Agree, kay needed some make up on when I saw her. Ages ago someone said to her, oh you won't remember, you're too young and kay said, oh I'm older than I look. I thought, I'll be the judge of that!
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Wow it sounds amazing. I’m definitely going to try the breathing . Thanks for the input. I need help with anxiety, hopefully this will help[
Hey, that's amazing that you cold shower every day. You probably don't need the tub! I don't have a bath but bought a special tub thing for the garden. I've been Hoffing for a few years and when I do it regularly it makes a huge difference to my anxiety and general state of mind (always regret it when I get out of the habit). I bought the tub as I wanted to find a coping strategy for bad days that didn't come in a glass...
I think it took a few weeks for me to get the hang of the breathing especially as I was doing it without guidance at first. A lot of people are seeking the lightheadedness as it's like a high but it is emphasised that you go at your own pace - after all you are basically hyperventilating. And of course never do it IN water or just before, especially alone.
The first time I went in, I made noises probably made the neighbours wonder wtf was happeningGood luck to you if you decide to give the breathing another go x
A man went missing in Cheshire in November near the river and it took over two months to find him. His body was only 2-3 miles downstream from where he was last seen. I think bodies can get trapped but when conditions change they may move again.It's crass, and I apologise, but if she went in at that point, she hadn't travelled very far in 3 weeks? It doesn't make sense
Sorry I haven’t read about this. Was she having bad headaches ?
Yeah, it makes sense now. How awful
Agree, however do not most schools not do training for this? I grew up in New Zealand and we had to do a water safety course where we wore jeans & jumpers and had to jump into the diving pool and tread water for 20 minutes. The teacher wacked our hands if we tried to go to the edge. I saved my friend from drowning years later in Ibiza, so it it was skills that are definitely worth learning.
I wonder why they didn'tOh tit. I hate him for his attitude but if only they’d let him
Just thinking about dental records, I wonder if there is a dept on call for situations like this? Surely you don't wait for Monday morning for them to open? In fact, would the police obtain her dental records ahead of time specifically for this purpose? I would imagine the sooner someone is identified the better for the poor family
Oh god, walking along the canal near us makes me shudder. My kids would run and my nerves would be shot - they're learning to swim now and we don't walk along the canal anymore. I couldn't handle the worry!
The best thing you can do if you find yourself struggling in water is ‘float to live’. Even strong swimmers should follow this advice.
Float to Live – Respect The Water
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I know those of you hoping it's not her mean well but if it's not her then that means someone else lost their life who probably has a family and loved ones that would be heartbroken.
Nicola's family and friends have had time to process the possibility that she might have passed. I don't necessarily think it would be better if someone else lost their life instead.
We've been wrapped up in this story for weeks and we feel for the family and for Nicola, some people feel connected to her by knowing a bit about her life and struggles. I just think it's important to know that it the body is someone else (which it probably isn't but still), they deserve to be alive too, even though we don't know anything about them.
Nicola's family and friends have had time to process the possibility that she might have passed. I don't necessarily think it would be better if someone else lost their life instead.
We've been wrapped up in this story for weeks and we feel for the family and for Nicola, some people feel connected to her by knowing a bit about her life and struggles. I just think it's important to know that it the body is someone else (which it probably isn't but still), they deserve to be alive too, even though we don't know anything about them.
I don't think so. Wasn't he adamant that a body wouldn't be able to get over the weir and it was so shallow there that his boat got stuck on it?
I’m so confused upstream/downstream I thought the body was found nearer the sea way, downstream. And he did search 10 miles down that way and 1 mile up from the bench. I know he didn’t search the bench stretch as they said the police divers had already done that. Divers also went into areas he couldn’t clear.
so sad. Just awful.
Maybe it's awareness of what cold water does to breathing and the body is possibly not as well understood, along with the factors of wet clothes / swimming ability. I certainly didn't know what cold water shock was until I watched that.
After the police released the statement about the difficulties she'd been having, her family clarified it a bit and explained that she'd recently stopped using HRT patches because she was getting really bad headaches from them. I think her GP would have advised this because of the risk of stroke but someone medical/with actual experience might be able to clarify that. Stopping the patches led to a resurgence of menopause symptoms which impacted her mental health.
Seriously, what do they know? I very much doubt it myself. the trouble with their rolling news is that they have so much time to fill and they talk crap.Will they be able to find out how long the body has been in the river? I heard them say on sky news that the body may be able to be identified in person.
Hubby’s aunt died a few years ago and had to go off for post mortem. It was over two weeks before I saw her in the chapel of rest, and as she’d died suddenly I desperately wanted to say goodbye. She did not look good, so I can’t imagine how someone would look that had been in muddy water for three weeks looks.
Reportedly this was why she stopped her HRT, yes.
My Husband's ex boss passed away suddenly from an aneurysm - he had also had recent onset headaches. His wife said that he had had another sudden onset headache that evening and became very disorientated - she found him wandering around the garden and he collapsed whilst trying to get him back into the house. He was late 40's. I had forgotten about this until the member who I replied to posted about the possibility of an aneurysm. I don't like to speculate too much ahead of the official findings, but it could certainly explain how Nicola might have entered the water if this proves to be the case.
There's MANY other innocent missing people out there, I hope now Nicola has (probably) been found, the police put this amount of effort, resources and time along with daily almost constant press into other people aswell.
The amount of digging people have done such as his Pinterest, I hope those same people do the same for others.
But according to Mr Faulding BoDiEs StAy WhErE ThEy WeNt DoWn.
Whatever anyone thinks, tomorrow at 7pm as someone else has suggested, can we just put all theories to bed for a bit and come together to think of Nicola (if it's confirmed it's her) her family, and all those other families missing their loved ones right now. I think that would be a nice thing to do? 
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