He is definitely an emotional abuser, he’s got his girls onside and Nadia probably thinks that if they split that the girls would take his side and she may lose their relationship. He’s made such a big deal about his fragile emotional health that Nadia would be worried to leave him and the girls would also be worried
I agree, he is emotionally abusing her and that is incredibly sad. Despite how annoying she can be I do feel for her. She’s been trodden down gradually, bit by bit. So that she accepts much of his behaviour and will allow it to affect their lives. It’s no wonder poor Kiki has anxiety.
We talk lots on here about her nits, her need to shower, acting her age, the need to clean her home etc but I do feel that we are seeing emotional abuse. Aspects of how he speaks to her, treats her, the chaos in their lives with his extreme mood swings are being presented to us as if they are normal.
I can foresee their relationship ending and their world crashing in on them as a result if Nadia doesn’t do something big to stop it.