I agree. The problem she has is she doesn’t know where she fits/what her purpose/contribution is now. She wants to stay in the limelight and keep herself relevant for the freebies but the problem is no one will touch her with a 50ft barge pole after her antics.. at least not for anything with any real clout/money. She can get all the gifted colouring books and tit hoodies but it doesn’t keep the kids warm or put food in their bellies. I think she genuinely believed she was the sole provider, it was all on her and she’s got this huge chip on her shoulder about it all. She can’t let go and see the bigger picture which is that she’s got the opportunity now to focus on being a present parent in her children’s lives. She can do the volunteering, the gym tots, ballet classes, library trips, but she doesn’t need to broadcast it to all and sundry because it doesn’t pay her to do so any longer. She’s fortunate to be in the position where even with an offshore husband she doesn’t have to work as there are plenty people I know who still need to work even part time with partners who work away. She goes on and on about bleeping me time but she doesn’t do ANYTHING to actually engage and make use of her own brain. She thinks it’s all going to the gym, getting her nails done, a mooch to town with her Mum.. that’s not real life for so many people! I truly believe if she even made the slightest attempt to even do some part time work, or volunteering she would begin to find herself and find her way in life beyond this constant streaming of utter tripe on Instagram.
I know, I’m rolling my own eyes at the suggestion of her volunteering after her previous in any sort of charitable doings but I bet there would be a charity shop in Banchory she could go and help out in on the day Poppy is in nursery and the kids are in school! 56 threads in and she still doesn’t get it... the insta gravy train has terminated at the station Reb. It’s time for you to put on your big boss girl pants and actually do something with yourself. If it’s not in working, remove the cameras, allow your children the privacy they deserve and focus on them completely.