Why doesnāt HMHC she get off her lazy ass and do a bit of gardening, is she allergic to mowing lawns aswell?! I donāt get this gender assigned bullshit, get off your ass and help the man, tidy up his left over bits of timber etc. do some stuff outside m, get some fresh air in her whinging lungs! They prob wouldānt be so sick all the time if they got some fresh air and Vit D, my kids love helping in the garden, they donāt last long but they get out there, and then usually play on the woman for longer than usual and do other outside activities because Iām out there.