Does anyone else see a possible eating disorder here , fair enough about surgery if she has or hasn't ( I think she has had somethings done and that's fine) I know what it's like to diet , I've had weight issues I've lost gained and lost , my biggest loss was 5st , with help of slimming group. I did manage to keep it off for the last 12 years I did what I had to I really loved cooking and trying things but never became obsessed . I think this is serious obsession . The amount of food she makes is absolutely crazy. Her children are constantly surrounded by food , baking cookies , icing biscuits eating ice cream cones. I have no problem with this , it's lovely to see the children enjoying themselves, but she is making their lives all about food now too.
She does not look very healthy now, OK she did not look healthy before either . I really hope she has some honest friends who might be able to guide her and be there for her