Why are men so grose, honestly women pinterests are all outfits, home decore, new hairstyle men’s are big bouncy tits???
Imagine if ours were all big tight balls sacks
Imagine if ours were all big tight balls sacks
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DurtyweeshiteWhat's his tiktok account name please
Sorry if this has been mentioned but I follow Dan Walker (I liked him on Strictly!) on IG and he was quite a regular poster. I just looked back and he hasn’t had a grid post since 10 February (about the doc) and I don’t think I’ve seen any stories for him this week.
It probably means nothing but I wonder if he’s worried about a bit of backlash? The comments that I saw on the grid post at the time didn’t seem bad but there were a lot of asking why the documentary was made about Nicola given the amount of people who sadly go missing - if it’s public knowledge now that there’s a media connection between Emma and Dan, maybe he’s laying low?
Or maybe I don’t know what to think about anything any more and I’m suspicious of everyone and everything
The thing is, if she walked back in the door, she wouldn’t be ‘sectioned’ (I hate that term
). You can only be involuntarily hospitalised if you are actively suicidal or actively self-harming, or presenting a significant threat to another. This means the very extremes, not just shouting and being upset etc. This is reserved for situations such as attempting to jump off a bridge or wielding a knife at someone situation, where the person can absolutely not be talked down or de-escalated. It’s actually very hard to legal ‘section’ someone under the Mental Health Act, as it’s a complete breach of their rights. It *could* be possible to do it under grounds of incapacity, again this is tricky and depends on the person and the situation. If there were grounds for incapacity, a different route could and would probably be persued.I think that *if* she came back, she would have had time to think and be open to voluntarily receiving help. It is out there, it’s just very hard to get into the system unfortunately. If she is out there, I really like to think she’s somewhere safe.
If she’s out there and happy where she is, I’d like to think she will reach out in time to say she’s safe and the investigation could be closed. Unfortunately, with alleged addiction and MH problems, the reality of her situation is probably a lot more grim than just chilling out with a friend. It’s lovely to hope that for her though. She could come to mine in a heartbeat too for a shower, a hug and bit of dinner. Same for all of you Tattlers of anyone ever needed a leg up in life.
ETA: I hope this is not distressing to read for anyone who may have needed either voluntary or involuntary psychiatric care. We have all had points in our lives where we need help and there is absolutely no shame in that. I hate the old terminology regarding MH admissions, kinda alluding to the men in white coats coming to take you away shite. It’s not like that. It’s always carefully considered and a last resort.
Also ETA: Finding Paul’s alleged social media use as inappropriate or distasteful is not equating him to be a murderer.
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Whats the pintrest name please?
Ansell1045
yes possibly, its all very strange
Sorry I should have been more specific in terms of my previous post..
If she wasn’t getting help or had help to vanish, how far realistically could she get from the non cctv points out the walk? Has anyone looked what’s about? Obvs the police will have checked things (I’m hoping lol) but how far do we think she’d have ran to get away. If we’re saying that’s what happened.
If she wasn’t getting help or had help to vanish, how far realistically could she get from the non cctv points out the walk? Has anyone looked what’s about? Obvs the police will have checked things (I’m hoping lol) but how far do we think she’d have ran to get away. If we’re saying that’s what happened.
same pic as the tiktok
has he got a website?. thinkwithpaul.com
Apparently, there was a bus to Blackpool that morning at 9.35. A short walk up a path with no CCTV, close to where she was last seen. I like to think she got on that.
Don’t think it works!
So true! Men are stupid, essentially.Why are men so grose, honestly women pinterests are all outfits, home decore, new hairstyle men’s are big bouncy tits???
Imagine if ours were all big tight balls sacks
Long story, I have thought many times about posting this and haven’t but here goes, I will try and make it as short as possible.
After my divorce (we still remain great friends to this day) I was vulnerable when an ex from my teenage years contacted me, we started dating and basically he was very controlling, not from the offset, but by the end of the relationship I was unrecognisable mentally and physically. My ex-husband bless him was so worried he took me to my GP who gave AD’s and sent me for counselling, I was an absolute mess, also going through peri.
The ex partner who was controlling then started stalking me, texting me, also seen near my home which is down a dead end so it wasn’t by accident. My friends said I should report him so I did, the police came out and said he wasn’t breaking any laws (this was a while back now but I still think it was illegal to stalk) so I left it. Then I lost the plot one day and signed him up for stupid things online, including sending info on penis enlargement to his address,
incredibly daft and childish I know but I’d had enough.Next thing I have the Police at my door asking me if I was signing him up for things as he’d reported it to the police, I was so scared of being in trouble I denied it. Anyway they went to the bother of tracing it to my home and I explained I’d had enough of his behaviour and lost the plot. I was asked to sign a form stating I‘d stay away from him which I was happy to do and he had to do one too, which was all I wanted to be left alone by him. Next thing I have a woman texting me saying she’d dated him, he was an hole but he hadn’t stopped talking about me and she wanted to know how he treated me, all very odd. Anyway a week or so later the police ring me saying I need to stop contacting him or I’d be in serious trouble. I was still having counselling and burst into tears telling them it wasn’t me and they needed to find out who it was as I couldn’t stop something I hadn’t done. About a month later the police turn up at my home and arrest me. I’ve never been in trouble with the law in my life, not even a parking ticket. So off I go and have a police interview and they accuse me of sending all these texts to him which I hadn’t done and told them so, over and over again. My family were livid and ringing them up saying I was having counselling and they were very concerned for my MH etc. eventually that same day I’m released on bail.
But as much as I felt traumatised/humiliated/embarrassed I thought at least now they will look into it thoroughly and find out who’s doing it and then know it wasn’t me.A few weeks later a letter came through saying case was dropped but basically saying if I did it again I’d be in serious trouble. I was mortified, I hadn’t been cleared and I didn’t see it ever stopping, as well as still struggling with depression. So in the early hours with my girls in bed I thought I‘d take myself to a nearby railway line, as I couldn’t see any other way out of it, after all this is the police were talking about who have such power. As I was getting ready to leave I burst into tears, thinking how my heart broke and never recovered when my brother died when I was a child and I couldn’t do it to my girls, they are my absolute world, so I called a MH service who came out and sat with me. After they‘d gone I couldn‘t trust myself, so I booked somewhere to stay with our dog and my girls and we disappeared. I’m not sure who contacted the police but next thing they were trying to find me out of concern that I could harm myself. They rang my mobile asking me to just show myself at a nearby police station, I refused as I was terrified and didn’t trust them. Eventually a police woman higher up in the rank contacted me and I said I want this looked into to find out who is doing this otherwise I’m never going home and it was then that she told me they couldn’t, because my ex had gone into to different police stations each time only ever with screenshots of the messages, so they only had them to go on. She apologised and was shocked I’d been arrested on no hard evidence. After that he was then visited by them and told if he ever went to them again without handing over his phone to get proof he would be in serious trouble.
I could have taken my life over that and what is so upsetting the police officers who came out to my home never contacted my counsellor, or GP, even though they’d asked for that info to verify all he had done to me. To this day I don’t know if the woman who dated him and contacted me tried to set me up, or if he did it still trying to have control over my life.
So this case with NB and the previous police visit, although for a different reasons has really struck a cord with me and it breaks my heart to think she could also have been so stressed about the police incident and it tipped her over the edge.
As much as I still feel ashamed of myself for being arrested, I thought it important to share in case anyone else found themselves in a situation where they felt embarrassed/humiliated/ashamed and couldn’t face life, to let them know you’re not alone and things do get better.
I was also referred to the woman’s refuge for advice and they were wonderful, they weren’t surprised by my story and said they had many similar in regards to policeman not believing women and look what’s come out about how female police are treated in the force by some of the men.
So sorry for the long winded post.
Edit Just wanted to add this is not an attack on All, or Lancs Police because as many will know on this thread I’ve defended them, as I know not all police are the same. Although I do disagree with them making NB’s struggles with alcohol public knowledge.
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Goodness me the Pinterest! I’m howling at him pinning the one meme with the bearded man on about saving energy for orgasms, not what I wanted to imagine about him! 
Edited to add it says the topless women photos were uploaded by Paul Ansell, not just pinned! Filthy bugger.
Edited to add it says the topless women photos were uploaded by Paul Ansell, not just pinned! Filthy bugger.
Major pervGoodness me the Pinterest! I’m howling at him pinning the one meme with the bearded man on about saving energy for orgasms, not what I wanted to imagine about him!
Edited to add it says the topless women photos were uploaded by Paul Ansell, not just pinned! Filthy bugger.
I didn't think that photo looked like it was Paul, until I zoomed in 
he just looks younger. Its been said before that he dyes his hair and it does appear that way when you compare recent photos to the Tiktok one. Its not out of the realm of possibilities for a man to dye his hair. They sell box dyes targeted to men!
he just looks younger. Its been said before that he dyes his hair and it does appear that way when you compare recent photos to the Tiktok one. Its not out of the realm of possibilities for a man to dye his hair. They sell box dyes targeted to men!Imagine my shock clicking on his board called “landscapes” to discover that amongst the lovely pictures of scenery, there were some things that were very much not landscapes!
As karma for the info that has been put out there about Nicola, if would be kind of funny if #PissyPaul trended on Twitter. Not that I would condone it or contribute to it, it just would be a bit satisfying to see, if indeed he is responsible for the attempted ruining of her image.
Oosha the Pinterest 
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