Didn't know this thread existed but... Could do with some words of support, maybe even to just rant it out.
I have an incredibly rocky relationship with my mum, and don't speak to my dad at all. Earlier this year I was diagnosed with EUPD/BPD, and since then the house has been like a modern day war zone. I am the criminal of the house, treated like such or rather that I don't exist. For some context, my dad has been physically and emotionally abusive since I can remember, whether that was being hit with a rubber soled slipper, a belt, fists/hands or reminding me that I am a worthless piece of tit who will never amount to anything. In the last year alone, he has told me to kill myself 14 times, it really is triggering to hear a parent say that.
My mother just sits and lets it happen, she always has, and she has never once taken to my defence. I can recall countless times she has told me the most disgusting things imaginable, only to be told I am a liar and attention seeker.
Unfortunately, due to being able to hold down a job, my diagnosis of EUPD was revoked, and therefore told there is nothing wrong with me. This has in turn created a further hostile environment as they now think I lied about the initial diagnosis for attention, regardless of the psychiatrist notes that were sent directly to me after each appointment.
I feel like a ticking time bomb, I have no way to escape this house. I am 26 with 2 maxed out credit cards, horrendous credit score, single person income, who lives in London where property prices are insane. And all I can think of is how much of a failure in life I am.