EXACTLY. You’re so right about this. She’s totally projecting her breakup grief and anxiety onto other things. It is so obvious that the way she chose to “cope” with the whole situation was completely wrong from the start. She just put off the inevitable until a later time without even realizing it. The whole “I knew I needed to start healing right away” was completely counterproductive to getting over it. Sweeping the grief under the rug is NOT healing.
She's also coming up on the 1 year anniversary of her engagement and moving to India. In another life she's still getting daily gifts from that hamper and going tree shopping with Freddie and buying gifts for when they stay at the cottage on the Woodward property. She's spiralling.
I totally agree with this. Her video is extremely out of touch. Why are brands giving her money still it annoys me! Everyone stop please lining her pockets. She complains so much about being ‘busy’ as the UK is in the biggest recession and lots of people are being laid off - out of touch
Completely agree with this. She can't be honest with herself though (not to mention with others), so she would never realize this. She literally spoke for 10 minutes about how she had the looongesssttt to-do list and how she didn't even know where to start (a list which had been GIVEN to her! Genuinely wish someone would just prepare lists of tasks for me to do so I don't even have to think about it myself--all she has left to do is just get on with it and go through things one by one!). The way she was talking about it, I thought it was, like, stuff that was going take days to complete if not weeks. But then in the next clip she says she "somehow" was able to "smash through the whole list," and it's only 4:15!!!! So it clearly wasn't that much at all now, was it??!!!!!!
The losing-it-over-smallest-mishap goes hand in hand with her insane control issues. Everything has to be pahfect and according to her plan, otherwise she has a meltdown. These are issues that “wellness” definitely won’t fix
Yep! When I went through a major, horrible breakup I was fortunate to have a stable 9-5 job that was actually super easy. I could do it with my eyes closed, but it gave me somewhat of a distraction in the day and paid the bills, however it didn't require me to actually focus very hard and I think that was a saving grace. I'd leave work at five every evening and bawl my eyes out all night, usually drinking wine in bed or sometimes not alcohol but would just cry and watch TV and feel AWFUL, waiting for the weekend so I could see friends and cry some more/get drunk with them lol. Not saying alcohol or being a slob is a good way of dealing with things, but I truly believe that being at rock bottom and knowing it for a couple of months helped me to heal a lot faster than other breakups where I've done a Niomi and "gone into self-care mode" only for the pain to come back a bit down the line. Honestly, I think the best thing for ole' Nimbobs would be to take a youtube/public social media hiatus, spend a few weeks in her flat with wine, deliveroo and her feelings, then start working on herself again once she's genuinely processed feeling crappy.
Exactly!! For what it's worth, I usually don't subscribe to the whole "you can't be stressed about work unless you're literally a brain surgeon/emergency care nurse/etcetc" thing, i think everyone has their own standards and I'm sure all of us have been stressed about work, whether professional or in school/uni or whatever. However there has to be a line, and I think making a whole video about how hard your job is, when none of what you do actually matters to anyone but yourself anyway, takes the biscuit. E.g. it's HER business, it's HER yoga course - she's not got anyone else relying on her? She could very easily have taken today off - I'd argue that getting through a short to-do list in a matter of hours isn't really working anyway. Surely her only social media or smart skin deadlines could be taken care of by someone else, it's hardly the world's biggest brand and she hasn't put much effort into it yet so i don't know why she's suddenly decided that today's the day?
Probably... although deliveroo in London does offer lots of healthy foods, all her fave notting hill vegan jaunts will be on there!
She's thick as 2 short planks- NOTHING can fix that!!The losing-it-over-smallest-mishap goes hand in hand with her insane control issues. Everything has to be pahfect and according to her plan, otherwise she has a meltdown. These are issues that “wellness” definitely won’t fix
I feel she has a slow approach to everything, like those persons who moves as a fast as a sloth? She probably takes forever to do quick easy tasks which is why I think you are right, she sees a normal list but her brain goes into panic because of her poor time management.
.... wait... Anna is trans???? Did I miss something???
She does everything so slowly with a weak and limp wrist. All while narrating to the camera.
Also, if it was a crass joke on an old IG she is probably frantically trying to get it deleted. She could easily lose her job for something like that coming to light. I think I found her veeeery old Myspace from when she was a young teenager and if it is her, she is very much a girl.
