I clicked on it and "they" joined at 8.56 this morning and one thread is just filled with Insta posts for some bloke called Sean. Now it say it is a new feature to post Instas.
Nadia Sawalha #46 Several teaspoons of Gin, desperate to be thin, the whole house is a bin.
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I’ve not mentioned it on here previously because I felt it was too personal for me to bring it on to Tattle, and I’m not prepared to take screenshots, but S.E also regularly seems to be having anxiety attacks, and suffering with depression and sharing that fact on both IG, to N&M, and sharing it on FB to the subs. That seems to have prompted many other subs to also post on FB that they’ve been having breakdowns etc.View attachment 825461
This how sucked in these vulnerable people are..I don’t judge anyone but Lior told the flock that she has severe anxiety & can’t leave the housethe Sadderleys lies are clearly rubbing off on people..don’t look much wrong with her..zoom in & her profile pic is of Dina,dance yer tits off & some others. She seems to
stalkfollow Dina around. Dumb & Dumber obviously don’t pay her enough attention
There has also regularly been comments on their lives from subs saying they want to end their life.
It appears like they’re competing for N&M’s attention and using mental health as a way to get it because of N&M’s regular discussions on the topic.
I find it very strange. I struggle with both anxiety and depression at times, but I get through it privately. If I needed support, I’d speak to family/friends. I wouldn’t dream of using it for attention on social media.
I do wonder though, if some of these situations are just made up to try to get N&M to make contact with them…
Either way, it’s sad, and it’s something that N&M have created by using their own mental health for attention.
I actually think they’ve created something quite dangerous with their YouTube channel and ‘community’, and it could be only a matter of time before someone goes too far and does something that can’t be undone. They are playing with people’s lives, and getting away with it.
You've hit the nail on the head. I was wondering the same thing. It seems as though every topic the S'adderleys mention, a sub has an extreme story relating to it. I don't doubt that many of their subs have issues, but some of the stories (not just mental health) seem very far fetched. I also notice some of the subs type in block capitals to make their text stand out to Mark and Nadia in the live chat.
Yes they do all seem to compete with each other about who is more ill physically and mentally. It's another reason why I pulled back from interacting months ago. ( I kept my membership until the other day however until they really annoyed me with their excuses!) They think they have got a positive community, but I think it is anything but.
One of them this morning said they were scared and never felt so bad and constantly had very dark thoughts. The only reply from one of the others said hang in there it will pass. And that was it, no kind words from either of them.
And this is why I feel it’s so dangerous. They do not care.
But THEY have created this unhealthy community, so they have a duty to either give the attention (which probably wouldn’t be a good thing because it’ll only encourage it more), or put a stop to it before something terrible happens.
Your right @rivermonster nothing is ever reciprocated (or equal) with them.
They get fawned all over from having a bit of a bad cold yet some of the subs can be suicidal and get little to no input or advice from others?
Then of course people could say with some justification that they are not trained or qualified (yes even you Mark!) to deal with people having a mental health crisis or episode i.e the advice given to call the Samaritans?
As we all know though that doesn't stop them from making (poor) mental health a hot topic that they constantly use on their channel?
So they are deliberately cultivating (I think) a kind of group therapy atmosphere?
People are reminded also triggered (re opening old wounds) and most people want to empathise but also some people want to be heard or comforted or given understanding or kindness?
That to a certain extent is human nature and you know Nadia blathers on about #bekind (to her) but then extend that kindness to others as well?
It's supposed to work both ways!
I honestly believe that in truth they are both very uncomfortable around emotion and nevermind praising each other neither of them have very developed emotional intelligence!
I just see them clam up instantly whenever anyone needs help?
That's because in my opinion both of them are very unhelpful people!
It's that characteristic I think that makes a difference and also is the genuine hallmark of an empath (yes Nadia)!
The extent to which you are helpful towards others and really I don't see this in either of them?
Putting themselves out for others no I'm sorry that does not happen the exact opposite in fact!
Others are often an inconvenience a worry a source of validation a scapegoat or a means towards an end!
You can fake anything these days but you cannot successfully fake kindness because sooner or later when called to take action it will be obvious?
So we on here judge them by their actions and those do not reveal kind or considerate people but mercenary and scheming and duplicitous people.
No wonder some subs are feeling so frustrated and with pent up emotions.....they turn to the SA',s for support predictably enough it is not there and it never will be.
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@HereForAScroll Jesus Christ it has really got out of hand now. I don't really get an opportunity to see much of the chat as I do the recap, but that is beyond the pale. They just seem to not acknowledge them, as previously they would say call the Samaritans if you are feeling depressed or see someone qualified. It's just sickening behaviour.
Some of the subs are on multiple channels crying out for help. Claire S has threatened to commit suicide on the Sawalha-Adderleys channel and Emma Kenny the TV agony aunt channel.
On occasion I've watched the live chat on youtube and Claire is absolutely desperate for attention regarding her poor mental health and how she cannot go on.
Ashley is another, he's always telling anyone who will listen how he's had enough and wants to give up.
The Sawalha-Adderleys do not care at all.
They drag these people in by using their channel as a sounding board, by oversharing with their audience how they are feeling. Woe be tide anyone who offers them practical advice. That's not what Mark & Nadia want, they just want to moan to an audience and get sympathy and praise.
In doing what thryve done they have attracted some v vulnerable people with Complex needs which they have no skill or desire to help. They signpost everyone to the "mind website" like its the font of all knowledge re mental health.
I've always believed their behaviour will backfire spectacularly one day and I still do. Their desperate subs have screamed out for attention for quite some time now, one day one of them might do what they keep threatening as Mark and Nadia truly are not listening and really don't care about anyone but themselves.
Their channel really really should not be allowed, its very dangerous. They are not qualified and they are not interested in anyone except themselves
On occasion I've watched the live chat on youtube and Claire is absolutely desperate for attention regarding her poor mental health and how she cannot go on.
Ashley is another, he's always telling anyone who will listen how he's had enough and wants to give up.
The Sawalha-Adderleys do not care at all.
They drag these people in by using their channel as a sounding board, by oversharing with their audience how they are feeling. Woe be tide anyone who offers them practical advice. That's not what Mark & Nadia want, they just want to moan to an audience and get sympathy and praise.
In doing what thryve done they have attracted some v vulnerable people with Complex needs which they have no skill or desire to help. They signpost everyone to the "mind website" like its the font of all knowledge re mental health.
I've always believed their behaviour will backfire spectacularly one day and I still do. Their desperate subs have screamed out for attention for quite some time now, one day one of them might do what they keep threatening as Mark and Nadia truly are not listening and really don't care about anyone but themselves.
Their channel really really should not be allowed, its very dangerous. They are not qualified and they are not interested in anyone except themselves
I’m sure you haven’t @Bash a Troll@HereForAScroll I’m sorry if I have offended anyone with the above post it was never my intention
I wasn’t suggesting you shouldn’t post what you did either - you’ve posted a screenshot from a public account, which is totally fine.
In doing that, you lead me on to air a concern of mine too.
I often post screenshots from the FB group, but I wanted to make the point on here that I wouldn’t post screenshots of all the anxiety/depression/personal type posts simply because they’re posted on a private FB group, so I don’t personally feel it would be right for me to share them.
Anything on a public profile/group is fair game in my opinion
Did you hear him on coffee moaning talking about cleverness and being clever himself "It's been an embarrassment all my life"
It's been months since I've watched their moaning.
This is what their talking about with everything that's going on in the world. I have been dumbed down. Have a lovely Sunday tattlers
It's been months since I've watched their moaning.
This is what their talking about with everything that's going on in the world. I have been dumbed down. Have a lovely Sunday tattlers
Did you hear him on coffee moaning talking about cleverness and being clever himself "It's been an embarrassment all my life"
It's been months since I've watched their moaning.
This is what their talking about with everything that's going on in the world. I have been dumbed down. Have a lovely Sunday tattlers
LOL @Billy Awkward 🤪 So it's being clever that's caused him embarrassment all his life Oh the anguish that must have caused ?Nothing to do with acting like an infantile Pervy man child with questionable personal hygiene and no sense of decorum or personal boundaries then?
Righty ho! Whatever you say Mark?
Gets out the world's smallest
violin.Yes folks he can't help it!
don't we understand that normal rules or judgement does not apply here?Silly us!
Manky doesn’t have time to do THE ONE THING he is actually being compensated for in a professional capacity - the NNSS- yet he has all the time in the world to take an online IQ test to see how he matches up against his stalking target Kate Beckinsale. If Manky actually has an IQ of 150 (as the proud peacock-womble claimed), then I will gift him an iron for his wrinkled wardrobe and some melatonin for his alleged insomnia. The grubby grifter is becoming more and more pathetic.Title is "Do We All DUMB Ourselves Down for Others, Quick FIXES for a HEALTHIER LIFE." I don't know about you, but I feel like my brain cells shrink watching these lives. Will Nads show up today?
Oh look! Nadia is with us with, as my Nana would say, her hair sticking out like sore fingers. The doofus is dressed like, a muppet with the faux fur hat and a Cookie Monster fleecy thing. How apropos! Apparently Mark has not slept all night. "We are fucked" says Nads. Nadia tells us they have both been sick for a while now. Nadia says she feels with people with long term illnesses. I'm sorry, but poor sleep hygiene, boozing, binging isn't in the realm of a long term illness. "Your health is your wealth." Says so many people are feeling ill and feeling low. Trina says she is feeling great. Roll call. Daylene says she and her 6yo have tested positive for COVID and she feeling a little scared. Mark is trying to put the hoody up over his hat. Dipstick. Nadia tells her not to feel scared. She isn't over 60 so she will be fine. How the duck does she know? Nadia says Jeremy Clarkson is close to 60 has had pneumonia, heart condition, maybe diabetes, got COVID and kicked it in 4 days. That's debatable.Mark says Clarkson's farm programme is effin hilarious. Mark has his theory on why everyone is down is because the mood music is softening us up for a miserable time at Christmas. What mood music? Abbey asks if they think the PCR tests aren't picking up new variants. Mark says he has been saying that for a while now. Well la dee dah.
Nadia tells Mark to show off is onesie to cheer us all up. Yes, really. By the way, the NNSS will be a live on Monday. So, Cookie Monster eyes on top of the hood, on the back it says HUNGRY. That's my mum's nickname for me, Cookie Monster. It's true though.
Nadia says yesterday was their snogaversary. "The girls went 'Oh don't celebrate with a snog.'" "They didn't like me doing the post. They don't like me doing anything." Mark can't remember when they snogged. Eww, Mark is hacking away and he is definitely NOT covering his mouth.Nadia says Maddie has the same thing going on. What? There isn't any thing in your magic box to cure it?
Cesar thinks Mark has walking pneumonia and Nadia says thanks, because that is what she thinks he has. Is he checking his phlegm colour? You will know if it changes colour. Do these people ever seen a physician? Mark asks what walking pneumonia is. Nadia says "It's when you're not half dead, but you've got it. It's what Elton John had."
I have had bronchitis and pneumonia and I am sure that is what caused my hiatal hernia, all that hacking. Nadia says he is coughing around the clock, she even filmed him. Idiot.
Deborah had the non-COVID lurgy and she had hubs are going to Hastings to blow the cobwebs off. Nadia starts whinging about wanting to go away AGAIN! "Can't we go a day by the sea?" Mark suggests sitting in the garden. She says she will see Caz in Brighton, he mentions he hates Brighton. She suggests she goes to Brighton and he can spend the day writing. Mark mentions having double pneumonia as a boy and thinks you can only get it once. God, he thinks it's chicken pox for crissakes.Nadia says they are boring people with their illnes chat. Mark blames her and says they should be talking about snogging. So this Afternoon Tea thing is their NEW Saturday show. Cesar says he has asthma and with a cough it can go into walking pneumonia. "THANK YOU CESAR!" says Nadia. Nadia says he only listens to the chatters never her. He now demonstrates his wheeze. For someone almost a Phd. he is really dumb. See kids, just because you're educated, doesn't mean you're smart. Nadia asks where his asthma puffer is. He is worried about the antibiotics interacting with is bipolar meds and quite frankly MARK, that is the least of your worries, unless you want to end up in hospital DIPSHIT!
Other chatters say it is a chest infection and on and on and on it goes. Nadia "And do you know what he did? Listen to this right, he was dying with his cough and he did a Joe Wicks, he was pouring with sweat, then he went outside. I said you could have a heart infection." MORON. Nadia says to Mark if he does a workout today, she is leaving him. "I'm not watching that self-murder." That is Nadia speak for suicide.
Mark is singing Doctor, Doctor. When he was a kid he saw them on the bus at Notting Gate, got on the bus to go up to them and say "You're the Thompson Twins" and promptly left. Nadia says one of his inhalers in the car. Mark said he found one in the dog bed. I feel like just quitting this recap, because the stupidity is hurting my head.Mark's imaginary friend Kate Beckinsale made a post about dumbing oneself down for others. Some journalist got snide with her IQ claiming she was showing off. "It made me so cross that." Nads says Mark has fallen in love with her intelligence. Mark claims his is 150 and that puts one in the very superior range, I Googled it. Liar, liar, pants on fire. Kate's is apparently 152. After liking her post, Nadia realized that she has never had to dumb herself down.
Mark says she may be of average academic intelligence, but she is whipsmart intelligent in other areas of life. Nadia says her emotional intelligence would beat Mark. Nadia says men never have to dumb themselves down on a date. (I remember someone talking about me when I was younger, saying I would never get a date if I didn't dumb myself down. Like I gave 2 fucks.
) Zoe says she wishes she had the option for duck's sake.
Mark said his nan hid her intelligence under a bushel. Nads says her mum is quiet but then all of a sudden she fires one of her darts and makes everyone take notice. Their Michelle says she overheard a teacher say that she wasn't as dumb as she looked and she wanted to know how dumb she did look.
The more Nadia thinks about she does recall dumbing herself down with boys. Talk about their girls and specifically one of them and Mark says none of them, look at Izzy and Fleur. Gloria says she would never dumb down, what you see is what you get. Nadia says she remembers everything about other people's lives, because that interests her. Get this, Mark says that so many people in his life have bludgeoned him with their intelligence and how smart they are. Umm, Mr. Kettle is on line 1 for Mark.
The resident BLM dude Reece says it is important to find an assertive inner voice. Has been talked down to when people have remarked that he is very articulate. Yeah that old chestnut, you can choose to be offended. Are we taking on everything thing that goes on in the States? Black ally Mark says he can well-imagine that. Sophie broke-up with a bf because he was too smart. Nads says they compliment each other, but if they had met earlier she would have been intimidated. I was bothered by a bf who came from a wealthy family, a red Tory. Cuz the sex was that good, I didn't stay bothered.Look out, cuz Mark is on a tear now. Did you know that Mark was one of two kids in his class that went to uni? Now you know. Melanie is doing a useful science degree and hates the degradation of the arts. Yeah, my guidance counsellor told me, it's nice to do an arts degree at university. You get a nice appreciation of life, BUT YOU WON'T MAKE A LOT OF MONEY. This dude was a priest as well. Still worn plaid bellbottoms, it was 1988!
The both look down under the table, it's Toffs Mark thinks they may need the loo. "Oh yeah, open the door" says Nads.
Quick fixes for a healthier life. Go for a 10 mins stroll after a meal. I can't walk on a full stomach myself. Nads would love to go for a walk after dinner, but she can't because she is a WOMYN. Eat an orange a day for eyesight. Screw that, irritates my stomach. Mark hates oranges. If Nadia was in Morocco she would. Cut salt intake by half a teaspoon. No more than 1 tsp a day. Change the order in which you eat your food. Leave carbs until last during your meal. Diabetics who did that, it was more beneficial. Mug of warm milk to help you sleep. Duh. Nadia wonders if that is why she is sleepy after a milky coffee. Eat nuts and Nadia says Brits are scared of nuts. Eating 25 grams of nuts a day created a 15% cut heart disease risk. Nadia warns us to keep the nuts in the freezer. Almonds, Mark hates them confirming there is something wrong with him. Walnuts he likes and well those can give you canker sores, but he is probably into that. Nadia emphasizes they have to be RAW. She is really scratching her head hard at the moment. Eww. "Brazil nuts are good." You can poison yourself if you eat more than 3 in a day. Mark tells us his film reviews coming up, Venom, Dune, French Dispatch, Last Duel. Back to food, eat Greek yoghurt for bones and blood sugar spikes. Nadia loves her yoghurt in the morning. Eat an avocado for belly fat for women, gut microbes. Two apples a day to reduce cholesterol. Five prunes a day for you heart. Nads suggests almond butter and apples. Unless you are allergic, just use peanut butter. It had loads more protein than almond butter. Somone asks if Nadia is on statins. She is not...YET. Yeah, I'm going to hell. I have been working on my handbasket this weekend.
They are exhausted so they have to go. NN Monday Show at noon. It's half term. Nadia has whatever she wants in 8 hours Natasha. She had McDonald's 2 days in a row for her dinner. As someone who does partake in the fast food, I would never eat that 2 days in a row. McDick's is not that good, even by take-out burger standards. HIT THE LIKE BUTTON. 770 WATCHING, 160 LIKES. COME ON WE HAVE COME FROM OUT SICK BEDS TO TALK TO YOU. LATER TODAY IS A FILM THEY DID WITH A BRAND WITH MADDIE AND NANNY DI. TOMORROW A CHICKEN AND PASTA DINNER AND MINI BANANA PANCAKE THINGS WITH CHOCOLATE. NORMAL VLOG TOMORROW AND VENOM REVIEW TOMORROW. BROWN BANANAS AND CHOCOLATE BUTTONS. Zoe is having a roast and Nadia has wanted one all week. Wah, wah. END OF THE WEEK GFH. THANK YOU GUYS LOTS OF LOVE. Buh bye.
Such an excellent post @notSUBmissive and I wholeheartedly agreeSome of the subs are on multiple channels crying out for help. Claire S has threatened to commit suicide on the Sawalha-Adderleys channel and Emma Kenny the TV agony aunt channel.
On occasion I've watched the live chat on youtube and Claire is absolutely desperate for attention regarding her poor mental health and how she cannot go on.
Ashley is another, he's always telling anyone who will listen how he's had enough and wants to give up.
The Sawalha-Adderleys do not care at all.
They drag these people in by using their channel as a sounding board, by oversharing with their audience how they are feeling. Woe be tide anyone who offers them practical advice. That's not what Mark & Nadia want, they just want to moan to an audience and get sympathy and praise.
In doing what thryve done they have attracted some v vulnerable people with Complex needs which they have no skill or desire to help. They signpost everyone to the "mind website" like its the font of all knowledge re mental health.
I've always believed their behaviour will backfire spectacularly one day and I still do. Their desperate subs have screamed out for attention for quite some time now, one day one of them might do what they keep threatening as Mark and Nadia truly are not listening and really don't care about anyone but themselves.
Their channel really really should not be allowed, its very dangerous. They are not qualified and they are not interested in anyone except themselves
I really believe that's the one of the main reasons why a lot of us call them out on this forum.We can see and sense the damage they are causing to others we have evidence of the impact of their selfish and short sighted behaviour. (Too numerous to list though God knows it's extensive!)
We feel bad for others getting sucked into the downward spiral the SA's create and maintain and we know that it benefits only them not others.
Despite their numerous protestations (and rants) and virtue signalling to the contrary!
We see through it all....(and they hate this) but they need dependants (subscribers) and it is a very unequal co dependant relationship they have created and their echo chamber is obviously very one sided and very unhealthy and yes I think your right it could be dangerous!
Just like any involvement with narcissists can be dangerous....they will suck you in ..(love bomb) promise you happiness (or whatever you need) food family friends etc etc ..and chronically under deliver...and short change and neglect and finally (when you have served your purpose) abandon!
That's exactly what they are doing day in and day out ...ever wondered why Mark doesn't recover despite all his drama r.e his mental health that's because he needs to get others to administer to his every need also create the right kind of atmosphere in which to attract vulnerable people also if criticised he has a ready made excuse?
It wasn't him (or her) it was the drinking/mental health episode/past trauma catching up etc etc.
His stalemate (never moving on) is reflected by some of the subs who also can't move on and stay stuck caught in a web by people who appeared to be superficiality charming but who only listen to themselves....(and expect everyone else to).....they don't hear or respond to distress in others!
Insult them or if they perceive it as such however and they fly into a rage. So their fragile ego is of paramount importance but caring about others is not their forte or even priority!
That imbalance leads to imbalanced states of mind in others who oscillate between hope (a shout out an acknowledgement) and despair....some of them cannot admit to themselves that the SA's are selfish and are using them?
So they do what abused people do all the time they blame themselves they internalise rejection it must be me they think ...I'm not good or interesting enough...and probably that triggers childhood abandonment or rejection or ambivalence.....all the things that Mark Adderley claims he suffered from...he is now (maybe unconsciously inflicting on others) and Nadia enables him .... because she wants to be the rescuer...but then first you need a victim .. ..(Mark?) or anyway a continuation of the Karpman triangle and then Mark himself needs victims too because as profitable as being a professional victim is he also has his ego to maintain!
If he's weak well it's a food chain and there are others underneath him in the pecking order?
Others more hurt more impoverished more trusting and also kinder and more sensitive and genuine!
He has exerted control now it makes his life easier to cope with but it seriously diminishes and undermines the (mental) health of others who are basically there just to be used.....and objectified he doesn't see them as individuals they are there just to serve Mark and Nadias interests!
That impact is pervasive tangible (especially to us) and yes potentially dangerous!
As close connections to predators (they both are sorry not sorry) always is.
Yes for those very reasons a lot of us wish that channel didn't exist they are definitely bad (negative) influencers!
Under who’s username? Nitty’s?
I’ll take it from that reaction @rivermonster was asking in general..? I did’t understand the question
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adCheck out my stories to see me and my family in full action camping (YES! It was freezing!) in the go...
adCheck out my stories to see me and my family in full action camping (YES! It was freezing!) in the gorgeous Cotswolds! We’ve teamed up with @axa_uk who always gives us the peace of mind to make the most of life (and I love making the most of life!) and we had the best weekend ever!
It’s always a winner getting back to the good stuff, the simple stuff! We laughed, we cried, we played, we took on challenges (check out our vlog on our YouTube channel) and I wouldn’t have changed a thing!
I would love to know, how do you make the most of life? How do you get back to the good stuff?
#GetBackToTheGoodStuff
Like the one above - they keep appearing on here, a new feature put on by Tattle.Under who’s username? Nitty’s?
I’ll take it from that reaction @rivermonster was asking in general..? I did’t understand the question
No thank you very much
Check out my stories to see me and my family in full action camping (YES! It was freezing!) in the go...
Check out my stories to see me and my family in full action camping (YES! It was freezing!) in the gorgeous Cotswolds! We’ve teamed up with @axa_uk who always gives us the peace of mind to make the most of life (and I love making the most of life!) and we had the best weekend ever!
It’s always a winner getting back to the good stuff, the simple stuff! We laughed, we cried, we played, we took on challenges (check out our vlog on our YouTube channel) and I wouldn’t have changed a thing!
I would love to know, how do you make the most of life? How do you get back to the good stuff?
#GetBackToTheGoodStuff
Is this going to happen every time she puts something on Insta I wonder
Really Nadia?
Do you really call dossing around in your cesspit, with your lazy work shy husband, and getting drunk every day, ‘making the most of life’?
Sounds great🥱
Well said. He’s such an idiot sitting there in an adult babygro and fuzzy hat. Does duck all except ride on his wife’s fading career
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