I waited 3 months after my first18 days PP after episiotomy and forcep delivery..
And did the deed with the mister
I swear felt like the first time I was ever having sex with him again because I was so nervous
I was shocked at how not painful and normal it felt, I was worried it was going to feel like waving a stick around a tunnel 
Anbesol liquid is amazing! You can get it from chemists only thing that worked for my little boy edited to say it can only be used from 5 months sorryDoes anyone have any teething recommendations for a 3 month old? I've tried Ashton parsons powder, she wears Amber beads (not really helping) and she's not that interested in teething toys yet! She's crying in pain whilst chomping down on her hand and chews her bottle teat. She doesn't take a dummy but I tried her with it a few days ago and she chewed on it then fell asleep so must have helped her but since then she spits it out
I'm the sameYea I'm a horn dog as my partner says
didn't wait at all Muslin in the freezer and let her Chew!Does anyone have any teething recommendations for a 3 month old? I've tried Ashton parsons powder, she wears Amber beads (not really helping) and she's not that interested in teething toys yet! She's crying in pain whilst chomping down on her hand and chews her bottle teat. She doesn't take a dummy but I tried her with it a few days ago and she chewed on it then fell asleep so must have helped her but since then she spits it out
Same! My partner will be lucky to see my foof before Christmas, cba!bloody hell you lot are keen! Iβve told my husband we have all our babies, I have no need for that sort of business anymore
Thank you!! I'll get some when she's 5m as I've heard a lot of people saying it's a game changer!Anbesol liquid is amazing! You can get it from chemists only thing that worked for my little boy edited to say it can only be used from 5 months sorry
Never thought of that!! Thank you!
Just seen your comment about being a horn dog18 days PP after episiotomy and forcep delivery..
And did the deed with the mister
I swear felt like the first time I was ever having sex with him again because I was so nervous
I think we were about a similar sort of time. I had no tears but the first time I just felt really bruised inside. That went away about a week later though I had a smear a few months after she was born and remember mentioning it to the dr and she basically rammed her whole hand up and was like βitβs fine, he wonβt be bigger than my whole fist so heβll fitβ Christmas gift for him
are you constantly sore? You should mention to your gp at your 6 week check, or beforehand if itβs very bad.
Yes hun,it seems to be just where the stitches were now. Everything else looks normal and has cleared up but it's just so sore where I was stitched up,I don't know what to do. Iv not even taken baby out for a walk in the pram yet as it hurts so much. In fact there's alot of things I can't do because of it and jts really getting me down and spoiling thr experience of having a newborn. So many things I want to do that I can't,I get so jealous seeing new mums going places and doing things and I can't xxxxMy last two were sections so not the same worry about a sore vag, but omg I remember with my first (episiotomy, tear, stitches) trying to have sex and thinking they had sewed me up because it was so sore
Christmas gift for him
are you constantly sore? You should mention to your gp at your 6 week check, or beforehand if itβs very bad.
That sounds really awful, sending you loads of love. If I were you Iβd be phoning the GP today. It isnβt normal to still be so sore from stitches that you canβt go for a walk after 4 weeks. I know with bruising and trauma things can be tender for a while, but sounds like a lot more than that.X
and I have the thickest hair on the planet so it takes me about 2 hours from start to finish) so my partner said you do that this morning and I'll watch the wee one. So here I am two hours later with still wet hair, while he fannies about with the car. He finally comes up to take her and she needs a feed so here I will be for another 40 mins feeding, I've expressed plenty of milk for him to bottle feed her with nut of course she's screaming and needs fed ASAP . I've got guests coming at 1pm aswell 
I got a dyson air wrap for my bday 2 weeks ago and really want to use it Sounds about rightNeed a rant
Really pissed at my partner....I've not washed my hair for 10 days (not through lack of trying btw
I had her ALL day yesterday (which obviously I don't mind, I love her) but just wish sometimes he would offer to have her for a wee bit so I could nip out or anything! All I asked for was a couple hours to do my hair
I often feel like the default setting is kids with mum. Like if we are all in the same room my husband would just wander off and start doing something that could take an hour. If I even need to go to the toilet I have to say to him to make sure heβs watching the baby. Heβs a great dad, but I feel that itβs expensive heβs that mum is always going to be with the kids so dads donβt have to be, if that makes sense?Thanks hun. I took your advice and rang the doctors. Waiting for a phone appointment!!
I did say 'don't you think someone needs to see it in person??!!' Apparently not. Hope they don't want me to get my foof out on camera!!
I hate that at the minute. Get your phone appointment for the dr to say βoh Iβll need to see you in personβThanks hun. I took your advice and rang the doctors. Waiting for a phone appointment!!
hope you get to speak to them soon xDefinitely! I almost feel guilty asking for an hour to do something whereas he defo wouldn'tSounds about right
Thanks hun but what a waste of time! He justbszid unless it's smelling or oozing (infected) all I can do is wait. He said to gently massage where the scar tissue is, but that was all he said. But I'm in so much pain when I sit or walk. It's so sore and tender . It's getting me so down as I can't even take babyb for a walk. I feel like crying most days at the moment as the pain is really quite bad. I just want to go back to normal and be able to look after my baby without being in pain xxI hate that at the minute. Get your phone appointment for the dr to say βoh Iβll need to see you in personβ
Id a forceps delivery as well and an episiotomy but Iβd a 4th degree tear as well I waited to 4 months as had trouble with healing but was scared shitless the first time but it was fine thankfully18 days PP after episiotomy and forcep delivery..
And did the deed with the mister
I swear felt like the first time I was ever having sex with him again because I was so nervous
Iβd heard for some people it can be really painful I think if Iβd have done it earlier it would have been no way could I have done it at 18 days pp your brave 
