i’ve mentioned it before in this thread but while on holiday in chicago with my family we had an american waitress called sian. being welsh, we were excited to see this and she talked for ages about her welsh heritage etc etc. she then said that it’s tricky because no one ever pronounces her name right and proceeded to say it as it’s spelt: see-ann. which, obviously, is wrong. very awkward moment while my family and i tried to judge whether or not to correct her
we didn’t in the end, but you’re right that it’s strange thing to pick a name and then pronounce it your way. it’s like being named louis and going by lewis. while in boston i met an american aoife who pronounced it as spelt too.
sadly i think it’s rife in the us because they’re very interested in their heritage and being from elsewhere (mainly ireland) and so name their kids traditional names without really looking into how to say them. i feel like it’s insulting to the origin of the name itself.
i say this as someone with a ridiculous french name! my parents have always made the effort to pronounce it right though and always told me to correct people who said it differently.