Yes i took the same from that statement they want to make it VERY clear that it's all the menopause and not Paul that led to Nicola's crisis .
This, absolutely this!! I’m tired of seeing the police’s poor handling of Nicola’s private information yesterday being blamed on reporters or whatsisface ‘backing them into a corner’. They are the police, they should be able to withstand pressure from the media and do what’s best for the investigation and the family/missing person.
Like you say, good intentions but a bit cringy.
.There’s other rivers she could have gone to as well. On this map there’s The Grapes pub shown which is near where Nicola disappeared, the river flows left on this map out to sea BUT she could have equally gone inland too.View attachment 1965160
As far as I can tell, these are the only ones that go out to sea in this area, not sure which one the poster could be referring to
If it amazes you how Nicola can just disappear “into thin air” check this lady who has been missing 6 months last seen in a public park. It’s a shame this lady hasn’t had the coverage that Nicola has had.
Denise Jarvis: Renewed appeal for help finding woman missing for six months | Avon and Somerset Police
Denise, 44, was last seen on the evening of Wednesday 3 August in the area of Southey Park, in Kingswood, South Gloucestershire.www.avonandsomerset.police.uk
This is just too intrusive, maybe well meant but I'm sure those kids have plenty of support and resources from the adults in their lives who know what they need. Actually now I think of it more, this post feels like trying to get a little too close to the family for comfort. They should be left alone
Teach her what all the naughty words are and make a joke of it, say this is something that happens but in our house when the door's locked and nobody outside can hearHow do I teach my daughter this, she still gives me a scalding when I curse (never at her).
I raised her to be too polite.
*Edit, I hit reply to the wrong quote
if I cursed at home, my boy would grass me up to his Nanna if she was round. But then it worked after a bit, if he heard a swear word in the street he'd say 'That's an at home word intit Mum' and laugh. Another £100k GFM later this evening?
Oh I used to have self control. I don't swear like a sailor but the pandemic screwed me over when there was nowhere to be away from anyone.I have no idea!
I swear all the time in general conversation, but never ever around my kids. My eldest is 15 now and he’s never sworn around me. I think if I didn’t also have a 4 year old, I’d be more relaxed about my language now but I’m still so careful at home because the littlest hears *everything*
I’m trying to force myself to use some (mild) swears around my eldest but I just can’t do it, which my friends think is bleeping hilarious as they’re using to me swearing all the time
Oh she is still going to glare at me even when she is in her forties.Teach her what all the naughty words are and make a joke of it, say this is something that happens but in our house when the door's locked and nobody outside can hear
He did think it a brilliant game one summer was to run in from the garden to Mum shouting 'Knickers, Knockers, knackers Nanny' then run out again while she was sat on the sofa, I think he'd mastered the teachings of Mother by then, she thought it was hilarious! He's 31 now and never swears outside the front door. Xx
God love herOh I used to have self control. I don't swear like a sailor but the pandemic screwed me over when there was nowhere to be away from anyone.
This mummy forgot what fudge and sugar were for sure
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Oh she is still going to glare at me even when she is in her forties.
Although she does love to laugh at the word "balls" any time she hears it
son still remembers it now, how cheeky he was to his Nan, I just call it alternative parenting to get the required result in the end From what I’ve read from NB’s parents and loved ones, it was because people were threatening to sell stories on Nicola. Unfortunately the police can’t stop that and perhaps they wanted to address it themselves, rather than letting these despicable people get there first and make things up, along with profiting from it. I think they were stuck between a rock and hard place, forced on them by utter low life’s.This, absolutely this!! I’m tired of seeing the police’s poor handling of Nicola’s private information yesterday being blamed on reporters or whatsisface ‘backing them into a corner’. They are the police, they should be able to withstand pressure from the media and do what’s best for the investigation and the family/missing person.
They should have refused to comment when he asked them about it. Let the dick run his salacious article and let him take the flack for releasing such private information. They could then follow up with a well worded statement from the family if necessary. Stay respectful and show integrity.
Instead it’s entirely backfired on the police, most of the public don’t even know who Mark is so this won’t be his downfall, and the police are now the ones who have lost yet more trust from the public and under investigation from their own watchdog. Excellent work
And that’s if it’s actually the real reason the police bought up ‘vulnerabilities’ in the first place. Honestly it’s my belief they couldn’t stand the criticism (even if the criticism is unjustified) and wanted to shift the blame/focus elsewhere. They supposedly find the speculations a distraction and detrimental to the case but they - and them alone - are the ones responsible for yesterday’s shitstorm. They are the ones that pulled the trigger on that information going public. The public reaction and media storm the past 36hrs is entirely on them.
I can't even remember hearing about her. My god, 6 months. That must be torturous for her family.I’m from Bristol and the police hardly released any info about her disappearance other than she’d disappeared until last week when they released this:
Denise Jarvis: Concerns over woman missing for six months
Police investigate new leads after Denise Jarvis disappeared from the Kingswood area last August.www.bbc.co.uk
It would appear that they believe she’s “run away” or committed suicide.
my friend told her little boy he could swear when he was 16. Worked a treat cause he doesn't swear at all but will actively tell us (he's 10) that he can swear in 6 more yearsTeach her what all the naughty words are and make a joke of it, say this is something that happens but in our house when the door's locked and nobody outside can hear
He did think it a brilliant game one summer was to run in from the garden to Mum shouting 'Knickers, Knockers, knackers Nanny' then run out again while she was sat on the sofa, I think he'd mastered the teachings of Mother by then, she thought it was hilarious! He's 31 now and never swears outside the front door. Xx
They said at the press conference though, that The Grapes has CCTV both ways she she didn’t go past on either aspect or across the road?
Brilliant! They're funny aren't they. Has anyone asked him what his favourite word will be once he's 16??my friend told her little boy he could swear when he was 16. Worked a treat cause he doesn't swear at all but will actively tell us (he's 10) that he can swear in 6 more years
It wasn’t done in a kind manner though. In the press conference it was said for the first time ever that she had a number of vulnerabilities that meant she was deemed a high risk missing person. There was no suggestion at that stage the police had been forced to give out that nugget of information.
No one said the police were forced to do so. It could be that after discussions with the family, they thought it was best to be proactive rather than reactive to awful stories being released in the press. The family seem to believe NB is still alive and obviously want to protect her as much as possible. IMO it’s better coming out in this way, than in a tabloid.
Yes, all of this.
