bless you that is absolutely shite. Can you tell him how all this makes you feel as he may be completely oblivious? Hope you're ok lovely, bloody MEN xI don’t know if I’m completely overreacting here but Mr Goss has just really pissed me off.
Baby is staying at my parents for the first time this Saturday night, as a trial run for when we have to leave her to go to a wedding next month. Mr Goss found out that he got a new job he went for () so we planned to go out for a meal and drinks in London. We’ve not been out just the two of us since she was born 7 months ago, so I was really looking forward to it. We were then going for a bbq at my mums the next day.
Today his mate text him to say that someone has pulled out of his stag do abroad this weekend and so does he want to go. Originally he wasn’t going because of the cost but now he’ll just need to pay the admin fee to change the flight plus spending money, so immediately he’s all excited saying how he could go.
As soon as I mentioned our plans he was like “we can just do that another time”. This is the only free weekend we have for over a month and we were supposed to be celebrating his new job. Plus if he’s not here baby will stay with me, so that’s changing my parents plans too. It’s not even like I can make plans and have a night out with friends because I literally have no money at the moment.
I get why he wants to go but I feel really upset that he’s so dismissive of doing anything with me. In the last month he’s had two weekends with mates where I’ve been at home with the baby. I just feel like I never get a bleeping break or do anything exciting!
Sorry….who told you it would be nice relaxing TV? Because whoever did sits on a throne of liesTo all of you who said Greys Anatomy would be nice relaxing TV to watch while off on maternity leave… what the duck?!
So far we’ve had a shooting, a bus crash, brain tumour, bomb explosion, a near drowning and now a plane crash?! Wtf, this is stressful
love greys but swear to god it takes years off my life with stress (not to be dramatic of course)How much of this should I hide behind a spoiler?!But don't you just love it.
Tell me your thoughts on 007 and the drowning and 300 hours of CPR
My knobwaffle pointed out I’ve gained a lot of grey hair lately. I retorted it was the stress of living with him, but maybe it was actually GA inducedSorry….who told you it would be nice relaxing TV? Because whoever did sits on a throne of lies
Honestly, the drowning episode made me question everything I learnt as a student nurseHow much of this should I hide behind a spoiler?!
The drowning was an absolute joke. She should be dead! Knew 007 was a goner though - mostly because he was missing with no explanation for the entire episode. Plus they seem to like killing off people when someone is happy. So I’m vaguely sure either Derek or Meredith will kick the bucket soon
My knobwaffle pointed out I’ve gained a lot of grey hair lately. I retorted it was the stress of living with him, but maybe it was actually GA induced
It wasn’t me but I do like the.toddler.diet!Sorry sorry, what was the weaning insta that was recommended? I can’t remember who recommended it
Oh he knows
He keeps coming into the living room to ‘hash it out’ which basically means discussing it non stop until I give in. He’s worked out we could do our night out next Friday instead so while it solves that issue, he doesn’t understand it’s the principle of me feeling second best and the fact I’ll be looking after the baby on my own for three days which is hard work!You are not overreacting at allThanks everyone. I can tell he’s a bit baffled about why I’m so upset () so I was starting to wonder if I was being a bit unreasonable.
My mum and dad would happily still have the baby if I wanted them to, so that is an option. I’m just annoyed with him as things had got a bit better with us recently, we’ve not been arguing as much - and then he springs this on me and I just think why do I bother. He keeps saying he wants us to talk about it like adults but what that means is he wants me to say “yes of course, you go I don’t mind” which isn’t going to happen.
I’ve been sat giving him the silent treatment, so much so that I didn’t realise baby has fallen asleep so I’m watching Ben & Holly on my own
haha I’ll forgive her a nip or two but if she tries treating my nipples like Sophie giraffe I’m outI had the fear too, I thought i was going to lose a nipple (thanks @Definitelyme!!) but I still have both nipples and he hasn’t been nibbling recently. Fingers crossed you don’t have any trouble
You can borrow mine that week too! #quadruplets
I'll lend you these for a week, you'll not want more
Solid starts is a good one too if blw interests youSorry sorry, what was the weaning insta that was recommended? I can’t remember who recommended it
Not overreacting I would be upset too! Men don’t realise how knackering mentally and physically being a mum is. We all look forward to a little me time as it happen so rarelyThanks everyone. I can tell he’s a bit baffled about why I’m so upset (
My mum and dad would happily still have the baby if I wanted them to, so that is an option. I’m just annoyed with him as things had got a bit better with us recently, we’ve not been arguing as much - and then he springs this on me and I just think why do I bother. He keeps saying he wants us to talk about it like adults but what that means is he wants me to say “yes of course, you go I don’t mind” which isn’t going to happen.
I’ve been sat giving him the silent treatment, so much so that I didn’t realise baby has fallen asleep so I’m watching Ben & Holly on my own
I don’t know if I’m completely overreacting here but Mr Goss has just really pissed me off.
Baby is staying at my parents for the first time this Saturday night, as a trial run for when we have to leave her to go to a wedding next month. Mr Goss found out that he got a new job he went for (
Today his mate text him to say that someone has pulled out of his stag do abroad this weekend and so does he want to go. Originally he wasn’t going because of the cost but now he’ll just need to pay the admin fee to change the flight plus spending money, so immediately he’s all excited saying how he could go.
As soon as I mentioned our plans he was like “we can just do that another time”. This is the only free weekend we have for over a month and we were supposed to be celebrating his new job. Plus if he’s not here baby will stay with me, so that’s changing my parents plans too. It’s not even like I can make plans and have a night out with friends because I literally have no money at the moment.
I get why he wants to go but I feel really upset that he’s so dismissive of doing anything with me. In the last month he’s had two weekends with mates where I’ve been at home with the baby. I just feel like I never get a bleeping break or do anything exciting!
Honestly there’s some very questionable medical practice isn’t there?!? Like at one point they’re talking about a twenty week baby that survived… that would be a world record since the most premature baby to ever survive in reality was 22+5. And whenever they’re doing a maternity stint (or ‘OB rotation’ as they call it…) they act like one deceleration on a fetal heart trace is a massive emergency whereas actually it’s really normal….Honestly, the drowning episode made me question everything I learnt as a student nurse
Honest to god! They intubated once and I was screaming at the TV because they'd used suction tube as an ET tube
You’re 100% right to be upset. That must feel really disappointing and unfair. Men just don’t understand how hard and isolating and lonely being a mum can be.I don’t know if I’m completely overreacting here but Mr Goss has just really pissed me off.
Baby is staying at my parents for the first time this Saturday night, as a trial run for when we have to leave her to go to a wedding next month. Mr Goss found out that he got a new job he went for (
Today his mate text him to say that someone has pulled out of his stag do abroad this weekend and so does he want to go. Originally he wasn’t going because of the cost but now he’ll just need to pay the admin fee to change the flight plus spending money, so immediately he’s all excited saying how he could go.
As soon as I mentioned our plans he was like “we can just do that another time”. This is the only free weekend we have for over a month and we were supposed to be celebrating his new job. Plus if he’s not here baby will stay with me, so that’s changing my parents plans too. It’s not even like I can make plans and have a night out with friends because I literally have no money at the moment.
I get why he wants to go but I feel really upset that he’s so dismissive of doing anything with me. In the last month he’s had two weekends with mates where I’ve been at home with the baby. I just feel like I never get a bleeping break or do anything exciting!
I know you want a canvas, but they do ‘no mess’ prints. I done one with the toddler and it came out really well!We got a canvas making thing for hand and foot prints, so I thought I’d give that a go. Why did I think painting a 7 month olds hand would be easy?! Paint everywhere and just a big painty splodge that doesn’t even slightly resemble a hand print on the canvas. Didn’t bother attempting her foot
Feet tend to be easier I find… requires lower levels of obedience from the childWe got a canvas making thing for hand and foot prints, so I thought I’d give that a go. Why did I think painting a 7 month olds hand would be easy?! Paint everywhere and just a big painty splodge that doesn’t even slightly resemble a hand print on the canvas. Didn’t bother attempting her foot
What about when the woman was crowning, then all of a sudden it wasn’t crowning, then they did a vaginal examination and diagnosed an abdominal tumour (?!) and so did a caesarean! Technically it is possible to do a section after crowning but it requires someone to literally push the baby back up inside the abdomen (thinking about this always makes me want to cross my legs), but you definitely can’t feel the baby’s stomach on a vaginal examination, and nor could you just diagnose a tumour that way eitherHonest to god! They intubated once and I was screaming at the TV because they'd used suction tube as an ET tube
It gets better after the airplane crash! You'll be fully grey soon
crikey!!! Were there any clues yesterday that they were coming!?The Polish axe got its own tick box
baby has woken up with 5(!!!!) teethand I got an email from work about returning in 12 weeks, I’m not going back but it’s like signalling that I won’t have a baby soon and he’ll be one
ETA: he had 0 teeth yesterday
we got a little hand and foot set when my baby was born. It was a bloody nightmareWe got a canvas making thing for hand and foot prints, so I thought I’d give that a go. Why did I think painting a 7 month olds hand would be easy?! Paint everywhere and just a big painty splodge that doesn’t even slightly resemble a hand print on the canvas. Didn’t bother attempting her foot
McSteamy > McDreamy
