I’m not just saying it because I’m online and acting brave but I honestly would never reply or acknowledge her again in my life. Life is too short to let someone make you feel like tit. I wouldn’t want her or her righteous self anywhere near me. Ever.I feel like I’ve been on the edge of tears nearly all day after receiving a WhatsApp message that begins ‘here’s some unsolicited advice…’ from someone in my antenatal class (ie another first time mum). I had never before felt like I was doing a tit job as baby author seems a pretty happy and contented little chap on the whole, and I’m a pretty strong believer in all babies are their own selves so what works for one won’t work for another, but now I’ve completely lost all my confidence.
Sorry I just had to write down how I’m feeling somewhere. Mr Authors response is to just not reply, but I was meant to see this woman tomorrow and at random coffee meet-ups so our paths will cross again. I hate that her stupid message has got to me so much.
ETA I’m aware mr relationships and friendships are a model for baby Waka. I wouldn’t let her see anyone disrespect me nor would I want her to see someone giving advice where it wasn’t asked for and making others feel inadequate