Really good idea , I think she is finding it so hard this time because mummy and daddy are away, they clearly help hugely because her inability to cope with them gone as well is very obvious , I don’t think she is missing any of them , she misses their help , if she does not accept the changes regardless of why it’s changed , stop being angry and just accept responsibility for choosing ton have 3 children remember that it was a conscious decision and just get on with being a mother! it is hard especially if you have no support but it’s life it’s reality at least you have income your not worrying about how you will feed your bairns or sitting freezing because your meter ran out and you already used your credit that is the reality for thousands of families working and those on benefits they would love the life you moan about , be thankful for a man who is earning good money, heathy bairns, good friends and supportive family you have no idea how lucky you are until you realise this you will not feel better stop comparing your life to those top instamummy bloggers and look at the very real poverty that exists for many young parents