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Why are they only sealing off the area now ? In all honestly if they did find her and it was murder… what evidence could they actually use from the crime scene given it has been open to the general public and so many have been attracted to that site because of the disappearance. Sorry to say some police heads will roll when this case is wrapped up.
So that Tok Tokkers can’t show up and start filming whatever the police are looking at, not for evidence preservation I wouldn’t have thought

Wait, I thought that poster had discussed with an editor friend and found out the info from them? Not that they (the poster) passed the info to the paper?!!

also, does Blackpool lane lead *away* from the scene?
See post 81, it shows a google map showing the road
 
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I don't think we can judge what people like to look at on the internet. How do you all know it's not normal? And even if it's "abnormal" its bleeping boobs!

I honestly think people need to take a long hard look at themselves. It's 2023 not 1723. People on here acting like puritans come on now. Your children probably look at far worse things.
That's fine, I just disagree that men openly liking videos of mostly 16/17 year old girls (who looked extremely young) with huge tits is normal. Almost all of the pages he chose to follow, were soft porn content.

I'm honestly not arsed what people do in private as long as no one is harmed and everyone consents but I really do think it's creepy to see a Dad have a profile dedicated to stuff he can sleaze over 🤷‍♀️

I am not a puritan in the slightest, just think that app has a lot more to offer than young lassie's boobs.
 
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Do we have a map of the area gobby number 1 covered?

I thought there was proof she didnt come back that way from cctv outside the pub.
Blackpool Lane comes all the way down and out of St Michael's. CCTV covered the fork off exit of the riverside path that comes out by the pub.

The actual riverside path entrance has no cctv.
 
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I don't think we can judge what people like to look at on the internet. How do you all know it's not normal? And even if it's "abnormal" its bleeping boobs!

I honestly think people need to take a long hard look at themselves. It's 2023 not 1723. People on here acting like puritans come on now. Your children probably look at far worse things.
I really don't believe this is the reason why there is much pearl clutching going on, myself included. Lots of men and women enjoy porn or titties or whatever you're having yourself sir. It's the fact that he's in a committed relationship and doesn't even have the basic respect to his partner not to at least be discreet about it. I'd be absolutely fuming if my husband decided to start following lots of young women on his social media. It's just ick and disrespectful. And I know he enjoys a wank on occasion, as do I, but there is a mutually respectful way to go about it.
 
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There are a couple of other leaks I have been keeping my eye on, one referred to an argument in their garden which made me think it had to come from one of their neighbours.

Very valid points being raised about P's family and male friends. Has he been married before too?
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I hope you now eat as many biscuits as you damn well choose. I am known to devour a packet of jammy dodgers within an hour, they are so dunkable!
Yes my dear, I sometimes eat a whole packet and when I do, I think HA! duck you! 😂❤

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I really don't believe why there is much pearl clutching going on, myself included. Lots of men and women enjoy porn or titties or whatever you're having yourself sir. It's the fact that he's in a committed relationship and doesn't even have the basic respect to his partner not to at least be discreet about it. I'd be absolutely fuming if my husband decided to start following lots of young women on his social media. It's just ick and disrespectful. And he know he enjoys a wank on occasion, as do I, but there is a mutually respectful way to go about it.

I also think it's weird from a professional stand point. Depending on your job, many people have to agree to have a certain code of conduct with their online activity. I don't see how being openly a bit pervy looks good for anyone 🤷‍♀️
 
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I wish I could agree with your post from the previous thread @Boring Monday I was a missing person which I wrote about in the last thread. I was arrested on screenshots I was accused of sending by a controlling partner. He would constantly check my phone, when I rang him once by mistake once (it was an old phone and it got knocked in my handbag and rang the last number) he didn’t just put the phone down after a few minutes, he stayed on the phone for 20 minutes, I can only assume listening in. He would suggest we go out with his mates and when it was his turn to get the drinks he‘d be gone for ages, he would be watching to see if I was flirting, I have never cheated in my life but he had. If I went out without him I had to send a photo to prove where I was. I couldn’t look in the direction of another man, as in his head I was having an affair, the list is endless. He was a good looking guy and to the outside world he was charming, we dated for a few weeks when I was in my teens, so not really long enough to see that side of him.
When I finally ended the relationship for good he still didn’t leave me alone. I saw him on several occasions in the evening outside my home across the road looking in, he left messages on my phone saying he’d seen me in my local area that day, even though he lived miles away from me and I told the police this. I found out about a year after the police incident, my neighbour had also seen him near my home but thought we were still together. I begged the police to retrieve Info from my phone which would show how nasty he could be (as unfortunately I’d deleted it all as I didn’t want anything to remind me off him) but they wouldn’t.
And for those wondering why I took it, I honestly don’t know because my marriage (before I went on to date the nut job) had been nothing like that, we parted because as we grew apart and wanted different things and are still the best of friends. I look back now and don’t recognise the person I was but I was physically and mentally ill, he made me believe I was this awful person who should be grateful to be with him. BUT when the police got involved, never once did they speak to my counsellor, or my GP. Nor were they suspicious that the messages he said I sent were screenshots that basically anyone could have written. I found out later he wouldn’t give over his phone for them to look into it further so they went on those. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Not only that, he‘d gone into different police stations at different times to make complaints about me. And when I was interviewed by the Police they said he told them I was controlling, I was really shocked and asked what did he say I did that was controlling, their reply (this was two male police officers) I told him what to wear and that was it.🥴 For one that was a lie, he use to say which shirt or trousers should I wear and that was basically it, I couldn’t care less what he wore he always looked nice but I couldn’t believe the police thought that was controlling, after all he’d done to me. A dear friend of mine said well that’s most women in trouble with the police for being controlling, she said she often said to her husband you can’t go out looking like that. 😂
I nearly took my life over it, my children would have been without their mother and I rang the police originally because he was stalking me and I was told by the police he’d hadn’t broken the law (this was a few years ago) all I wanted was for them to have a word with him to leave me alone but it was then turned back on me. I would never dream that kind of thing can happen until it happened to me. My counsellor said because he could no longer control my life, he was trying to do it vicariously through the police and they had enabled him, when they had so many opportunities to look into him and didn’t.
So I hope to god you are right and that the Lancs police are better than the ones were my area. I will never trust, or go to the police again and there are many, many more woman out there that feel the same, I know this from what I was told when seeking advice from the woman’s refuge. They are not kidding when they say women are being let down by the police, I hope to god Nicola wasn’t one of them.

Why is it that it seems the majority of men who are controlling, and constantly suspicious of their partners having affairs, have been or are being unfaithful themselves? I guess they are judging their partners by their own standards. And obviously they don't live by "What's good for the goose is good for the gander" as it is only OK if they do it. Can remember saying this (to gage the reaction) to a male who I felt had these tendencies, and he went very quiet and changed the subject. Normally one wouldn't have been able to shut him up.
 
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I mean shocking in that it raises massive questions re how the whole search operation has been conducted.
If it does turn out that her body is found close to the area, I personally don’t think it’s particularly shocking that it wasn’t found sooner tbf.
When I was a teenager a young man went missing from near where I lived and his body wasn’t found until 3 months later despite searches being carried out by police. He ended up being found less than a kilometer from his home, I wont say exactly how he was found because it’ll bait my location, but it was in quite an odd place for a body to be (cause of death or how he ended up there was never ascertained either) and they just hadn’t focussed their search in the right area.
The scariest thing is, I walked my dog through the field where his body was every single day for 3 whole months, literally walking less than 50m from him and I never noticed a thing, neither did my dog.
Obviously way more resources have been dedicated to the search for Nicola, but if they’ve been focusing on the wrong area this whole time then I can defo see why they’ve not found her yet.
 
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I feel desperately sad for Nicola. If the worst has happened then I hope this is her being found. The family need some closure.
 
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I don't think we can judge what people like to look at on the internet. How do you all know it's not normal? And even if it's "abnormal" its bleeping boobs!

I honestly think people need to take a long hard look at themselves. It's 2023 not 1723. People on here acting like puritans come on now. Your children probably look at far worse things.
I generally consider it abnormal if the boobs a bloke is looking at belong to an underage girl tbf.
 
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I don't think we can judge what people like to look at on the internet. How do you all know it's not normal? And even if it's "abnormal" its bleeping boobs!

I honestly think people need to take a long hard look at themselves. It's 2023 not 1723. People on here acting like puritans come on now. Your children probably look at far worse things.
As a young geezer myself I’m 27 so full of testosterone lol
I’d say it’s somewhat normal to have a cheeky look at womens picture that you come across on your timeline, but to make a folder and title it hot and actively add stuff to it at his big age is pretty peculiar. I don’t think it makes him a killer. Just a bit of a dirty old bastard
 
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But you're all assuming she cared because she's not hear to say how she felt. And even if she did care wtf does that have to do with the price of eggs. I honestly feel people are starting to lose their minds over this case
Would you leave 100s and 100s of photos of your wank material available for public viewing over 4 social media sites? I am sure you wouldn’t.

The big boobs etc are fairly innocuous, as we have mostly all agreed. Having it available for public viewing and while in a relationship is just strange on many levels. That’s really all we agreed on. But if you think that’s cool, you’re welcome to that too.

I for one would be absolutely morto if HR called me in to discuss a huge collection of NSFW images being freely available on my SM accounts.

Sorry, regardless of the situation at hand, that’s just weird and pervy. Put the pages on private at the very least.
 
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