This exactly I had an argument on tiktok (I never normally comment) over survivorship bias.Was having this conversation with my mum the other day. Can’t remember what we started talking about, but I was like ‘mum. There’s research as to why we aren’t supposed to put babies on their front’ ‘but I was doing it when you lot were younger (proceeds to count out how many of them had babies that didn’t die) and none of you lot died’ ‘well mum, babies did die. Just because it was ok for us at the time, a lot of time has passed and a lot of research has happened’
Oh, we were talking about the new baby’s bottle as my SIL isn’t a fan of the prep this time round
Because she commented on a car seat safety video and said "Back when my kids were young, we didn't have carseats. And they're still alive. This is all over the top these days"
Mmmm your children survived... Because you didn't crash... Maaaany other children died though
I just hate the "Well my child was fine" when giving dangerous advice