Not on your honeymoon with Joe
Not on your honeymoon with Joe
In case you’re not awareI don't think me replying to something she posted publicly, even if it was a "private" reply, constitutes harassment. Maybe if I was incessantly messaging her hurtful or threatening things it would, but a one-time reply that points out the hypocrisy of her actions is hardly harassment. I do appreciate your concern though!
Just to clarify, did my response come across as tone policing in this situation? Because if it did, that wasn't my intention at all and I apologize if that's what I did!! I just wanted to clarify to the op that me messaging Niomi today was the first and only time I've ever responded to her in private– that I'm not (allegedly) harassing her in her dms regularly.In case you’re not aware
The Rules Of Tattle
Rules are boring I know, but hopefully the below will explain the rules we have at tattle as having and understanding them are important for a good community. Don't attempt to moderate, tone police or tell people what they can post I don't think anyone should talk about XXX here I'm all for...tattle.life
I think it's more about messaging influencers. The second rule saysJust to clarify, did my response come across as tone policing in this situation? Because if it did, that wasn't my intention at all and I apologize if that's how it's being read!!
Keep it on Tattle and no trolling
Trolling is contacting someone in their feed in order to upset them.
Keep all messages on Tattle. Any poster bragging about sending unpleasant messages to an influencer or their followers will be banned. This is trolling and would discredit the whole site and it's posters if we allowed it.
People coming on Tattle trying to disrupt here are the definition of trolls and will be removed.
No, I think they're sending you the guidelines because one of them is "keep it on tattle"Just to clarify, did my response come across as tone policing in this situation? Because if it did, that wasn't my intention at all and I apologize if that's what I did!! I just wanted to clarify to the op that me messaging Niomi today was the first and only time I've ever responded to her in private– that I'm not (allegedly) harassing her in her dms regularly.
Okay, I see. I didn't know about this rule, and I wasn't trying to troll, but this is still totally on me. Sorry, everyone!!! If it's possible for moderators to delete other members' posts, anyone can feel free to delete my original post given that it was an inadvertent violation!No, I think they're sending you the guidelines because one of them is "keep it on tattle"
Keep it on Tattle and no trolling
Trolling is contacting someone in their feed in order to upset them.
Keep all messages on Tattle. Any poster bragging about sending unpleasant messages to an influencer or their followers will be banned. This is trolling and would discredit the whole site and it's posters if we allowed it.
People coming on Tattle trying to disrupt here are the definition of trolls and will be removed.
So, just, yeah.
It's impressive that you didn't get all bend out of shape or defensive about the comment written to you, which is something Niomi does all the time about anything that doesn't say "you're gorgeous". You took it like an intelligent, mature adult. I applaud that, it took me years to even get to that point. I might be wrong but I think you can report your own comment and make a note that you just want to have it deleted in case you made a booboo?Okay, I see. I didn't know about this rule, and I wasn't trying to troll, but this is still totally on me. Sorry, everyone!!! If it's possible for moderators to delete other members' posts, anyone can feel free to delete my original post given that it was an inadvertent violation!
Also, tysm for the clarification @QueenBW and @MiraZol, it's much appreciated.
Thanks, Callan, but everyone else was totally in the right here. Just to be safe, I submitted a takedown request for my post. The last thing I'd want is to jeopardize this space for others!It's impressive that you didn't get all bend out of shape or defensive about the comment written to you, which is something Niomi does all the time about anything that doesn't say "you're gorgeous". You took it like an intelligent, mature adult. I applaud that, it took me years to even get to that point. I might be wrong but I think you can report your own comment and make a note that you just want to have it deleted in case you made a booboo?
What an obvious beg for engagement this story is.Then you see Nibobs post things like this and it's us who is prying into her life? She legit wants us to know where she is every second of her day. I don't have to be a detective that see that she's in Oia, Greece.
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I wouldn’t have thought your message constituted trolling, I would assume that rule was about harassing and mean messages, but there you go.Thanks, Callan, but everyone else was totally in the right here. Just to be safe, I submitted a takedown request for my post. The last thing I'd want is to jeopardize this space for others!
Again, thanks everyone for the clarification and for holding me accountable to the site's T&Cs.