Agree! My cynicism comes from the fact I look like Nicky right now and, as far as I am aware, I am not actively dying. Sometimes chemo makes you look like you are, and then 6 months later when it is all over you look like your normal self. Even if the cancer is still everywhere.I think by now we all know Nicky says and does things for maximum attention and her GFM and she is a prolific liar. She loves the attention from her it makes her feel good. What I’m struggling with is people saying oh she’s close to death, doesn’t have long and looks so ill but baring in mind she was always skinny but with chemo loosing her hair, eyelashes etc she’s going to look not so great it doesn’t mean she’s on her last legs that’s all and it’s imo. No abuse from me just a bit of frustration.
I could start saying I was dying (because I am aware I am if we are talking the slightly longer game), like Nicky has done in the past to earn a bit of cash, but that would worry my friends and family unduly. And I am not that person.
I'm well aware it is awful to be in her (our) situation and, who knows, it might be her (or my) last Christmas.
But cynically saying stuff like this on your Insta when you don't truly know doesn't help anyone though.
Well, unless you have a Go Fund Me...