will look back and feel very differently about him. Something very similar happened to me and I was told I would see red flags and things I had overlooked- I was adamant he was perfect. It didn't take long to see things differently with the benefit of hindsight. Please take lots of time to yourself and lean on your friends and family all you need. There is no rush to get over this and the longer you take to heal the better you will feel in the long run.Sorry slight OT -
I feel so stupid you guys. I can’t believe I’m saying this but I am now in the same boat as Niomi. Last week my partner of 6 years came home one night and broke up with me out of the blue. He packed up his bag and left that same night. We had been living together for 5 years and 4 years ago I moved across the world to a foreign country to follow him for his work. He completely blindsided me, he’d never mentioned he had any problems with our relationship until that night. We had also just renewed our lease literally just a few weeks ago, so there was no way I expected this. He said he caught feelings for his colleague. Why do men keep doing this?! The pain is excruciating. Please pray for me that I don’t end up in the same place as Niomi. I don’t know how the hell i’m going to heal from this. This is the biggest shock of my life and it’s pure agony. Will this leave me as fucked up as she still is all these years later?
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