Mrs Meldrum #49 Pat’s back to work, she’s so tired, how long before a nanny is hired?

[BettyCrocker]

I think there’s a possibility she goes on the Sunbed, years ago I used to use them and I’d get the white patch in the middle of my arms where they bend off holding the handles up above.... there’s no way is that a real tan, who keeps their tan that long especially living in Scotland.

100% sun beds and/or fake tan. It’s getting ridiculous though! Plus the filter she uses.

Someone needs to tell her that looking after your kids for a few hours is NOT “solo parenting” it’s just being a regular parent while your other half is at work.

Spending the day in the park..... hnmmm. Having more work done on the kitchen are we?!

 

[Exhaustednurse]

The solo parenting drama is just another example of why Grabby is just too immature to manage a social media account.

All she had to say in response to posters comments was ‘yep, point taken guys. It’s absolutely not proper solo parenting and I can see why that phrase may be sensitive to some’.

But no - she has to have a strop, allow the sheep to rip apart posters, and behave terribly

 

[Mamakarma]

Have worked in a role all my life where customers are key. A lot of issues with Reb here, mainly in her very poor knee jerk reactions and also her perception that everyone will agree with her and lick her arse.

Firstly, the customer is not always right but when you are the provider, or in her case want to encourage and keep followers/AD, then doing this type of rant on Insta, YT etc is doing her no favours at all. The proof is that in the majority of cases she will remove this type of backlash reaction and/or delete negative comments. The problem is people have already seen her rant and the damage has already been done.
I was always taught the key thing you must do is to think first then speak and/or write. Words and reaction in haste, either verbally or written, will never come across correctly. Before phoning a customer about a complaint, I will always prepare and ensure my tone is never aggressive, even if the customer is being unreasonable. For written, again I will complete a first draft then come back to it and in a lot of instances will totally change the tone.
Reb just lashes out because she expects that everyone will agree with her. She is totally ignoring that people are entitled to their opinion. If you put yourself out there in public as a job and to gain financially from it, then in her own words you need to put your big girl pants on and take the rough with the smooth. In absolutely no job in life with everyone agree with you, but how you manage this is the core strength. If this is something that she cannot stomach, then she is 100% in the wrong role.

She really needs to take stock and start acting like an adult and a professional. As someone has said she could have responded to the question on solo parenting in a much less aggressive manner, recognise the persons point of view and responded calmly. But, as is typical with her, she just gets defensive. Normally, this type of reaction means the person does not feel confident with their argument, so covers this with aggression.

Do not believe she has the professionalism or maturity to change.

 

[Moonstone]

Fixed this one for her....

 

[honeyimhome]

I think this meme was made for Grabecca

 

[Somerville12]

Words fail me... Getting/ teaching her kids to be as materialistic as her by giving them a fucking next catalogue to tick or circle things they want!!!!; And yet another sneaky,desperate tout for next to gift of give her an ad. so instead of giving them usborne books to read on the sofa , which you were raving over ,you stupid bloody peeling satsuma, you give them a bloody catalogue and film them. They are child actors with non of the child laws of protection or regulations

 

[Pandafeet]

Hey, back! Knew I couldn't stay away for long. My nose has been bothering me . Had a "mooch" on pat's insta. WT actual F is he doing talking about how "thin" edgy is and was etc infront of 3 daughters, what a prize twat!! Nothing changes....

 

[Timewaster19]

Ha ha she’s such a cow! Here you go Rebecca this woman went to her kids concern on her own then
Eight weeks after that concert, Matt died suddenly at work. He was 39. The virus that had put him in hospital but which we thought had been cleared had somehow invaded his heart.
In the space of a single unanswered text message, I became a solo parent.
Telling my then 6-year-old twins what had happened was unquestionably the hardest thing I’ve ever done.

 

[Largerlout]

She's such a fucking total cocunt. Her friend is posting her wedding photos with 2 of the girls as flowers girls....oh, oh, I'll just run upstairs and get MY wedding dress and put it on to deflect from the photos of Steph. Love Pat's comments...."I can't believe you can't get into it, you're super thin just now. Gee whizz!". & the blondest most lovely worldy babe...ha ha ha! Clearly not!!!

 

[Alightened]

Gosh these 4x a week gym session are strange!!!! EVERY DAY she’s there!!!

Well let's face it, she's not one of the brightest people around, maybe she thinks there are only 4 days in a week

 

[a.girl.has.no.name]

Next on mrsmpreloved this lovely outfit of Poppys complete with extra pen marks (possible dinner and other stuff who knows how lucky you will be).
Dont worry it hasn't been washed as I never wash the stuff Im gifted and plan to sell but just for you very unimportant people I have sprayed it with some crap in a can I was gifted so that I didn't need to wash clothes.
You can own this lovely outfit for the very fair one off payment of only £39.99 plus p+p (at time of listing p+p is £10 but can rise if I need a little extra to buy my team an ice cream)
Wanting to be totally transparent this not an AD because I dont believe I advertise I just scam you lucky people. First to type sold wins.

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Jesus Christ! She’s gifted all these expensive outfits then let’s them get ruined!! Why are they not in messy clothes considering they are camping ! If these fuckwits had half a brain, they’d be dangerous!

Also, #giftedthenshifted should be her new hashtag on all her posts, considering she flogs it all.

 

[Jade33]

"Just woken up and need to be at the gym in 10 minutes" *had plenty of time to post this pic tho wonder how many tries it took to get it just right?!

 

[Ohflogoff]

Ah gifted shoes (why are these companies wanting to be associated with her still?) and an aff link thrown in for good measure.

Good to see she doesn’t have the time to reply to dm’s, but she can trawl Nasty Gal for an aff link to a shitty tracksuit

 

[Largerlout]

Yeah I don’t think it was appropriate to share that photo of S in the wedding dress.

How tiny must Shady have been when they got married?! She’s tiny now so she must have been ridiculously thin, like, unhealthy thin. Lee needs to shut his bloody mouth - no wonder she’s obsessed with counting calories and eating tiny portions if that’s the way he carries on.

Get out ya wedding suit Melds.....see how you like the discussion in relation to its fitting....or not!

 

[Pushyplumb]

Do they do kids clubs camping?

 

[Redbreast]

Well I cant quite believe all the shit she spouted in that vlog Ive worked in schools in the early years for over 20 years and about the only thing I would say yes try to do is the dressing themself as it will be helpful during PE but having worked in many schools part of the PE lesson in the first term tends to be practicing changing and organising where to keep everything and even near the end of the year staff are still happy to turn clothes the correct way etc.

Yes the reading but thats something that parents should be doing not prep for school same with toileting the wiping themselves should have been practised for nursery really well in education nurseries as most wont accept children unless medical reason for not being toileted.

I find it very hard to believe that any school would say come and play on our grounds while we are closed at least none ive ever worked at would encourage this.

The organisation thing made me laugh not sure what Reb feels shes organising or how shes organised, yes you could try practicing this but skills like that come in time and are also dependant on the specific child some children are great but others like S if we believe Reb lose and forget everything mind it does show how little time Reb spends at the school thats she replace all S labelled lost items when the school lost property box/cupboard is probably full of it all.

But the thing that annoyed me most wast teach them their full name, in schools we register their full name but we always call them and label books, pegs etc with the name the child knows and parent say they are called. The she cant be Florrie as there is another Florrie in the class bullshit I think its more to do with Reb doesnt want another child sharing the name. I once worked in a class where there was 5 Mia's 3 were Mia on birth certs but the other 2 were an Amelia and the other Mia was her middle name but they called them Mia so thats what we used we didn't say you can not be Mia we already have 1.

My advice would be enjoy your summer with them dont put loads of pressure on them talk about school in general conversation but just be relaxed about it, the summer before starting school should be a time to enjoy relax and just share the moments you can with your child as once they start school they grow up so much faster.

Sorry for the long posted but that vlog shes trying to act like some sort of child/parent/school expert. She doesn't have a routine or organise anything properly during term time but she expects us to believe she will during the summer!

This! Will not be taking parenting advice from someone who plasters her children all over the internet, compromises their safety, leaves them in the car and lets them wonder off as they please, uses the youngest as a prop for humour and entertainment when she’s acting up instead of showing her the right way to do things, dumping them in childcare all of her holidays and fucking off to the gym in the day when she could go in the evening....that’s just scratching the surface...the list goes on. I’m not even watching the patronising idiot give me advice on how to parent my children.

 

[ALMRPM]

How does she not shower straight after the gym! Her night time routine was obviously a load of old seeing as she got up, and started washing the makeup off her face from the day before! The state of her room, and house in general, looks like she's been permanently burgled! Who picks up clothes off the floor and puts them back on. She's got no standards of personal hygiene at all.
As for the rest, leaving the kids in the car all that time who does that????? She's more bothered about filming for her vlog than the safety of her kids!!!!

 

[BettyCrocker]

The woman absolutely adores herself. Poppy is being used as prop so she can read hundreds of comments on how toned her arms are.

Yes they are toned Rebecca and I too would be like Arnold effing Schwarzenegger if my husband was at home 24/7 and I had in laws etc round the corner to help out.

What’s she going to do when Pat goes back to work? I bet ya Rammi or whatever his name is starts PTing her at home

Poppy has been used as a prop since conception.

Oh god - imagine old Rammi coming to
murder heights for a private home PT sesh. That would get the curtains twitching down Inchmarlo!

 

[Popper]

Wow. Just watched Pat’s stories with the wedding dress. There’s so much wrong with that 1 minute of footage. That poor child. Her Mother laughing at her because she was crying at something. I think edgy had better go and give that YouTube video on kid’s mental health that she made a good old watch. It just gets worse and worse.

 

[Balls]

Going through Poppy’s clothes...a pile for the bin, a pile for charity and a I don’t know pile...(read sale pile!!) then 5 seconds later who would like to buy these clothes couldn’t possibly give them to charity! Most will have been gifted to her!!

Also how about instead of spending 5 minutes showing off your arse and crotch that morning you could have wrapped the present!! Not rocket science this like!!!