New baby and post birth advice #34 Just press the tummy to turn it off

Jellybean093 said:

KW has well pissed me off today. He’s off work, sick, so has obviously been home all day. I still end up doing nearly everything, even though I’m working?!
I asked him to make the 6yo packed lunch today, while I was defleaing upstairs (yey to cats with fleas who I only put stuff on for 3 weeks ago any ideas on the best flea bombs welcome!!) he couldn’t have sighed louder! Anyway, I took the boys out so he had time to himself (still working!!!) came home and he’s had a little nap, on the stripped bed, unmade, so that’s a job for me later. 20 mins after baby’s bottle was due I said ‘Ah, let’s do your bottle’ while u had both boys climbing on me , while trying to work. Anyway, I made a comment about daddy doing it, but got ‘I’ve got to do the school run’ ok. But you don’t have to leave for 10 minutes and I’ve done the water, just add the milk?!
I can’t win. He works, kids aren’t his problem. He’s sick, kids aren’t his problem. I work, kids are my problem. Im sick, kids are my problem. So fed up of it. And so, so tired

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Jellybean093 said:

KW has well pissed me off today. He’s off work, sick, so has obviously been home all day. I still end up doing nearly everything, even though I’m working?!
I asked him to make the 6yo packed lunch today, while I was defleaing upstairs (yey to cats with fleas who I only put stuff on for 3 weeks ago any ideas on the best flea bombs welcome!!) he couldn’t have sighed louder! Anyway, I took the boys out so he had time to himself (still working!!!) came home and he’s had a little nap, on the stripped bed, unmade, so that’s a job for me later. 20 mins after baby’s bottle was due I said ‘Ah, let’s do your bottle’ while u had both boys climbing on me , while trying to work. Anyway, I made a comment about daddy doing it, but got ‘I’ve got to do the school run’ ok. But you don’t have to leave for 10 minutes and I’ve done the water, just add the milk?!
I can’t win. He works, kids aren’t his problem. He’s sick, kids aren’t his problem. I work, kids are my problem. Im sick, kids are my problem. So fed up of it. And so, so tired

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miaaaa said:

I've just downloaded vinted after all this time... I feel like it's a downward spiral from here on out



What a knob. They literally can't multi task, it's impossible for them.

When we had a cat and she caught them we used this and it got them straight away. Had to flea bomb the house so vacated to MILS for the night and they were all gone - Virbac Indorex Defence Spray (pets at home)

And also got a flea collar and that stopped anymore.

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Jellybean093 said:

No they can’t, and if I said anything, he would get humpy, because he does more than most (which in fairness, when it comes to house work, he does. Apart from stripping/making beds and any kind of washing 🫠)

So, I done the spray this morning. Hoping it works. Wondering if the bomb would work better as it would get in gaps I may have missed? Hoping the vet can prescribe stronger stuff for her. I once had a cat who had fleas, the stuff didn’t work and my flat was infested. I had to get out pest control 3x and I’m dreading this happening again!!

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jackolantern said:

This has absolutely no relevance to the thread whatsoever but I FUCKING HATE customers and even more so ones who come in and sing to the store music. Fuck off and when you get there, fuck off some more.

I bet Snoop is the type

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I’mThankyou_ said:

We love a boogie and sing song around Asda to Asda FM

I'll see myself out

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jackolantern said:

https://giphy.com/hFdi31x0aTdMIydxuO
Shit, were u Snoop all along!?

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I’mThankyou_ said:

I have more self respect than that
In my defence, I have no choice but to have a dance to what ever Asda are playing else the Kray Twins will scream at everyone we pass

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jackolantern said:

As long as you don't match it with a "Oh it must be lovely having a nice little shop job with no stress and responsibility" while your demons are pulling my shop down, cause NO JANICE IT FUCKING ISN'T ALREET

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I’mThankyou_ said:

Please punch these people
Why are people that happy and peppy?

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jackolantern said:

This has absolutely no relevance to the thread whatsoever but I FUCKING HATE customers and even more so ones who come in and sing to the store music. Fuck off and when you get there, fuck off some more.

I bet Snoop is the type

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I’mThankyou_ said:

We love a boogie and sing song around Asda to Asda FM

I'll see myself out

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LilyRose1234 said:

Oh my god sometimes I sing along to the baby to make her laugh

Biggest radio station in the uk fyi they play some bangers

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I’mThankyou_ said:

We love a boogie and sing song around Asda to Asda FM

I'll see myself out

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jackolantern said:

I can forgive you if you are singing to a baby, but if you are on your todd sqwuaking along thinking you are Beyoncé and grinning at me, you can get in the bin with the HVs

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LilyRose1234 said:

I may potentially sung quietly pre baby, but it’s not my fault Asda brings the tunes

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I’mThankyou_ said:

Morrisons and Asda seriously pump the jams.
Aldi need to take a hint

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LilyRose1234 said:

Omg yes, I was about to say Morrisons too! Honestly enough to put me off Tesco for life, life is too short not to shop to Wham

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Hannah_204 said:

Been so long since I’ve been on this thread hope everyone and babies are doing well!

had anyone seen any cute Christmas baby grows? I know she’ll be one but I want to dress her up as A candy cane!

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