New baby and post birth advice #37 The only way to eat porridge is to tip it in the bin

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Oh what I would give for someone to feed me pancakes right now.. solo parenting is not going too well. Toddler was waaaay over tired from being up at 5 and no nap and woke at 8.30pm with some hideous type of night terror it was awful šŸ˜” luckily the baby just kindly goes back to sleep so I can deal with it šŸ˜¢ hereā€™s hoping my night isnā€™t too rough šŸ¤žšŸ¼
 
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After the usual night of wake ups every 2 hours and starting our day at about 5:15 I have made pancakes for the whole family this morning (egg free banana pancakes for the baby, gluten free normal pancakes for everyone else) plus a blueberry and strawberry sauce which I turned into chia jam for the baby... I'll expect my "mum of the year" medal any day now šŸ˜‚

I genuinely don't know what possessed me, I think I was filled with the festive spirit but I think I'm done for the day now, I've exhausted myself before 8am!
We had macdonalds breakfast. Baby elf had a hash brown šŸ¤£šŸ¤£
 
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I tried to make some the other day and the whole mix went in the bin after the first 2 failed.
Pancakes are harder to make than a roast dinner
Iā€™ve actually cried before trying to make pancakes and the first 2 coming out wrong. But that was with the premade ā€˜only have to add milk/eggā€™ mix, and Iā€™ve never gone back to it. I always make my own, and even if the first one is a bit questionable, the rest turn out perfect. And now I really want pancakes šŸ« 
 
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Iā€™ve actually cried before trying to make pancakes and the first 2 coming out wrong. But that was with the premade ā€˜only have to add milk/eggā€™ mix, and Iā€™ve never gone back to it. I always make my own, and even if the first one is a bit questionable, the rest turn out perfect. And now I really want pancakes šŸ« 
I donā€™t understand how theyā€™re so difficult to make and the first always goes wrong!
These ones were the banana egg and oats ones and Iā€™ve tried it with weetabix. Iā€™ve given up now Iā€™m sticking to pre bought scotch pancakes šŸ˜‚
 
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I always use the BBC American pancakes recipe. They have banana ones on there too. I've never bothered with oat ones šŸ˜‚
The 4yo would eat pancakes for every meal if I let her. No matter the type
 
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I think a good pan is the secret to making good pancakes. We bought a new one a while ago, and never have any dud pancakes. Dud kids, yes indeed. Dud pancakes, never.
 
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Gosh, pancakes are on the menu for breakfast about 4/5 times a week here šŸ™Š 3yo loves them and can now make the mix independently, all I have to do is cook them. I also find pancakes easier than scraping weetabix off the floor after baby throws it šŸ˜‚
 
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Gosh, pancakes are on the menu for breakfast about 4/5 times a week here šŸ™Š 3yo loves them and can now make the mix independently, all I have to do is cook them. I also find pancakes easier than scraping weetabix off the floor after baby throws it šŸ˜‚
Yes we have them a good few times a week as well. Plus we always make extra and freeze them, so after two or three making sessions weā€™ve enough for breakfast from the freezer.
They are the one thing ToddlerMe actually eats for breakfast šŸ™ŒšŸ»
 
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Pancakes in this house too for the baby šŸ™‹šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø I feel absolutely rotten today I think Iā€™ve woken up with some kind of stomach bug šŸ˜©
 
After a horrible 3 hours with the 3yo we've just arrived at a garden centre to go look at some lights and decorations... There is an older lady in the car next to me on her own eating a chocolate bar, I am so jealous haha. I said that to my husband and he said "has it really been so bad that your idea of fun right now is sitting alone in a car park eating a chocolate bar?" and my answer was an emphatic yes!
I don't think they understand how exciting alone time with a snack can be when they're not with the kids 24/7.
 
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KW thinking Iā€™m being over protective: This time of year when everyoneā€™s ill what is it with people still thinking itā€™s ok to visit? Father in law just called to say ā€œIā€™ve got a bit of a cold but I still feel ok to come over I just wonā€™t get too close to the babiesā€. Erm no how about you pop over when youā€™re better šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø
Call me paranoid but after whatā€™s in news about kids getting seriously ill I just donā€™t want to risk it.
 
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Getting really pissed off with this cost of living tit and not getting anything for your money anymore.
I put the heating on for 20 minutes itā€™s cost me Ā£1.50 and not even warmed the babyā€™s room by 1 degree so now Iā€™ve had to put the electric heater on in his room anyway otherwise heā€™s sleeping in a 14-15 degree room
Weā€™re not massively skint but itā€™s bleeping me off now worrying about bills and usage constantly

sorry just needed a moan about the tit show of this country and shell with their $9 billion profits. Wankers
Ahh we have a Victorian house and we have the same situation. I was on a thread earlier where someone said it was disgusting an influencer childā€™s bedroom was 16.5 degrees and it made me feel bad! For us itā€™s 16 with the heating on and itā€™s barely going above that at all. He actually does seem warm enough though, his hands arenā€™t cold in the night but Iā€™m with you on having to have the heating on just to keep them the minimum amount of warm šŸ™ƒ
 
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Ahh we have a Victorian house and we have the same situation. I was on a thread earlier where someone said it was disgusting an influencer childā€™s bedroom was 16.5 degrees and it made me feel bad! For us itā€™s 16 with the heating on and itā€™s barely going above that at all. He actually does seem warm enough though, his hands arenā€™t cold in the night but Iā€™m with you on having to have the heating on just to keep them the minimum amount of warm šŸ™ƒ
Is 16 degrees too low? Ive never even thought about it too much before Babyelfs room is 16 degrees now, we won't have the heating on again tonight. Hes in a vest, sleepsuit and 2.5 tog sleeping bag and hes been fine each night up untill now. Its supposed to get alot colder here in the coming week so I might get out the fleece pjs for him. I guess they would wake if they were cold wouldn't they šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø
 
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Is 16 degrees too low? Ive never even thought about it too much before Babyelfs room is 16 degrees now, we won't have the heating on again tonight. Hes in a vest, sleepsuit and 2.5 tog sleeping bag and hes been fine each night up untill now. Its supposed to get alot colder here in the coming week so I might get out the fleece pjs for him. I guess they would wake if they were cold wouldn't they šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø
Yeah same for what heā€™s wearing. I think weā€™ll get fleece ones too. We need to look into getting our loft insulated as upstairs is definitely not as warm but I really donā€™t think 16 is that cold, I thought it was the minimum okay temp for babies?! He seems fine anyway so Iā€™m going to stop worrying. šŸ¤£ Just made me wonder what temperature everyone elseā€™s rooms are in December!
 
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Yeah same for what heā€™s wearing. I think weā€™ll get fleece ones too. We need to look into getting our loft insulated as upstairs is definitely not as warm but I really donā€™t think 16 is that cold, I thought it was the minimum okay temp for babies?! He seems fine anyway so Iā€™m going to stop worrying. šŸ¤£ Just made me wonder what temperature everyone elseā€™s rooms are in December!
As far as I'm aware, they say 16-19 degrees is the ideal
 
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Ahh we have a Victorian house and we have the same situation. I was on a thread earlier where someone said it was disgusting an influencer childā€™s bedroom was 16.5 degrees and it made me feel bad! For us itā€™s 16 with the heating on and itā€™s barely going above that at all. He actually does seem warm enough though, his hands arenā€™t cold in the night but Iā€™m with you on having to have the heating on just to keep them the minimum amount of warm šŸ™ƒ
Weā€™re in a new build and itā€™s freezing, Iā€™ve gone in his room every night this week and itā€™s been around 15.6 so lower than the recommended temp I donā€™t think thatā€™s the reason heā€™s waking heā€™s in a long sleeve vest sleepsuit 2.5 tog bag and his helmet is meant to keep some heat in. Heā€™s slept his longest stretch when itā€™s been under 16 but itā€™s such a concern if he then gets ill
I canā€™t afford to keep the heating on just to keep the house at 16 degrees so Iā€™m having to put the heater on every time I go in his room so the electrics high instead šŸ™ƒ
 
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Weā€™re in a new build and itā€™s freezing, Iā€™ve gone in his room every night this week and itā€™s been around 15.6 so lower than the recommended temp I donā€™t think thatā€™s the reason heā€™s waking heā€™s in a long sleeve vest sleepsuit 2.5 tog bag and his helmet is meant to keep some heat in. Heā€™s slept his longest stretch when itā€™s been under 16 but itā€™s such a concern if he then gets ill
I canā€™t afford to keep the heating on just to keep the house at 16 degrees so Iā€™m having to put the heater on every time I go in his room so the electrics high instead šŸ™ƒ
Can you get some foil behind the radiators to reflect some heat in? Maybe a draft stopper attached to the bottom of his door so the heat can't escape under there & some thick or doubled up curtains and blinds to block any heat escaping the windows too?
 
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